In Part 2 of our series on the essential habits of a healthy marriage, we’re focusing on what it looks like to stop living by default and start building your relationship by design. We talk about consistency over perfection (not perfectly, but persistently), and we share practical ways to create momentum—plus a fun real-life story about “floating shelves” that became shorthand for turning tension.

What You’ll Learn (Key Takeaways)

• Why a “masterpiece marriage” doesn’t just happen—it’s shaped with intention
• How to stop running your relationship on autopilot and start building day by day, choice by choice
• Why couples grow best when they grow consistently (not perfectly, but persistently)
• How shared humor and “inside jokes” can turn frustrating moments into connection points
• A simple way to think about habits as tools for your toolbelt—practical, repeatable, and usable in real life
• How to take the next step if you want ongoing support and structure for growth

Links & Resources:

• Marriage Intensive (reset, rebuild, find common ground)
• Schedule a call with James & Lisa
• The Collective (online community for marriage rhythms)
• Weekly Practice Email (sent every Monday)

5 Voices Resources:

• Take a FREE 5 Voices Assessment
• 5 Voices for Marriage Course

Previous Episodes:

• Tickling the Funny Bone: How Humor Helps Foster a Healthy Marriage
• From “I Do” to “We Still Do”: Building a Marriage on Layers of Commitment

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• Website: www.artofspousing.com

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