Love matters. But love by itself does not teach us how to communicate, repair hurt, manage conflict, create emotional safety, or navigate the parts of ourselves and our identities that we bring into a relationship.

In this episode of Somebody Lied When..., Dr. Kipenzi Herron and Shanelle D. Johnson challenge one of our most persistent relationship myths: if two people really love each other, they should be able to make the relationship work.

We talk about couples who genuinely love each other and still hurt each other, why good intentions do not automatically create healthy relationships, and the skills that help love survive stress, disappointment, difference, and change.

We also get into compatibility, communication, boundaries, repair, and what it means to love someone in a way that makes room for who they actually are, including the identities and lived experiences that shape how they move through the world.

Because sometimes the problem isn’t a lack of love.

Sometimes there is plenty of love. What’s missing is what love needs in order to work.

Real Conversations. Real Life.

Hosted by Dr. Kipenzi Herron & Shanelle D. Johnson

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