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We share how a surprise DNA match revealed Troy’s living father and how that miracle reshaped our marriage, business, and leadership. Identity healed, boundaries flexed, communication deepened, and our pace slowed so we could honor what God is building.

• healing identity after abandonment
• genetics, family ties, and daily joy
• flexible boundaries to protect connection
• communication practices that prevent resentment
• slowing business to move at the pace of peace
• leading with boldness instead of people pleasing
• faith, testimony, and stewarding a public story
• resilience as spouses through sudden change
• renewing the mind with prayer and Scripture

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What if serving your local church together could transform your marriage, clarify your calling, and ignite a movement beyond Sunday? We open up about the unexpected path from kids’ check-in and security shifts to leading couples, preaching through grief, and accepting a pastoral mantle we never planned to wear. Along the way, we share the uncomfortable lessons—performing versus being real, loving people who don’t love you back, and setting boundaries so your family remains your first ministry.

Our story doesn’t stop at the platform. A family loss birthed a bolder voice, a weekly “Wednesday Word,” and a growing burden for pastoral leadership. The church became a training ground where Spartners—our mission to help spouses build together—was discovered, developed, and deployed. Then came a harder truth: silent disobedience. We were doing good, God-honoring work while quietly neglecting the very assignment He gave us to carry. Realignment meant stepping away from roles we loved to scale our impact globally while staying rooted locally.

You’ll hear practical frameworks to serve without burning out: how to share a schedule, keep joint and personal prayer rhythms, create healthy limits that point people to Jesus, and protect intimacy when the weight of ministry follows you home. We talk theology and practice—being salt and light beyond Sunday, embracing pastoral covering and accountability, and choosing authenticity over polish so God can bless the real you. If you’ve wondered how faith, marriage, and entrepreneurship can align without tearing you apart, this conversation offers honest guidance and hard-won hope.
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We’re excited to share something special for couples who are ready to go beyond the ordinary date night and build a stronger, more intentional marriage.

Introducing: Cultivate Your Marriage — A Valentine’s Experience

A 2-hour evening designed not just for connection, but for real growth.

📅 When: February 13, 2026

🕖 Time: 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM Eastern

📍 Where: Mood Café in Lawrenceville, GA

💲 Cost: $25 per couple (includes lite bites & drinks)

👫 Limited Seats: Only 25 couples — Register Here

What Couples Can Expect:

• A relaxed, welcoming environment to connect and reset.

• Practical conversation led by Troy & Shantel on understanding your partner’s needs and communicating with clarity.

• Introduction to the Spartners Agreement — a powerful tool for alignment in marriage.

• Time to share and reflect with other couples seeking closeness and community.

Whether you’re feeling disconnected, simply “busy,

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We unpack how a year of simplicity reshaped our faith, marriage, and business, then reveal our new word: all in. Doing less opened space for peace, presence, and bold, God-sized goals we’re ready to pursue together.

• why a single word beats resolutions for direction
• how we discerned “simple” and pruned our commitments
• one-step goals and 20-minute daily wins
• resisting social pressure to do the most
• accountability as a couple using a shared word
• simplicity as stewardship that scales impact
• shifting from panic and perfectionism to peace
• revealing our new word “all in” for faith, marriage, business
• practical rhythms for connection and check-ins
• choosing bold prayers and trusting God with outcomes

Draw the Circle 40-day prayer challenge by Mark Batterson — see the show notes so you can get your copy

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We're back after a year, and our year away didn’t make us quieter; it made us clearer. We came back with video, fresh ministry fruit, and a conviction that shifted everything: faith only transforms your outcomes when it reorders your life. What began as a long-awaited sabbatical turned into a divine reset—sobriety, simpler schedules, and a renewed commitment to put marriage before mission and presence before productivity.

We share why we quit alcohol and how a “harmless” habit was crowding out sleep, focus, and spiritual clarity. That single act of obedience unlocked deeper work: letting God highlight the patterns that sneaked into our marriage when we were tired, snippy, and stretched thin.

We talk about how laying down ego opened the door to honest conversations and deeper intimacy, and how simplifying our commitments gave us bandwidth to actually love each other well.

You’ll hear the practical shifts—fewer plates spinning, more rest, weekly check-ins, and a shared filter for decisions rooted in alignment instead of urgency.

If your calendar is loud and your soul is quiet, this conversation is for you. We map out faith as an ordering system—identity before output, marriage before mission, health before hustle—and share the exact questions we use to let God “run the play” each day.

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What if you could transform how you communicate with proven strategies that strengthen both your marriage and business partnership? Join us as we share our personal journey and the valuable lessons we've learned from working together as a couple. We promise you'll gain practical strategies for overcoming the communication challenges posed by stress, time, and responsibilities, and learn how to transform diverse communication styles into powerful tools for unity and understanding.

In this episode, we uncover the secrets of maintaining personal connections in marriage while managing a successful business. We highlight how couples can enrich their relationships beyond work-related conversations through regular meetings, wellness checks, and discussing personal dreams and passions. By practicing active listening and understanding each other's triggers, you can foster deeper connections and ensure that your communication remains meaningful and supportive, ultimately leading to a more fulfilled and balanced partnership.

We'll also explore the critical role of faith in enhancing communication and trust within a marriage. By referencing biblical principles such as Ephesians 4:15, James 1:19, and 1 Corinthians 13:5, we discuss the importance of speaking the truth in love, maintaining respectful communication, and inviting God's guidance through prayer. Learn how transparency and honesty can prevent misunderstandings and build a strong trust foundation, allowing personal and professional relationships to thrive. Plus, we offer a heartfelt prayer for divine protection and blessings for your journey, encouraging you to seek a deep, personal connection with Jesus in all aspects of life.

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What would happen if you could merge your faith with your business journey seamlessly? On today's episode, we reconnect with you, our beloved listeners, and share the remarkable origin story of "Spartners," a unique blend of marriage ministry and business driven by a divine calling. We open up about the struggles and blessings we've encountered while balancing ministry with marketplace dynamics and how we've navigated these challenges with unwavering commitment to God's guidance. From the inception of Spartners to its current evolution, we highlight the significance of establishing a strong kingdom foundation in both marriage and business.

Imagine writing a book not just to achieve a goal but as a profound journey to deepen your relationship with God. We talk about the importance of placing God above our ambitions for financial freedom and legacy and the challenge of balancing control and surrender in a God-driven business. We share personal anecdotes that underscore the necessity of relying on scripture, prayer, and faith to navigate periods of uncertainty and divine silence. Through our experiences, we hope to offer you comfort and peace in trusting God's timing and guidance for your endeavors.

For those at the beginning of their entrepreneurial journey, we focus on the transformative power of faith in Jesus to withstand life's unpredictabilities. We offer practical advice on establishing a strong foundation in faith, practicing gratitude, and embracing servant leadership. Reflecting on Romans 8:28 and 1 Thessalonians 5:18, we underscore the importance of a renewed mindset and integrating God’s principles into your business practices. Finally, we talk about the impact of maintaining a grateful and excited demeanor during challenging times, attributing this resilience to our spiritual foundation in Jesus. Join us as we pray for strength, faithfulness, and the ability to shine His love through our lives and businesses.

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Imagine navigating life’s toughest challenges with unwavering faith and joy. Over the past 18 months, we’ve faced significant trials but remained anchored in peace and joy, guided by scriptures such as Hebrews 11:1 and 2 Corinthians 5:6-7. Hear how these verses have kept us grounded, and discover how we stayed anchored while God called us to Spartners—our unique approach to bringing glory to God’s kingdom and enriching marriages by working with your spouse, illustrating the power of faith amidst setbacks and skepticism.

Ever wondered how to simplify your life and strengthen your faith? We discuss practical strategies for memorizing scripture and engaging in worship, using verses like Psalm 23:1 and Matthew 6:33 as our anchors. Learn about the transformative impact of worship, inspired by Psalms 95:1-2. We also share the importance of listening to life-giving, non-secular music to uplift your spirit and keep you connected to God, creating a refuge from past traumas and daily stresses.

Feeling overwhelmed by life’s storms? We emphasize the power of gratitude and building a supportive faith community. Reflect with us on scriptures like Ephesians 5:20 and Colossians 2:6-7, and discover the benefits of gratitude journaling and seeking godly counsel. With personal anecdotes and practical advice, we outline seven strategies to navigate challenges, reminding you that you are not alone. We conclude with a heartfelt prayer for divine guidance and blessings, encouraging everyone to live a faith-fueled life brimming with peace, joy, and an unwavering connection to Jesus.

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What happens when you lose your way and then find a divine calling that changes your life forever? Join us as we vulnerably share our faith journeys, from early religious experiences to profound spiritual awakenings. We share Troy’s tale of growing up in a Lutheran church, drifting away, and returning with a deeper sense of purpose is juxtaposed with Shantel’s story of exploring various religions before fully embracing Christianity. Both of us faced moments of lukewarm commitment before realizing the necessity of a wholehearted 'yes' to Jesus.

In our heartfelt discussion, we underscore the essence of building a faithful family foundation, emphasizing the transformative power of a personal relationship with Jesus Christ and the guidance of the Holy Spirit. Moving to Atlanta by divine calling, we encountered God's presence in previously unimaginable ways, reinforcing our faith and commitment. Through parental influence, prayer, and leading by example, we reveal how to nurture a strong Christian home, even as children resist traditional church attendance. Our personal stories serve as a testament to the significance of remaining connected to Jesus to bear fruit in our lives.

Finally, we delve into the trials and triumphs that have shaped our marriage and business. From overcoming financial struggles to relinquishing idols like perfectionism and materialism, our journey reflects the profound impact of keeping Christ at the center. We explore the necessity of constant intimacy with Jesus, recognizing that God repositions our lives for spiritual growth. Our experiences are meant to inspire, offering a pathway to a deeper connection with Christ without enduring the same hardships. Tune in to discover how faith, surrender, and steadfast obedience can transform your life as it has ours.

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