So you want to quit drinking ... or maybe you’re still thinking about it.

In this episode, we explore why quitting drinking isn’t a single decision, but a change cycle and how understanding that cycle can remove shame, normalize stop–start patterns, and make lasting change possible.

We begin by breaking down the stages most people move through before quitting drinking, including making rules around alcohol, negotiating, taking breaks, and why willpower alone often fails. I share my own journey ... years of stop/start cycles between 2015 and 2019, a short quit in 2019, and why quitting for good in 2020 finally stuck when I added breathwork and nervous system healing.

From there, we walk through what actually happens after you stop drinking ... physically, emotionally, mentally, socially, and energetically, across:
• the first 30 days
• the 3-month mark (and why it often feels harder than the beginning)
• 6 months
• one year and beyond

We talk honestly about anxiety after quitting drinking, emotional overwhelm, identity shifts, changing relationships, energy returning, and what truly supports your nervous system when alcohol is no longer your coping mechanism.

This episode is for women who are sober, sober-curious, or stuck in contemplation and want a compassionate, body-based approach instead of shame, rules, or white-knuckling.

Because quitting drinking isn’t about discipline.
It’s about capacity.

Ways to continue the work:

🔁 Ongoing support: The Deliberate Practice — a steady rhythm of nervous system regulation, breathwork, and integration.

Free: The Complete Guide to Quitting Drinking .. a nervous-system-based guide for understanding cravings, stress, and stop/start cycles.

🧭 Personalized clarity: The Personal Power Map — a personalized nervous system and identity audit with a video walkthrough.

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