Have you ever looked at your resume and wondered why you never seem to stay in one place for long?

In this episode of Soulful Wonderings, Heather reflects on her years of job hopping and the deeper truth behind that restlessness. What began as a search for the “right” career slowly revealed something more personal — a lifetime of adapting, conforming, and shaping herself to fit environments that never truly aligned.

This isn’t a conversation about quitting your job.
It’s about identity, conditioning, and learning the difference between chasing the next role and listening to what your soul is actually asking for.

In this episode:

• Why job hopping isn’t always about ambition
• How early adaptation shapes adult career paths
• The cost of fitting in at the expense of yourself
• Being multi-faceted in a world that rewards specialization
• Choosing alignment over the next job title

If you’ve ever felt restless, out of place, or torn between responsibility and your free spirit — this episode is for you.

The Soulful Wonderings podcast is all about my journey into the world of healing, intuition, and spiritual discovery. As I find my place as a healer, psychic, teacher and creative, I am here to share my experiences and insights, in hopes of breaking down barriers between different spiritual perspectives. Whether you’re curious about energy work, looking to deepen your understanding, or just exploring your own path, this podcast offers stories, teachings, and connections to help you navigate the space between worlds.

You can find me at soulfulwonderings.com

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Ever trust your gut… and think you got it wrong?

Today we are discussing the Christmas where I thought it was about my dad. It wasn't.

Maybe its about following the call and not about being right.Maybe it’s about being willing… willing to listen, to act, to stay open when the story shifts. After all, if love was expressed, if presence was shared… the call was answered.

The Soulful Wonderings podcast is all about my journey into the world of healing, intuition, and spiritual discovery. As I find my place as a healer, psychic, teacher and creative, I am here to share my experiences and insights, in hopes of breaking down barriers between different spiritual perspectives. Whether you’re curious about energy work, looking to deepen your understanding, or just exploring your own path, this podcast offers stories, teachings, and connections to help you navigate the space between worlds.

You can find me at soulfulwonderings.com

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In this episode we are discussing how difficult it can be to show your true self around your family and others. Many of us have a mask up and have to decide when to let it down.

We also offer some ideas of how to navigate for the holidays and beyond.

The Soulful Wonderings podcast is all about my journey into the world of healing, intuition, and spiritual discovery. As I find my place as a healer, psychic, teacher and creative, I am here to share my experiences and insights, in hopes of breaking down barriers between different spiritual perspectives. Whether you’re curious about energy work, looking to deepen your understanding, or just exploring your own path, this podcast offers stories, teachings, and connections to help you navigate the space between worlds.

You can find me at soulfulwonderings.com

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This time we are discussing what it's like to experience that first Christmas without a loved one, for me, it was my mom. We explore tools to help you get through the holidays and how to discern carrying on traditions or creating new ones.

The Soulful Wonderings podcast is all about my journey into the world of healing, intuition, and spiritual discovery. As I find my place as a healer, psychic, teacher and creative, I am here to share my experiences and insights, in hopes of breaking down barriers between different spiritual perspectives. Whether you’re curious about energy work, looking to deepen your understanding, or just exploring your own path, this podcast offers stories, teachings, and connections to help you navigate the space between worlds.

You can find me at soulfulwonderings.com

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In this episode I am talking about how difficult it has been to let people in after losing my family, in particular, my in-laws. I've wondered if others feel the same.

As promised, here are some of the actions we discussed that may help you work through these feeling yourself:

Take a breath and put your Hand on your heart.

1. Name one thing you’re grateful for and one thing that hurts. Both are welcome.

2. Picture one person who feels steady. Whisper their name.

3. Ask yourself: What’s the smallest way I can let myself be held this week?
When you’re ready, here are some simple ways to try.”

1. Two Candles Ritual:

o Light one for the family you came from, one for the family you have now.

o Say one sentence of gratitude for each. Blow them out together.

2. Doorway Breath:

o Before walking into a gathering: inhale “I belong to me.” Exhale “I let myself be loved.”

3. Memory Portion:

o Bring a tiny piece of an old tradition (song, recipe bite, ornament). Name it aloud once, then let the day be what it is.

4. Pocket Anchor:

o Carry a small token (smooth stone, ring, note). Touch it when you feel floaty; repeat: “Right here, right now.”

1. Where do I feel both grief and gratitude this season? What do each need from me?

2. What does “being someone’s” mean to me now? Where do I already feel chosen?

3. With my partner’s family, where do I keep a polite distance? Where could I safely lean in 5% more?

The Soulful Wonderings podcast is all about my journey into the world of healing, intuition, and spiritual discovery. As I find my place as a healer, psychic, teacher and creative, I am here to share my experiences and insights, in hopes of breaking down barriers between different spiritual perspectives. Whether you’re curious about energy work, looking to deepen your understanding, or just exploring your own path, this podcast offers stories, teachings, and connections to help you navigate the space between worlds.

You can find me at soulfulwonderings.com

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This episode we are talking about times when we get more concerned with having a perfect holiday than just enjoying the moment.

Journal prompts discussed for reflection:

1. Where did I learn my holiday rules (family, culture, religion, social media)? Which still serve me—and which feel heavy?

2. What does perfect secretly promise me (control, safety, approval, belonging)? Is there a kinder way to get that need met?

3. Make a Memory Map: list three holidays I actually remember fondly. What made them special (hint: usually people, play, or surprise)?

4. My Stress Signature looks like… (behaviors, thoughts, body cues). What’s my early warning light?

5. Three permission slips I need this year are… (smaller menu, arrive late/leave early, store-bought sides, gift cap, paper plates).

6. If I did one third less this season, what would I stop doing first?

7. After the season, how will I measure success? (Try: “Did we connect?” “Did I laugh?”)

The Soulful Wonderings podcast is all about my journey into the world of healing, intuition, and spiritual discovery. As I find my place as a healer, psychic, teacher and creative, I am here to share my experiences and insights, in hopes of breaking down barriers between different spiritual perspectives. Whether you’re curious about energy work, looking to deepen your understanding, or just exploring your own path, this podcast offers stories, teachings, and connections to help you navigate the space between worlds.

You can find me at soulfulwonderings.com

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When I was growing up Halloween wasn't a "thing" in my house. In fact, I think my mom just wasn't a fan. Today we are getting into my story about Halloween, how that changed, and a little bit of history to better understand spooky season!

The Soulful Wonderings podcast is all about my journey into the world of healing, intuition, and spiritual discovery. As I find my place as a healer, psychic, teacher and creative, I am here to share my experiences and insights, in hopes of breaking down barriers between different spiritual perspectives. Whether you’re curious about energy work, looking to deepen your understanding, or just exploring your own path, this podcast offers stories, teachings, and connections to help you navigate the space between worlds.

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In this episode we discuss tools to help us build trust, how to set boundaries and how to surrender. We also discuss the challenges with trust in God, but particularly in our fellow man.

Find our free "Trust & Surrender Meditation" at https://soulfulwonderings.com/meditation-library/

or on our YouTube Channel, @Soulful Wonderings. https://youtu.be/j5SFIy9UoBk

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The Soulful Wonderings podcast is all about my journey into the world of healing, intuition, and spiritual discovery. As I find my place as a healer, psychic, teacher and creative, I am here to share my experiences and insights, in hopes of breaking down barriers between different spiritual perspectives. Whether you’re curious about energy work, looking to deepen your understanding, or just exploring your own path, this podcast offers stories, teachings, and connections to help you navigate the space between worlds.

You can find me at soulfulwonderings.com

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