Think you can hide assets during a divorce? That your 12-year-old can decide which parent to live with? Or that you don't need an attorney if you and your spouse agree on everything? Think again.

In this episode of Sidebar Social, family law attorneys Jennifer Grinke and Dana Stewart separate fact from fiction, tackling some of the most common misconceptions about divorce, child custody, and the legal system. From secretly recording your spouse and navigating custody disputes to understanding why your day in court may not deliver the justice you expect, they share real-world examples and practical insights into how Texas family law actually works.

Plus, why fairness isn't always what you think it is when it comes to divorce—and why knowing the rules before you make a move can save you from costly mistakes.

What happens after the custody battle is over and the challenges keep coming? In this episode of Sidebar Social®, Jennifer L. Grinke and Dana J. Stewart welcome back stepparent Tori Bradbury for an honest conversation about life after a contested custody case.

Four years after the ruling, Tori shares how her family moved from constant tension to a more peaceful home through parallel parenting, firm boundaries, and learning that not every conflict requires a response. Together, they discuss what “high conflict” really means, why maintaining a relationship with your attorney can help long after court ends, and how to keep children from feeling caught between households.

Whether you're a parent, stepparent, or partner navigating a blended family, this episode offers practical insights into protecting your peace, supporting your child, and moving forward when the other household does things differently.

In this episode of Sidebar Social®, Jennifer L. Grinke and Dana J. Stewart sit down with Texas personal injury attorney Scott Snellings, founder of Snellings Law. to talk about what really happens after an accident, and what injured people should know before dealing with an insurance company.

Scott takes us behind the scenes of a personal injury case, from what to do immediately after an accident and dealing with insurance adjusters to hiring an attorney, evaluating a claim, negotiating a settlement, and understanding how personal injury cases actually get resolved. We also tackle some common misconceptions about personal injury lawyers and lawsuits and hear how Scott’s experience earlier in his career defending personal injury claims influences the way he represents injured clients today.

And because this is Sidebar Social®, we bring some family law into the conversation too: If you're married and receive a personal injury settlement in Texas, is the money your separate property or community property? The answer may depend on exactly what the settlement is compensating you for.

Whether you've been injured in an accident, are dealing with an insurance company, or simply want to know what to do if it ever happens to you, this is Personal Injury 101—what every Texan should know after an accident.

What should you do if you're pulled over for suspected DWI in Texas? Should you agree to roadside field sobriety tests? What happens if you refuse? And what exactly are officers looking for when they ask you to walk the line or stand on one leg? In this episode of Sidebar Social®, Jennifer L. Grinke and Dana J. Stewart sit down with veteran criminal defense attorney Bo Kalabus, senior partner at Texas Defense Firm, to break down what really happens during a Texas DWI investigation. Bo walks us through the traffic stop from beginning to end—including field sobriety testing, what happens when someone refuses or fails a test, breath and blood testing, driver's-license consequences, and Administrative License Revocation (ALR) hearings. He also shares practical advice about what drivers should—and shouldn't—do when those flashing lights appear in the rearview mirror. It's an informative, practical conversation about Texas DWI law, your rights during a traffic stop, and the decisions that can have consequences long after the stop is over.

What role does forensic psychology play in child custody cases, and how are psychological evaluations used to help courts make important decisions about children? In this episode of Sidebar Social, hosts Jennifer L. Grinke and Dana J. Stewart welcome forensic psychologist Dr. Kevin Goldberg (Psy.D.) to explain the differences between clinical psychological evaluations, forensic evaluations, and child custody evaluations. Dr. Goldberg discusses how psychological evaluations can be incorporated into custody evaluations, what parents can expect during the evaluation process, the role of forensic psychologists in high-conflict family law cases, and how these assessments help courts determine the best interests of children. Whether you're involved in a divorce, navigating a child custody dispute, or simply interested in forensic psychology and mental health, this episode offers valuable insight into one of the most important—and often misunderstood—aspects of family law.

Terms like "narcissist," "gaslighting," and "parental alienation" are everywhere—but are they being used correctly? In this episode of Sidebar Social, hosts Jennifer L. Grinke and Dana J. Stewart welcome back licensed professional counselor Kathleen Schofield to separate fact from fiction and explain what these commonly used psychology terms really mean. Together, they explore what narcissism is, and what it isn't, why the term gaslighting is so often misunderstood, the truth behind parental alienation in child custody cases, how reunification therapy and family therapy can help rebuild relationships, and why these psychological buzzwords are frequently overused in divorce, co-parenting, and other high-conflict family law situations. Whether you're navigating a divorce, involved in a child custody dispute, co-parenting with an ex, or simply interested in psychology and relationships, this episode offers practical insight into some of today's most misunderstood mental health concepts.

How is child support really calculated? Does 50/50 custody automatically eliminate child support? And what happens if a parent is self-employed or intentionally underreporting income? In this episode of Sidebar Social, family law attorneys Dana Stewart and Jennifer Grinke take a deep dive into one of the most misunderstood areas of family law: child support. They explain the difference between income and resources, discuss how child support is calculated, bust common myths, and explore situations involving self-employed parents, cash businesses, modifications, enforcement, and shared custody arrangements. Whether you're going through a divorce, modifying an existing order, or simply want to understand how child support works, this episode provides practical insights and answers to the questions parents ask most often.

How much of the way we parent is shaped by our own childhood? In this episode of Sidebar Social, Jennifer and Dana sit down with therapist, parenting facilitator, and co-parenting expert Dr. Linda Rollins-Threats to explore the psychology behind successful co-parenting and why high-conflict relationships often follow predictable patterns. Dr. Rollins-Threats shares her powerful "45 record" analogy to explain how our earliest life experiences continue to influence our relationships, communication, and parenting as adults. Together, they discuss healthy co-parenting, parallel parenting, protecting children from conflict, common communication breakdowns, and practical strategies parents can use to create a healthier environment for their children. Whether you're navigating divorce, co-parenting, or simply interested in how childhood experiences shape adult relationships, this episode offers valuable insights for every family.