Pitchforks, red spandex, and torture chambers. We all know the images, but are they actually in the Bible? Or are they just medieval fan fiction we’ve mistaken for theology?

In this episode, Nate and Tony are joined by Michael Slender to tackle one of the heaviest topics in the faith: Hell. We’re peeling back centuries of cultural baggage - from Dante’s Inferno to the "Hell Houses" of our youth groups - to find out what scripture actually says (and what it doesn’t).

We discuss:

• The "Scared Straight" Era: Why fear-based evangelism and "Hell Houses" might have missed the point.

• Dante vs. The Bible: How much of our view of the afterlife comes from a 14th-century poem?

• Pascal’s Wager: Is "fire insurance" really a foundation for a relationship with God?

• Heaven on Earth: Why the biblical narrative is less about escaping the "Bad Place" and more about restoring this one.

Note: This is Part 1 of a series. In the next episode, we will dive into the specific biblical words for Hell (Gehenna, Sheol, Hades) and what they actually mean.

🎙️ About The EZ Approach:We tackle the questions you’re afraid to ask in church, with a focus on deconstructing cultural Christianity to reconstruct a genuine faith.

We’ve all heard the cliché "forgive and forget." But what happens when the memory doesn't fade? Does that mean you haven't actually forgiven?

In this episode, Nate and Tony challenge the idea that forgiveness requires amnesia. We break down why waiting to "forget" is a trap that leads to bitterness, and why true forgiveness is less about letting someone else off the hook and more about setting yourself free.

We discuss:

• The Myth of "Forgive and Forget": Why forgiveness is an act of the will, while forgetting is just a biological process.

• Forgiveness vs. Reconciliation: How to forgive someone without letting them back into your life (and why boundaries are necessary).

• Memory as a Teacher: How to stop your memories from becoming tormentors.

• The Prisoner Metaphor: Unpacking the reality that holding a grudge only imprisons you.

• Nate's Personal Story: Dealing with slander and the daily choice to release the hurt.

If you are stuck waiting for the pain to disappear before you forgive, this episode offers a new way forward.

Quotes from the episode:

"To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you."

"Memory without forgiveness leads to bitterness; forgiveness without memory leads to foolishness."

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We honestly planned for this to be a lighthearted episode.

The goal was simple: talk about the movies and video games that we love. But as we started talking, we realized something profound: Sometimes, a "made-up" story teaches you more about real life than a lecture ever could.

In this episode, Nate and Tony are joined by Elijah Evans to discuss the specific pieces of media that bypassed their brains and went straight to their hearts. What started as a pop-culture chat turned into a raw conversation about war, ambition, grief, and how to keep going when your world falls apart.

We discuss:

• The "Trojan Horse" Effect: Why fiction can disarm us and teach us lessons we aren't ready to hear from a pastor or a textbook.

• Studio Ghibli’s Grave of the Fireflies: Elijah shares how a devastating animated film about WWII taught him a lifelong lesson on depravity and the cost of war.

• Final Fantasy Tactics: Tony breaks down how a video game shaped his view of integrity, ambition, and why "winning" isn't worth losing your soul.

• Jojo Rabbit & The Choice to Dance: Nate opens up about how a tragicomedy about a Nazi boy became a lifeline of hope during his family’s navigation of a brain cancer diagnosis.

If you love storytelling, or if you’ve ever felt like a movie understood you better than your friends did, this episode is for you.

Mentions:

• Grave of the Fireflies (1988)

• Final Fantasy Tactics (1997)

• Jojo Rabbit (2019)

• Quote: Rilke ("Let everything happen to you. Beauty and terror.")