Engineering Confidence for Women | Lessons from a Female Design Engineer | Overcoming Imposter Syndrome & Work Bias

Discover how women in STEM can engineer confidence, tackle imposter syndrome, and overcome gender bias in the workplace.

Welcome to the She Talks Confidence Podcast, where powerful women share their journeys to authentic self-belief. In this episode, "Engineering Your Confidence: Lessons from a Design Engineer’s Journey," host Tony Dufresne, PhD sits down with Sam, a top design engineer, to explore what it takes to thrive in a male-dominated field.

Sam reveals how she overcame self-doubt, navigated workplace bias, and found her voice as a leader and mentor. You'll hear actionable tips for building real confidence, why having a support network is essential, and the inside story of how Sam helps the next generation of women engineers rise.

Three Biggest Takeaways

Self-Validation Is Key
True confidence comes from knowing you’ve done your best and not relying on others' opinions 03:17.

Proactive Leadership Breaks Barriers
Stepping up and taking the lead—even when it feels scary—is essential for career growth and changing perceptions 05:52.

Networks & Mentorship Matter
Building a community of supportive peers and mentors, especially women, can bridge the gap and boost resilience 08:26.

Connect with the Guest
Sam Rabinovitz: srschmad@gmail.com

Connect with the Host
Tony Dufresne, PhD:
Website: tonydufresne.com
Email: tony@theconfidencedoc.com

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In this episode titled "Rewriting Your Path," host Tony Dufresne, PhD sits down with author, strategist, and national security leader Ashley Davis, whose acclaimed new book The Power of Pivot: Grit, Grace, and Growth empowers women to embrace change with confidence.

Ashley shares her remarkable journey from her pivotal role in the White House during 9/11 to conquering imposter syndrome as a working mom and trailblazing a career in male-dominated industries. This candid conversation is packed with hard-won wisdom and tools for any woman ready to take bold steps in work, family, or personal growth.

Three Biggest Takeaways

Embrace Tiny Pivots
Major life changes don’t happen overnight. Ashley reveals how a series of small, intentional pivots can prepare you for life’s biggest opportunities and how discomfort can be reframed as a sign of growth, not fear.

Prioritize Self for Greater Confidence
Letting go of guilt and prioritizing your own ambitions is essential, not just for you, but for those you love. Ashley discusses overcoming “mom guilt” and why claiming space for your dreams creates a stronger, more confident you.

Have a Plan, but Be Flexible
Success in any transition is about creating actionable steps while staying open to new directions. Learn how to design a dynamic roadmap for your next chapter and why grace, grit, and adaptability are your greatest assets.

Connect with the Guest & Host

Ashley Davis:
Instagram, LinkedIn, X: @AshleyDavis_DC
Get The Power of Pivot on Amazon or Goodreads

Dr. Tony Dufresne:
Visit: theconfidencedoc.com
Email: tony@theconfidencedoc.com

In today’s episode, “How to Eliminate Self-Care Guilt,” host Tony Dufresne, PhD sits down with Nuttha Goutier, CEO and founder of Sabai Thai Spa. In this honest and inspiring conversation, Nuttha Goutier shares her journey from rural Thailand to successful entrepreneur, uncovering the cultural roots of our self-care guilt and, more importantly, how to let it go.

If you’ve ever felt selfish for taking a break, or struggled to make wellness a daily habit, this episode will shift your mindset and empower you with practical strategies rooted in Thai tradition and true self-worth.

Three Big Takeaways from This Episode:

Self-care is a responsibility, not a luxury. In many cultures, caring for yourself is seen as vital, not selfish. Adopting this mindset can help women let go of societal guilt and finally prioritize their well-being.

Small daily rituals make the biggest impact. You don’t need an expensive spa day. A few minutes of meditation, breathwork, gratitude, or simply a smile in the mirror each morning can start to transform your confidence and mental health.

Your well-being lifts up everyone around you. By making self-care a habit, you become a more present parent, friend, leader, and colleague. Taking care of yourself isn’t just good for you, it’s a gift to your community.

Connect with Nuttha:
Find Nuttha Goutier on LinkedIn (Nuttha Goutier), or visit sabayfinchai.com and sabaythais.com for more on her wellness philosophy, spa experiences, and franchising opportunities.

Connect with Tony Dufresne, PhD:
Explore resources and book a complimentary chat at theconfidencedoc.com, or email Tony at tony@theconfidencedoc.com.

Embrace a richer, more confident life—ditch the guilt and start thriving with intentional self-care rituals, beginning today!