This Mash-Up episode revisits a foundational conversation from Black Single Mothers by Choice, updated with reflection and insight from parenting school-age children.

When you’re starting or expanding your family as a Single Mother by Choice, understanding your fertility options matters. In this mash-up episode, Aisha revisits the basics of IUI and IVF—what they are, how they differ, and why context is everything.

This episode is for Single Mothers by Choice, Black women navigating fertility decisions, and anyone feeling overwhelmed by medical language and options.

In this episode, Aisha:

• Explains the core differences between IUI and IVF in plain language
• Discusses factors that influence fertility decision-making
• Reflects on cost, access, timing, and emotional readiness
• Names the importance of advocacy and informed consent
• Emphasizes that there is no “right” path—only the right one for you

This mash-up blends early fertility education with lived reflection, helping listeners approach decisions with clarity, self-trust, and agency.

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• (00:00:04) - Start to Finish Motherhood
• (00:01:44) - Pregnancy Rates by Procedures and Race
• (00:05:56) - How To Cope With a SMC
• (00:06:57) - IUI vs In-Vitro Fertilization (
• (00:08:36) - What are the costs associated with IVF cycle
• (00:10:03) - UI vs IVF: How to get pregnant with your own eggs
• (00:11:54) - How To Finish IVF 3 Times

What does it actually mean to be a Single Mother by Choice—and why does clarity matter so much at the beginning of the journey? In this foundational mash-up episode, Aisha revisits one of the most common and important questions she’s been asked over the years.

This episode is for women exploring solo motherhood, Black women considering becoming Single Mothers by Choice, and anyone seeking language, grounding, and validation around intentional family building.

In this episode, Aisha:

• Defines what “Single Mother by Choice” truly means
• Breaks down common misconceptions and stereotypes
• Explains the difference between circumstance and intention
• Shares why naming your path matters emotionally and practically
• Reflects on how identity, choice, and community shape the journey

This mash-up brings early insights into conversation with lived experience, offering reassurance that intentional motherhood can be thoughtful, empowered, and deeply rooted in care.

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• (00:00:04) - Single Mothers by Choice: How to Parent Your Childs
• (00:04:42) - SNC on the SMC Path
• (00:06:40) - The Journey to Having a Second Daughter
• (00:08:04) - The Social Perception of Single Motherhood
• (00:09:28) - What is a Single Mother by Choice?
• (00:10:53) - What do you think is the biggest difference between a single mother by
• (00:13:07) - What Makes an SMC Different From Others?
• (00:15:32) - Do You Hate Men?
• (00:16:30) - Starting to Finish Motherhood With Aisha

What happens when you pause long enough to reflect—and then decide to bring everything you’ve built back under one roof? In this Season Five trailer, Aisha shares what’s ahead for Start to Finish Motherhood and why this season is about honoring the past while moving forward with intention.

This episode is for Black single mothers by choice, long-time listeners, and anyone navigating transition, reflection, and renewal.

In this short but grounding episode, Aisha:

• Reflects on the evolution of Start to Finish Motherhood
• Shares why this season blends archived wisdom with present-day perspective
• Explains the intention behind the Season Five “mash-up” format
• Invites listeners into a slower, more integrated season of storytelling
• Sets the tone for reflection, honesty, and continuity

Season Five is about bringing the full journey together—early motherhood, hard decisions, growth, and clarity—under one banner.

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Facebook Community Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/starttofinishmotherhood/

• (00:00:04) - Starting to Finish Motherhood: Black Single Mothers by Choice

In this heartfelt holiday update, Aisha returns to share gratitude, reflection, and a beautiful glimpse into what’s next for the Start to Finish Motherhood community. After an intense year balancing career growth, motherhood, and personal evolution, she takes a moment to slow down, acknowledge how far we’ve come, and celebrate the resilience and love that has carried us through.

In this message, Aisha reflects on her transition into technical consulting, lessons learned during her hiatus, and the clarity she gained about the future direction of the podcast. With honesty and warmth, she revisits the early years of her Single Mother by Choice journey, honoring where she’s been and embracing where she’s going.

And here’s the exciting news: Season 5 is officially coming in 2026!
This next chapter will bring her creative works back under one home, blending beloved earlier episodes with fresh reflections, updated insights, and new perspectives on life, motherhood, community, and growth. Think of it as a thoughtful “throwback season” — a loving conversation between past and present, weaving together wisdom, laughter, lessons, and love.

As always, this space remains grounded in authenticity, friendship, joy, and the powerful community that surrounds Start to Finish Motherhood. From Aisha’s family to yours — wishing you peace, warmth, and a joyful New Year. Stay tuned… and get ready for what’s next.

00:00 – Looking back on an unforgettable year
00:45 – A warm holiday wish to the community
01:00 – Announcing Season Five
01:30 – Career pivots, growth, and clarity
02:15 – What a meaningful hiatus revealed
03:00 – Reflecting on early parenting and honoring privacy
03:45 – Revisiting earlier creative work and lessons learned
04:15 – The decision to reunite everything under one banner
04:45 – Introducing the “throwback” concept + future vision
05:20 – Deep gratitude for friendship, love, and community
06:00 – Holiday blessings + see you in 2026!

• (00:00:04) - Starting to Finish Motherhood
• (00:00:28) - Single Mother by Choice:

In this reflective closing episode of season four, Aisha shares her journey through personal challenges, including navigating a toxic work environment, prioritizing mental health, and embracing change. She discusses the importance of support systems, self-care, and taking time to find clarity in life decisions. Aisha emphasizes the significance of owning one's narrative and the freedom that comes with making intentional choices. As she looks forward to new adventures, she encourages listeners to embrace their own journeys with courage and authenticity.

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In this episode, Aisha recounts her transformative 24-day vacation with her two children. Sharing the logistics, cost analysis, and emotional highlights, she emphasizes the irreplaceable lifetime memories created despite a substantial expense of $8,000. The discussion touches on the importance of relaxation, the challenges of language barriers, and the need for child-friendly activities. While enjoying botanical gardens and parks, she also navigates instances of cultural insensitivity. Regine reflects on how such travel experiences, inherited from her father, are a valuable legacy she plans to pass on to her children.

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In this episode, Aisha shares insights and personal experiences on planning birthday parties, especially for kids. Highlighting the importance of simplicity, budgeting, and focusing on the child's enjoyment, she offers practical advice for parents navigating the challenges of birthday planning. The conversation includes age-specific tips, addresses common anxieties, and emphasizes the significance of personal touches over societal expectations. Aisha also underscores the importance of celebrating one's own birthday, modeling self-care and celebration for children.

Join Aisha in this super-sized and enlightening episode which delves into the vibrant lives of expat single mothers. Through an engaging panel discussion, they explore the unique challenges and joys of parenting abroad, from the decision to move for a fresh start to the day-to-day experiences that shape their new lives in Mexico. Our panelists, including Key, Johna, and Pam, share their heartfelt stories and practical advice on navigating life away from the U.S., touching on topics like racism, community building, and the pursuit of a peaceful, fulfilling life for their children. Tune in to be inspired by these brave women who took the leap into expat motherhood, seeking a better quality of life and a community outside the US.

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