Taking on your first South Asian wedding can feel exciting, intimidating, and full of opportunity. But too often, planners say yes without fully understanding the scope, expectations, and cultural responsibility that come with the work.

In this episode, Jessie Khaira speaks directly to wedding planners who are considering their first South Asian wedding, or who have already booked one and are feeling unsure. Drawing from her own experience, Jessie breaks down the three biggest mistakes planners tend to make and why those mistakes can lead to burnout, resentment, and damaged trust.

This is not an episode meant to scare planners away. It is meant to prepare them. South Asian weddings can be deeply rewarding to plan, but only when planners respect the complexity, the culture, and their own capacity.

If you are a planner who wants to show up confidently, price appropriately, and protect your reputation while doing meaningful work, this episode is essential listening.

Chapters
00:00 – Why this episode is for planners considering their first South Asian wedding
00:45 – Mistake #1: Underestimating the scope of the work
01:45 – Why South Asian weddings require emotional stamina, not just logistics
02:45 – Hospitality expectations and why service matters more than you think
03:45 – Mistake #2: Relying on the couple to teach you the culture
04:45 – Why cultural awareness builds trust and protects your role
05:45 – Regional differences and why assumptions cause problems
06:30 – Mistake #3: Undercharging and learning at your own expense
07:45 – How underpricing leads to resentment and burnout
08:45 – Knowing when you’re not ready yet and why that’s okay
09:45 – Respecting the work, the culture, and yourself

Connect with Jessie

Website: www.jessiekhaira.com

Instagram: @jessiekhaira

If you are planning a South Asian wedding, supporting someone who is, or working in this space as a planner, this podcast was created for you. Hit subscribe and join the conversation as we plan with clarity, confidence, and perspective.