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Welcome back to The 40+ Life — taking on midlife with style.

Today, I’m chatting to someone I know a little better than some of my previous guests. She’s my broadcasting friend, colleague and all-round cool chick, Rezzy Ghadjar. You might know her from Heart Radio, Channel 5 or, of course, QVC — but today we’re talking about a very different side of her life.

Rezi became a mum at 39, and we’re getting really honest about what it means to start a family a little later in life, when you’ve spent years building your career, enjoying your freedom and finally feeling like you’re living your best life. Rezi opens up about the unexpected fertility shock that turned her world upside down, the anxiety she experienced when the prospect of motherhood suddenly became very real, and how therapy helped her navigate those feelings.

We also talk about being a 40-something mum in a world that can still make women feel like they’re somehow doing things in the wrong order. From the realities of juggling a busy broadcasting career with a toddler, to the physical changes of pregnancy and post-baby life, losing a little bit of your identity along the way, and finding your confidence and personal style again — we cover so much.

And, of course, there’s plenty of laughter, some very relatable conversations about tiredness, trainers replacing heels, and why an extra three hours in the day would be an absolute dream!

So, whether you had your children in your twenties, your forties, or you’re still figuring out what the right path looks like for you, this is an honest conversation about motherhood, identity, career and giving yourself permission to do life in your own time.

Let’s get into it. Rezzy Ghadjar, welcome to The 40+ Life!

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In this inspiring episode of The 40+ Life Podcast, I'm joined by makeup artist, accidental influencer and founder of Chapter Five, Natasha "Tash" Bulstrode, for a conversation that goes far beyond beauty.

With over 30 years in the fashion and beauty industry, Tash shares her incredible journey from the London College of Fashion to working alongside some of the biggest names in makeup, including Charlotte Tilbury. But this isn't just an episode about makeup—it's about confidence, identity and learning to take up space in midlife.

We dive into why so many women feel pressured to shrink themselves, the power of authenticity in a world obsessed with perfection, and why embracing your unique features is the ultimate act of self-confidence. Tash opens up about grief, divorce, rebuilding herself in her 50s, and how something as simple as putting on lipstick can become an act of hope and self-care during life's hardest seasons.

We also chat about:

• Why beauty should be about self-expression, not perfection.
• The changing relationship women have with makeup after 40.
• The pressure to look younger—and why authenticity is becoming the new luxury.
• Practical skincare and makeup tips for women in midlife.
• Face yoga, Botox and finding what feels right for you without judgement.
• How colour, style and fashion can reconnect us with ourselves.
• Why supporting other women is one of the most powerful things we can do.

As always, we finish with our fun This or That quick-fire round, plus Tash shares a thought-provoking book recommendation that's guaranteed to spark conversation.

Whether you wear a full face every day or barely touch a makeup bag, this episode is a beautiful reminder that confidence isn't something you paint on—it's something you reclaim.

Because taking on midlife with style starts with embracing exactly who you are.

To find out more about Natasha Bulstrode -

https://www.instagram.com/natashachapterfive/

https://www.chapterfive.com/

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Perimenopause and menopause can feel overwhelming, confusing, and, for many women, incredibly isolating. In this episode of The 40+ Life Podcast, Katy is joined by menopause educator, coach, hypnotherapist and NLP practitioner Dani Diosi to unpack what's really happening during this stage of life—and why it doesn't have to be something we simply endure.

Dani shares her own deeply personal experience of being blindsided by perimenopause, from debilitating brain fog and anxiety to loss of confidence, sleepless nights and questioning her identity. Together, we explore why so many women aren't prepared for this transition, why symptoms are so often dismissed, and how understanding the changes happening in our brains and bodies can completely transform the way we experience midlife.

We also discuss:

• Why brain fog isn't a sign you're "losing it"
• The surprising science behind the menopausal brain
• HRT, self-advocacy and getting the right medical support
• Why boundaries, rest and nervous system regulation matter more than ever
• The connection between postnatal depression and hormonal sensitivity
• The importance of listening to your body and trusting your instincts
• How menopause can become a powerful opportunity for growth, confidence and reinvention

This conversation is honest, reassuring and full of hope. Whether you're just starting to notice changes, you're in the thick of perimenopause, or you're supporting someone who is, Dani offers practical advice alongside a refreshing perspective: you're not broken—you’re evolving.

If you've ever wondered whether what you're experiencing is "normal," this episode will remind you that you're far from alone, and that thriving through menopause is absolutely possible.

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https://danidiosi.com/

https://www.instagram.com/danidiosicoaching/

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