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In this episode of The Black Sheep Diaries, Dr. Michelle Scoggins sits down with an estranged parent to explore the complex realities behind family estrangement, adult children going no contact, and what happens when a parent begins to examine intention versus impact.

Together, we discuss how generational trauma, emotional immaturity, and learned parenting patterns shape family dynamics — and why boundaries with parents are often a necessary act of self-protection rather than disrespect or rejection. This conversation brings forward themes of parent accountability, repair without entitlement, and the difference between wanting connection and believing access is owed.

This episode does not minimize the lived experiences of adult children of toxic or emotionally immature parents, nor does it suggest reconciliation as the goal. Instead, it offers a rare look at what growth can look like when a parent reflects without defensiveness, listens without rewriting history, and honors emotional safety even when the relationship remains distant.

Whether you’re navigating no contact, low contact, or the grey space in between, this episode brings nuance, validation, and a grounded understanding of why adult children protect their peace — and what healing can look like on both sides.

Take what supports your healing, and leave what does not.

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Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational, entertainment, and empowerment purposes only. It is not a substitute for therapy and does not create a therapeutic relationship. These are sensitive topics that we discuss in this podcast and if something has triggered you please reach out to a licensed mental health professional in your area

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The Trust Rebuild — Learning to Feel Safe Again

After betrayal, chaos, or years of walking on eggshells, trusting again can feel impossible — especially trusting yourself.

In this powerful episode of The Black Sheep Diaries Podcast, Dr. Michelle Scoggins unpacks what it really means to rebuild trust after dysfunction. From learning to listen to your body’s truth, to creating safety in new relationships, this episode is your guide to slowly and gently coming home to yourself.

You’ll learn:

• Why trust feels unsafe after emotional betrayal
• The difference between trust and exposure
• How to rebuild self-trust through daily alignment
• What healthy, earned trust looks and feels like
• Why walking away can be an act of self-respect, not disloyalty

✨ Reflection Prompt:

What would it look like to stop forcing trust — and start allowing it to grow?

📲 Connect with Dr. Scoggins:

Instagram: @drmscoggins

TikTok: @drmscoggins

Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational, entertainment, and empowerment purposes only. It is not a substitute for therapy and does not create a therapeutic relationship. These are sensitive topics that we discuss in this podcast and if something has triggered you please reach out to a licensed mental health professional in your area

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You’ve walked away from the chaos, the guilt, and the family roles that once defined you… but now comes the hardest part — rebuilding.

In this episode of The Black Sheep Diaries Podcast, Dr. Michelle Scoggins guides you through what it means to rediscover who you are after years of surviving dysfunction. This is where healing shifts from surviving to becoming.

Together, we’ll explore:

• The identity void that follows walking away
• How to rebuild a self that isn’t defined by pain or family roles
• The fear of being seen as your authentic self
• Steps to reconnect with your body, your truth, and your purpose

✨ Reflection Prompt:

Who are you when you’re no longer surviving?

📲 Connect with Dr. Scoggins:

Instagram: @drmscoggins

TikTok: @drmscoggins

Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational, entertainment, and empowerment purposes only. It is not a substitute for therapy and does not create a therapeutic relationship. These are sensitive topics that we discuss in this podcast and if something has triggered you please reach out to a licensed mental health professional in your area