Episodi

  • Labyrinths with Mandy Capehart
    Jun 11 2026

    In this episode, Mandy Capehart and I discuss labyrinth walking. We explore some special labyrinth experiences in our own lives, why somatic practices are an essential part of navigating grief, and how being present with our body, heart, mind is an essential part of healing and wholeness.

    For the transcript for this episode, visit BeckyLMcCoy.com/podcast/93

    HOW TO WALK A LABYRINTH:

    1. Find a labyrinth, a looped trail, or a walking path where you don’t have to make any directional choices.

    2. Walk toward the center of the labyrinth or to your halfway point, paying attention to your breath.

    3. Pray, meditate, or repeat a breath prayer as you go, letting go of everything that is overwhelming you.

    4. At the center (or halfway point), take a few deep breaths, pray, and notice what you are feeling.

    5. Begin the walk back to the starting point, filling up with the peace and calm you crave.

    STUFF MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

    • My new book "In the Company of the Weary: Ten Gentle Spiritual Practices for Your Tired Soul"

    • Labyrinth directory online

    • Circles in the Sand labyrinths at the beach in Oregon


    Becky L McCoy is a writer, retreat leader, and spiritual director. She is the communications and outreach coordinator for the Brian Dagle Foundation and podcast host of Sucker Punched. She earned her master of arts in Christian theology and spiritual formation from Regent University and is pursuing a doctor of ministry in spiritual formation and soul care.

    Mandy Capehart is on a mission to normalize grieving and cultivate the conversations that bring us healing. She is the founder and CEO of The Restorative Grief Project, an online community focusing on one another’s stories and new methodologies for grief to create a safe environment for our souls to heal and our spirits to be revived. She is also the host of a weekly podcast, Restorative Grief with Mandy Capehart and the monthly podcast for premium subscribers, Restorative Grief: Expanding the Conversations, as well as a published author, certified trauma professional, grief educator, one-to-one coach, and somatic embodiment practitioner. She also specializes in working at the intersection of grief and faith, educating faith communities on how to create helpful healing environments to avoid spiritual bypassing and platitudes.


    FIND BECKY ONLINE:
    Website: BeckyLMcCoy.com
    Social Media: @BeckyLMcCoy

    FIND MANDY ONLINE:
    Website: MandyCapehart.com
    Social Media: @MandyCapehart

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    34 min
  • 92 Visio Divina with Charlotte Donlon
    May 28 2026
    In this episode, I explore the contemplative practice Visio Divina with Charlotte Donlon. We discuss moments of surprise and transformation that happen in the unlikeliest of times and places and how Visio Divina helps us to slow down, get out of our heads, and stay open to seeing, hearing, and experiencing how God is moving in our lives. For the transcript for this episode, visit BeckyLMcCoy.com/episode/92 HOW TO PRACTICE VISIO DIVINA: 1. Choose a piece of art or something beautiful. 2. Sit and look, noticing what feelings you experience. 3. What questions do you have? What are you curious about? 4. Give yourself time to sit and look without having to learn or decide anything. STUFF MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: - Charlotte's book "The Great Belonging" - My new book "In the Company of the Weary: Ten Gentle Spiritual Practices for Your Tired Soul" - Charlotte’s new book “Spiritual Direction for Writers” - Joan Mitchell’s “Bonjour Julie” - Joan Mitchell’s “The Sink” Becky L McCoy is a writer, retreat leader, and spiritual director. She is the communications and outreach coordinator for the Brian Dagle Foundation and podcast host of Sucker Punched. She earned her master of arts in Christian theology and spiritual formation from Regent University and is pursuing a doctor of ministry in spiritual formation and soul care. Charlotte Donlon is a writer and spiritual director whose work centers on helping people explore themes of belonging through art and faith. Her essays have been featured in publications such as The Washington Post, The Christian Century, and The Millions, among others. She lives in Birmingham, Alabama. FIND BECKY ONLINE: Website: BeckyLMcCoy.com Social Media: @BeckyLMcCoy FIND CHARLOTTE ONLINE: Website: CharlotteDonlon.com and SpiritualDirectionForWriters.com Social Media: @charlottedonlon and @spiritualdirectionforwriters
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    38 min
  • 91 Introduction to Spiritual Practices (for Tired Souls)
    May 14 2026
    After an unplanned hiatus, Sucker Punched is back! Come explore spiritual practices that are gentle and kind and let us be human, limitations and all. For the transcript for this episode, visit BeckyLMcCoy.com/podcast/91 STUFF MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Charlotte Donlon's book "The Great Belonging" My new book "In the Company of the Weary: Ten Gentle Spiritual Practices for Tired Souls" Spiritual Directors International FIND BECKY ONLINE: Website: BeckyLMcCoy.com Social Media: @BeckyLMcCoy
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  • Ep 78. Vulnerability Hangover
    Nov 17 2022

    Sometimes when we share the innermost parts of ourselves we leave the encounter feeling like we've been stripped bare, sometimes even flayed on the altar of vulnerability. It can even feel like a hangover - like you can't face the world and your whole self is now too tender to even try.

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    STUFF MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
    Shop Our Place Cookware: BeckyLMcCoy.com/OurPlace
    Daring Greatly by Brené Brown
    Vulnerability is my Superpower by Jackie Davis
    You are Your Best Thing by Tarana Burke
    4 Mantras for When I'm Overwhelmed: BeckyLMcCoy.com/4mantras

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    Website: BeckyLMcCoy.com
    Social Media: @BeckyLMcCoy

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    9 min
  • Ep. 77 On Loneliness and Belonging
    Nov 10 2022

    We all experience loneliness. And we all have a built in desire to feel like we belong. But when we realize that loneliness and belonging can co-exist - what do we do with that?

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    STUFF MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
    40% of Spiritual Direction & Coaching with Becky: BeckyLMcCoy.com/SpiritualDirection-FlashSale
    Shop Our Place Cookware: BeckyLMcCoy.com/OurPlace
    The Great Belonging by Charlotte Donlon
    The Art of Belonging by Charles Vogl
    All the Lonely People by Mike Gayle
    4 Mantras for When I'm Overwhelmed: BeckyLMcCoy.com/4mantras

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    Website: BeckyLMcCoy.com
    Social Media: @BeckyLMcCoy

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    7 min
  • Ep. 76 My Weakness, Your Strength
    Oct 27 2022

    When it comes to friendship, there's some kind of unspoken fear that we have to have it all together or our friends won't want to be our friends anymore. Do you find yourself worrying that if your friends could see your *insert weakness, fault, or fear here* they'd go running? What if friendship was less about two perfect people finding each other and more about finding the people who compliment and fit in with your own humanity?

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    STUFF MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
    Shop Rothy's Shoes: BeckyLMcCoy.com/Rothys
    Big Friendship by Aminitou Sow and Ann Friedman
    Friendship in the Age of Loneliness by Adam Smiley Poswolsky
    The Art of Showing Up by Rachel Wilkerson Miller
    4 Mantras for When I'm Overwhelmed: BeckyLMcCoy.com/4mantras

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    Website: BeckyLMcCoy.com
    Social Media: @BeckyLMcCoy

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    6 min
  • Ep. 75 Why You Need Friends
    Oct 20 2022

    If friends aren't the people we play with at recess or live down the hall from in the college dorm, what are they? Why do we need them if not to have a friend for hide and seek or someone to share the highs and lows of growing up with? Why do we even need friends at all?

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    STUFF MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
    Shop Rothy's Shoes: BeckyLMcCoy.com/Rothys
    Thank You, Omu! by Oge Mora
    How We Show Up by Mia Birdsong
    The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker
    4 Mantras for When I'm Overwhelmed: BeckyLMcCoy.com/4mantras

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    Website: BeckyLMcCoy.com
    Social Media: @BeckyLMcCoy

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    9 min
  • Ep. 74 Finding Messy Friends
    Oct 13 2022

    You know that healthy friendships are an essential part of your mental health and well-being, but it feels like making friends as an adult should be easier. Why does it seem like everyone else has it figured out and you're just sitting there hoping for someone to adopt you and be best friends forever and never have to make a new friend again?

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    STUFF MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
    Shop Rothy's Shoes: BeckyLMcCoy.com/Rothys
    Discernment by Henri Nouwen
    Daring Greatly by Brené Brown
    4 Mantras for When I'm Overwhelmed: BeckyLMcCoy.com/4mantras

    FIND BECKY ONLINE:
    Website: BeckyLMcCoy.com
    Social Media: @BeckyLMcCoy

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    8 min