• Ep 15: Walking in Grace When Jealousy Strains a Marriage | A Faith at Home Conversation
    Jan 25 2026

    In this Faith at Home conversation, we explore jealousy in marriage through a biblical lens, offering encouragement and clarity for everyday family life. This hope filled conversation speaks into faith and family, supporting parents who desire to strengthen faith, nurture family faith, and build strong families rooted in Scripture.

    In this episode, Lynette shares pastoral insight and biblical wisdom on navigating jealousy within marriage when it is rooted not in wrongdoing, but in woundedness. This conversation gently unpacks how unresolved pain, insecurity, and past experiences can distort trust and strain covenant relationships.

    Rather than responding out of fear or accusation, Scripture invites couples into grace-filled discernment—where compassion and boundaries work together, healing is pursued with humility, and marriage remains a place of safety, dignity, and restoration.

    🌿 In this episode, we explore:

    • God’s design for marriage as a place of safety and trust

    • Jealousy rooted in woundedness rather than present sin

    • The emotional cost for the accused spouse

    • Compassion without self-erasure

    • Healthy boundaries as an act of love

    • Seeking healing, counsel, and restoration

    This episode forms part of our ongoing focus on faith at home, Christian family life, and family discipleship, equipping parents to strengthen faith, nurture family faith, and build strong families through everyday obedience and grace.

    Whether you are walking through marital strain or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers hope, clarity, and reassurance that God’s grace meets us even in the most difficult places of faith and family life.

    CHAPTERS

    00:00 Introduction & Family Conversations

    00:52 When Jealousy Enters a Marriage

    02:10 God’s Design for Marriage

    03:38 Jealousy Rooted in Woundedness

    04:58 Feeling Threatened vs Feeling Accused

    06:05 The Hard Questions Jealousy Raises

    07:20 When the Past Shapes the Present

    09:20 Comparison, Insecurity & Fantasy

    11:10 The Emotional Cost for the Accused Spouse

    13:15 Love Is Not Self-Erasure

    14:40 Responding With Christ-Like Compassion

    16:45 Compassion vs Responsibility

    18:55 Why Boundaries Are an Act of Love

    31:10 Encouraging Healing & Seeking Help

    34:08 When Woundedness Turns Into Harm

    35:35 Hope, Healing & Restoration

    38:05 Facing the Root and Closing Reflections

    📖 Scriptures Mentioned

    • Proverbs 18:14 • Mark 12:31 • Psalm 55:22 • Matthew 12:20 • Galatians 6:2–5 • Ephesians 4:15 • Proverbs 11:14 • Romans 8:1 • Isaiah 61:1 • Philippians 1:6

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    41 min
  • Ep 14: Intentional Parenting That Builds Faith | A Faith at Home Conversation (Part 3 of 3)
    Jan 18 2026

    In this Faith at Home conversation, we explore intentional parenting that builds faith through a biblical lens, offering encouragement and clarity for everyday family life.

    This hope filled conversation speaks into faith and family, supporting parents who desire to strengthen faith, nurture family faith, and build strong families rooted in Scripture.

    This episode is Part 3 of a three-part series on parenting styles and boundaries. We focus on effective parenting techniques that help parents move from reacting to intentional, faith-filled parenting rooted in love, discipline, and connection.

    Through practical teaching and biblical wisdom, this conversation highlights family faith conversations and Christian family faith, equipping parents with tools such as active listening, positive reinforcement, setting clear limits, and modelling Christ-like character at home.

    IN THIS EPISODE, WE EXPLORE:

    • Effective parenting techniques for everyday family life

    • Intentional parenting and examining our motives

    • Why every child needs a different approach

    • Discipline that connects rather than punishes

    • Modelling faith through everyday actions

    • Children as borrowed gifts entrusted to us by God

    This episode forms part of our ongoing focus on faith at home, Christian family life, and family discipleship, equipping parents to strengthen faith, nurture family faith, and build strong families through everyday obedience and grace.

    Whether your children are young or grown, this conversation is here to encourage you, strengthen your faith, and remind you that you are not walking out faith and family life alone.

    CHAPTERS:

    00:00 Intro & Welcome

    00:52 Parenting Series Recap

    03:02 Effective Parenting Techniques

    03:42 Parenting Changes Your Life

    04:38 Every Child Is Different

    05:07 Intentional Parenting

    05:32 Check Your Motive

    06:22 Different Children, Different Tools

    07:30 Discipline That Connects

    08:02 Active Listening

    11:42 Positive Reinforcement

    13:52 Setting Clear Limits

    16:19 Be a Role Model

    18:19 Discipline, Not Punishment

    22:31 Children Are Borrowed Gifts

    29:15 Closing & Prayer

    SCRIPTURES REFERENCED:

    Proverbs 22:6

    Proverbs 13:24

    Ephesians 6:4

    Colossians 3:21

    Hebrews 12

    Psalm 127:3

    Deuteronomy 6:6–7

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    30 min
  • Ep 13: New Year’s Resolutions & Christian Families | A Faith at Home Conversation
    Jan 11 2026

    Faith at Home is shaped by direction and grace, not pressure or perfection.

    In this Faith at Home conversation, we explore New Year’s resolutions and Christian family life through a biblical lens, offering encouragement and clarity for everyday faith and family.

    This hope-filled conversation supports parents who desire to strengthen faith, nurture family faith, and practice family discipleship in ways that are rooted in Scripture rather than performance.

    In this episode, Carlette and Lynette reflect on the start of a new year and the pressure many families feel to “do better,” examining New Year’s resolutions from a Christian perspective. Together, they explore how faith shapes reflection, growth, and family life without placing unnecessary burdens on parents or children.

    Rather than striving for perfection, Scripture invites families to walk in grace, intention, and trust in God’s leading. This conversation encourages parents to consider direction over pressure, values over performance, and grace as the foundation for faith lived out at home.

    In this episode, we explore:

    • Reflecting on a new year through faith and family life

    • Biblical wisdom around growth, planning, and renewal

    • Why some Christians embrace resolutions and others hesitate

    • Pressure, perfectionism, and modern family life

    • Choosing direction, grace, and shared family values

    This episode forms part of our ongoing focus on Faith at Home, Christian family life, and family discipleship, equipping parents to strengthen faith and build strong families through everyday obedience and grace.

    Whether your children are young or grown, this conversation is here to encourage you, strengthen your faith, and remind you that you are not walking out faith and family life alone.

    CHAPTERS

    00:00 Intro – Family Conversations

    00:51 A Brand New Year

    01:25 New Year’s Resolutions

    02:10 Why We Reflect at the Start of the Year

    03:20 Faith, Growth & Family Life

    04:05 Should Christians Make New Year’s Resolutions?

    05:05 The Appeal of Resolutions

    06:45 Faithful Intentions for Families

    07:55 Why Some Christians Are Hesitant

    10:10 Pressure on Modern Families

    12:40 When Resolutions Become Burdens

    15:00 Direction, Not Perfection

    20:10 Choosing a Family Theme

    22:20 Involving the Whole Family

    25:20 Grace as the Foundation

    29:10 Final Encouragement & Next Week

    SCRIPTURES MENTIONED

    Lamentations 3:40

    Romans 12:2

    Proverbs 16:3

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    33 min
  • Ep 12: Parenting Styles That Shape Your Child’s Future | A Faith at Home Conversation (Part 2 of 3)
    Jan 5 2026

    Faith at Home is formed through everyday parenting choices, not perfection.

    In this Faith at Home conversation, we explore parenting styles that shape your child’s future through a biblical lens, offering encouragement and clarity for everyday Christian family life.

    This hope-filled conversation speaks into faith and family, supporting parents who desire to strengthen faith, nurture family faith, and practice family discipleship in real, practical ways.

    In Part 2 of a three-part series, Lynette shares biblical insight and practical wisdom on parenting styles, helping parents understand how love and discipline work together to form healthy boundaries, emotional security, and long-term spiritual growth in children.

    Drawing from Scripture and research, this episode explores how different parenting approaches affect obedience, self-esteem, and responsibility—inviting parents to move toward intentional, faith-filled parenting rather than reactive patterns.

    In this episode, we explore:

    • Parenting styles and their long-term impact on children

    • Love and discipline through a biblical framework

    • Research-based parenting styles and outcomes

    • Why boundaries help children feel safe

    • The authoritative parenting model as a biblical ideal

    This episode forms part of our ongoing focus on Faith at Home, Christian family life, and family discipleship, equipping parents to strengthen faith and build strong families through everyday obedience and grace.

    Whether your children are young or grown, this conversation is here to encourage you, strengthen your faith, and remind you that you are not walking out faith and family life alone.

    CHAPTERS

    00:00 Introduction

    00:51 Parenting Styles & Boundaries

    02:19 God’s Word on Discipline

    03:14 Parenting Styles Research (Minnesota Study)

    06:16 Four Parenting Styles Explained

    07:27 The Permissive Parent

    11:54 When Love Lacks Limits

    15:03 The Neglectful Parent

    19:52 The Cost of Neglect

    23:05 The Authoritarian Parent

    26:37 The Authoritative Parent

    29:01 The Biblical Ideal

    30:35 Children Are Borrowed Gifts

    32:11 Closing & Next Week Preview

    SCRIPTURES MENTIONED

    Proverbs 13:24

    Proverbs 23:13–14

    Hebrews 12

    1 Samuel 2–4

    Genesis 16–21

    Genesis 37

    1 Samuel 18–20

    1 Samuel 1–3

    Luke 2:40–52

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    34 min
  • Ep 11: How Should Christians Celebrate Christmas? | A Faith at Home Conversation
    Dec 28 2025

    Faith at Home is shaped through meaningful rhythms and intentional celebration.

    In this Faith at Home conversation, we explore how Christians should celebrate Christmas through a biblical lens, offering encouragement and clarity for everyday faith and family life.

    This hope-filled conversation speaks into faith and family, supporting parents who desire to strengthen faith, nurture family faith, and practice family discipleship in ways rooted in Scripture rather than pressure or comparison.

    In this episode, Lynette shares biblical insight and practical wisdom on celebrating Christmas with purpose, helping parents understand how faith shapes family traditions, generosity, and everyday life at home.

    Rather than reacting to cultural expectations or commercial pressure, Scripture invites families into faith-filled celebration—where we strengthen faith, cultivate peace, and build strong families through trust in God’s design.

    In this episode, we explore:

    • Why Christians celebrate Christmas

    • God entering human history as the heart of Christmas

    • Resisting commercial pressure with faith-filled intention

    • Loving others well through generosity and grace

    • Faith at Home practices for celebrating with children

    • Creating lasting family memories centered on Jesus

    This episode forms part of our ongoing focus on Faith at Home, Christian family life, and family discipleship, equipping parents to strengthen faith and build strong families through everyday obedience and grace.

    Whether your children are young or grown, this conversation is here to encourage you, strengthen your faith, and remind you that you are not walking out faith and family life alone.

    CHAPTERS / TIMESTAMPS

    00:00 Intro – How Should Christians Celebrate Christmas?

    00:52 The Core Question: Celebrating Christmas as a Christian

    01:47 Christmas Noise vs Meaning

    02:57 A Tender Season of Faith and Family

    04:02 When the Meaning Gets Lost

    05:07 Why Christians Celebrate Christmas

    06:22 God Entered Human History (The Heart of Christmas)

    08:32 Celebrating with Purpose and Awe

    09:37 Loving Others Well at Christmas

    11:07 Resisting the Commercial Trap

    13:12 Giving That Forms the Heart

    15:27 Faith at Home: Celebrating with Children

    28:57 Creating Lasting Memories – It’s All About Jesus

    📖 SCRIPTURE MENTIONED

    John 1:14

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    34 min
  • Ep 10: Special Days Christians Should Celebrate | A Faith at Home Conversation
    Dec 22 2025

    In this Faith at Home conversation, we explore the special days Christians should celebrate through a biblical lens, offering encouragement and clarity for everyday family life. This hope filled conversation is rooted in Scripture and speaks into family faith, helping parents navigate their calling with intention and peace.

    In this episode, Lynette reflects on why celebration is not separate from the Christian life, but deeply woven into God’s design for remembrance, gratitude, and spiritual growth. From global celebrations like Christmas and Easter to deeply personal milestones such as salvation, baptism, and answered prayer, these moments serve as sacred pauses that anchor our faith.

    Rather than empty traditions or religious obligations, Scripture shows us that remembering what God has done strengthens our trust, renews our hope, and helps faith become personal across generations and within the home.

    🌿 In this episode, we explore:

    • Why celebration is part of biblical faith • Sacred pauses that help us recognize God’s work • The meaning of spiritual milestones and remembrance • Global Christian celebrations and their significance • Personal faith moments that shape lifelong discipleship

    This episode forms part of our ongoing focus on Christian family life and family discipleship, equipping parents to raise children who are grounded in biblical truth and guided by faith.

    Whether your children are young or grown, our hope filled conversations will encourage you, strengthen you, and remind you that you are not parenting alone.

    ⏱️ CHAPTERS / TIMESTAMPS

    00:00 Intro — Special Days Christians Should Celebrate

    00:51 Why Christians Celebrate 01:18 Not Empty Traditions

    02:01 Sacred Pauses

    03:15 “This Was God”

    04:09 Global and Personal Celebrations

    04:46 Your Spiritual Birthday

    06:17 Faith Becomes Personal

    09:10 Choose This Day

    10:15 Why It Matters

    15:06 Baptism

    17:06 Christmas

    20:15 The Cross and Resurrection

    24:31 Pentecost

    27:08 Communion and Personal Milestones

    📖 Scriptures Mentioned

    • Joshua 24:15 • Mark 1:15 • Romans 10:9 • Exodus 16

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    35 min
  • Ep 09: Teaching Children Boundaries: Reactive vs Proactive Parenting | A Faith at Home Conversation (Part 1 of 3)
    Dec 15 2025

    In this Faith at Home conversation, we explore how Christian parents can teach children boundaries proactively rather than reactively, laying a foundation for healthy emotional, spiritual, and relational growth.

    This hope filled conversation is rooted in Scripture and speaks directly into everyday family faith and Christian family life, helping parents understand how boundaries shape a child’s sense of security, responsibility, and identity.

    Rather than reacting in anger or frustration, Scripture calls parents to discipline and instruction that reflects God’s heart — calm, consistent, and value-driven.

    🌿 In this episode, we explore:

    • What boundaries are and why they matter for children

    • The difference between reactive and proactive boundaries

    • Why boundaries begin from day one

    • How Scripture guides parents away from anger and toward instruction

    • Why children protest before they can verbalise emotions

    • How to respond to tantrums without reinforcing reactive behaviour

    • Teaching children responsibility instead of victim thinking

    • How values shape behaviour when rules are not present

    • Why proactive boundaries protect children as they grow

    This episode is part of our ongoing focus on Christian family life and family discipleship, equipping parents to raise children who are grounded, emotionally healthy, and rooted in biblical values.

    Whether your children are toddlers, teens, or already grown, our hope filled conversations will encourage you to reflect, reset, and parent with greater intention and peace.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction & Welcome

    00:00:51 Let’s Talk About Boundaries

    00:01:27 Why Boundaries Matter

    00:03:17 Biblical Foundations for Parenting

    00:07:44 Reactive vs Proactive Boundaries

    00:08:27 Boundaries Begin From Day One

    00:09:42 Understanding Tantrums & Reactive Behaviour

    00:11:07 Responding Calmly to Big Emotions

    00:15:57 From Reaction to Responsibility

    00:21:54 Teaching Values, Not Just Rules

    00:30:04 Part One & Series Setup

    📖 Scriptures Mentioned

    Ephesians 6:4

    Proverbs 22:6

    Proverbs 4:23

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    32 min
  • Ep 08: Arrows In Your Quiver | A Faith at Home Conversation
    Dec 7 2025

    Arrows In Your Quiver: A Biblical Guide to Raising Children With Purpose

    Psalm 127 gives us a powerful picture of parenting:

    Children are arrows, parents are warriors, and God is the One who builds the home.

    In this episode, we explore what this metaphor means for everyday family life — and how it shapes the way we raise, guide, and eventually release our children.

    🌿 In this episode we explore:

    • What “arrows in your quiver” really means

    • How Psalm 127 shows God’s design for family and community

    • Why parents carry both responsibility and blessing

    • The partnership between the parent and God

    • The warrior and bow imagery behind shaping a child’s life

    • The five foundations every child needs:

    – True salvation

    – Dedication

    – Godly values

    – Fear of the Lord

    – Belonging

    • How to trust God when the time comes to release your “arrow”

    Whether your children are young or grown, our hope filled conversations will encourage you, strengthen you, and remind you that you are not building alone.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction & Welcome

    00:00:52 Arrows in the Quiver – What Does It Mean?

    00:01:55 Psalm 127 Explained

    00:04:49 God’s Design for Family & Community

    00:10:37 Parenting as a God-Given Responsibility

    00:15:50 The Warrior, the Bow & the Values We Instill

    00:18:22 Five Foundations: Salvation, Dedication, Values, Fear of the Lord, Belonging

    00:27:23 Releasing Our Children & Trusting God

    00:29:30 Final Encouragement & Outro

    📖 Scriptures Mentioned

    Psalm 127

    Psalm 128

    Proverbs 22:6

    Malachi 4:6

    Acts 16:31

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    30 min