If you bring something up and your partner shuts down or your partner comes at you and something inside just closes that's not a bad marriage. That's a dance.
And in Part 1 of our four-part Relationship Dances series, we break down the Push-Pull cycle, why both of you are stuck in it, and the exact moves that actually get you out.
In this episode:
- Why the pursuer pushes harder when they're scared — and why it always backfires
- Why the distancer pulls away and why it has nothing to do with not caring
- How phones, scrolling, and busyness hide how disconnected you've actually become
- Why knowing the pattern isn't enough and what has to happen instead
- Why trust is built in the return, not the retreat
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22 min