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Speaking With Confidence

Speaking With Confidence

Di: Tim Newman
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Are you ready to overcome imposter syndrome and become a powerful communicator? Whether you're preparing for a public presentation, sharpening your communication skills, or looking to elevate your personal and professional development, this podcast is your ultimate resource for powerful communication. The Speaking with Confidence podcast will help tackle the real challenges that hold you back, from conquering stage fright to crafting impactful storytelling and building effective communication habits. Every episode is designed to help you communicate effectively, strengthen your soft skills, and connect with any audience. With expert insights, practical strategies, and relatable examples, you’ll learn how to leave a lasting impression. Whether you're a professional preparing for a high-stakes presentation, a student navigating a public speaking class, or someone simply looking to enhance their interpersonal skills, this podcast has the tools to empower you, all with a bit of humor. Join us each week as we break down what it takes to inspire and influence through communication. It’s time to speak with confidence, captivate your audience, and make your voice heard! Want to be a guest on Speaking With Confidence? Send Tim Newman a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/timnewman© 2026 Speaking With Confidence Economia Gestione e leadership Management Successo personale Sviluppo personale
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  • The 5-Second Rule for Responding to Challenging Questions With Poise

    The 5-Second Rule for Responding to Challenging Questions With Poise
    Aug 20 2026
    What if those five seconds of awkward silence after a tough question aren’t your enemy, but your superpower? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I’m diving straight into one of the most nerve-wracking moments in any presentation: the Q&A. We rehearse our slides, perfect our transitions, and smooth out our closing lines, but when the floor opens up for questions, everything can change in an instant especially when you feel you’ve lost control. I know that feeling all too well, both as a former college professor and now as a communication coach. As I guide you through, I’ll show you how these moments of silence, those pauses where your heart is pounding and your mind goes blank, can actually be your secret weapon rather than your biggest fear. In this solo episode, there’s no guest just me and decades of experience with Q&A sessions that taught me the hard way: confidence isn’t about never freezing or panicking, it’s about having a system you can rely on when the pressure hits. I share the “5-Second Rule” I discovered after years in the classroom, and I’ll show you why your audience sees these pauses as thoughtful, even when they feel endless to you. Today, I break down the three greatest anxiety spikes that sabotage Q&As losing control of the room, getting a curveball or even hostile question, and the nightmare of complete silence. I’ll walk you through handling tough questions you never prepared for, responding calmly when you’re challenged, and, most importantly, holding the silence confidently when nobody jumps in right away. We’ll go step-by-step through: The science behind why your heart spikes and your brain blanks during Q&A Why silence after a question is not a sign you’re failing The “5-Second Rule” and exactly how to use it feel your feet, exhale, and repeat the question How to handle curveball questions without rambling or bluffing What to do when you’re faced with a hostile challenge and how acknowledging, not attacking, is your best move The power of holding silence and letting your audience process, rather than rushing to fill the gap Why over-rehearsing answers can actually hurt you and how to draft a “response shape” instead A concrete prep move: spending just one hour drafting answers to the three questions that scare you most Simple ways to manage your energy so you’re ready for anything the Q&A throws at you Your challenge this week: write down the question that scares you most before your next presentation and draft the shape of your answer. Trust in the pause, and let your newfound confidence grow from the silence. Remember, progress always beats perfection, and your voice has the power to change the world. Let’s make your next Q&A your greatest strength! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    17 min
  • Why Self-Leadership Matters More Than Communication Skills Alone

    Why Self-Leadership Matters More Than Communication Skills Alone
    Aug 17 2026
    How do you actually lead yourself before you can lead others, and what does self-leadership have to do with confidence and authentic communication? In today’s episode, we’re digging deep into the idea that most of us don’t really have a communication problem — we have a self-leadership problem. You can’t speak with confidence if you don’t trust your own voice, and you’ll never lead a team until you can lead yourself. I’m Tim Newman, your host, and today I’m joined by the insightful Chip Scholz. Chip is a man of stories and craft, a long-time business and leadership coach, and the author of Every Dog Has Its Day. He’s a guy who has found lessons in everything from family conversations to unexpected detours, shaping pieces of maple in his woodshop, and recovering from major life challenges like a stroke. His reflections on craft and life show us how small, quiet moments can fundamentally change who we become and what we’re willing to let go of. In our conversation, Chip Scholz brings a wealth of experience, not only from decades of coaching top executives but also from a journey of personal transformation. We talk about the lessons he learned at the lathe, the dangers of “forcing the cut” both with wood and with people, and why being authentic is at the heart of real leadership. We go beyond the clichés why “being authentic” is so much more than a buzzword, and how most people actually get this concept wrong. Chip Scholz unpacks why most folks struggle to articulate what they truly want, and how getting honest feedback is a critical first step in transformation. We dig into some of the tough stuff like navigating 360 evaluations without spiraling into self-doubt, and recognizing the difference between companies that “weaponize” feedback versus those that use it for real growth. We walk through the kind of accountability that separates real leaders from those just going through the motions, and why actions always speak louder than words. We also hit on the transition from doing to being as you move into leadership roles, and the pitfalls of believing your own PR at the top. We also talk about the importance of reading and lifelong learning, why so many people stop reading books after college and what they’re missing by doing so. Chip Scholz shares his framework built around the 5 Cs: context, clarity, conditioning, choice, and character. We discuss generational differences, social skill development (or lack thereof), and how cycles in society shape our communication and sense of self. Not to mention, we tackle the link between self-awareness, emotional literacy, and communication confidence and why being able to name your emotions and own them is a foundational skill for any leader or speaker. Here’s what we cover in this episode: Why trusting your own voice is step one to speaking and leading with confidence The power of craft: lessons from woodturning and how forcing things rarely works What “self-leadership” and “authenticity” really mean with concrete, actionable examples How to get honest about what you want (and why most people can’t) Feedback, 360 evaluations, and using criticism for growth instead of shame The accountability gap: keeping your word, taking ownership, and building trust Transitioning from “doing” to “being” in leadership roles The value of reading, writing, and being a lifelong learner for leaders and communicators Chip Scholz’s 5 Cs framework for effective self-leadership Generational dynamics, societal cycles, and how history repeats itself in new ways Vulnerability, emotional vocabulary, and why self-awareness (not just confidence) powers great communication When confidence and preparation go hand in hand and how everyone feels nervous (even us!) Practical advice for improving your speaking game, from reps to feedback to avoiding “death by PowerPoint” How social media, ego, and chasing attention can derail self-leadership and meaningful communication If you’re ready to reframe the way you think about leadership, confidence, and the voice you bring to the world, this episode is for you. Let’s do the work together because your voice has the power to change not just your world, but the world around you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 ora e 7 min
  • Transform Stress into Power: Public Speaking Lessons from Top Athletes

    Transform Stress into Power: Public Speaking Lessons from Top Athletes
    Aug 13 2026
    What if the advice to "calm down" before a big presentation is actually making your nerves worse? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we challenge one of the most common myths about overcoming stage fright and explore why trying to force yourself into calm may be backfiring. As your host, Tim Newman—a recovering college professor turned communication coach—I’m here to help you master the art of showing up with confidence in every conversation that counts. Today, we’re zeroing in on nerves and adrenaline, and how the world’s top performers don’t eliminate these feelings—they learn to channel them. In this solo episode, I walk you through the surprising science behind nerves and performance, starting with the foundational Yerkes-Dodson curve from 1908, which shows that there’s a sweet spot between zero stress and too much stress; that middle ground is where you’re alert and loose, ready to perform at your best. I share why the standard advice to "relax" before a big moment doesn’t work and explain what elite athletes like Michael Phelps, Kobe Bryant, and Rafael Nadal do differently—their routines and mental strategies transform adrenaline from something to fight into something to fuel them. We’ll look at Harvard researcher Alison Wood Brooks’ study, which put the “calm down” approach head-to-head with a simple two-second reframe. You’ll learn why just saying “I am excited” out loud can shift your entire mindset and how pairing that phrase with your own personal pre-performance ritual can put you in the zone without fighting your biology. Throughout the episode, I discuss: The problem with trying to calm yourself before high-stakes moments 00:51 The science behind optimal performance and the role of the Yerkes-Dodson curve 01:18 Stories from elite athletes and their mental routines, including Michael Phelps’ visualization techniques and Kobe Bryant’s pregame rituals 04:06 The powerful impact of deliberate triggers and routines 05:20 Why your body interprets adrenaline based on the instructions you give it 06:12 Evidence from Alison Wood Brooks’ research on “I am excited” and public speaking performance 06:37 A step-by-step process to build your own routine and mindset shift 08:16 How to recognize your personal “sweet spot” for performance—not too much, not too little energy 10:02 Adapting techniques for introverts and extroverts 10:25 When to use these techniques (and when not to) 11:17 How to recover if you overshoot and get too nervous 11:52 Your weekly challenge to try the “I am excited” technique paired with your own trigger 12:52 Whether you’re gearing up for a board meeting, a big pitch, or simply want to own the next Zoom call, this episode will give you practical, science-backed tools to turn nerves into your competitive advantage. Because the goal isn’t less adrenaline—it's giving your body better instructions. Your voice has the power to change the world, and I’m excited to help you harness it. Timestamps: 00:00 Struggling with anxiety before meetings 04:10 Visualizing and rehearsing success 08:53 Handling pre-review nerves 11:05 Managing situational nerves Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    18 min
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