"Love is not a doing—it is a consent to be undone"

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No is a complete sentence.

It requires no explanation, no justification, and no defense. When spoken clearly and simply, it stands on its own, honoring both your boundary and your integrity.

Repeating no — or softening it with excess words — often arises from the urge to be understood, liked, or forgiven. Yet clarity needs no reinforcement. A single, honest no is enough. When allowed to stand, it teaches both us and others to respect the quiet authority of truth.

Nigel Lott teaandzen.org

Meditation Sans Frontieres 501 (C) 3 Non Profit Registered Charity TAX EIN 81-3411835

Your support sustains this sanctuary. Tending the interior spaces, its garden, and the quiet they hold, the teachings, meditations, and healing transmissions — all offered freely to anyone who needs them. Together we keep a living field of love, service, and presence alive in the world.