Are Black women really “hyper-independent”… or are we responding to the world we live in?In Episode 1 of She Knows the Game, I sit down with Smart for an honest, layered conversation about hyper-independence, submission, masculinity, nightlife culture, and how modern dating has shaped Black women’s survival instincts.We talk about: • Where hyper-independence really comes from • Whether submission is misunderstood or misused • Masculinity, femininity, and power dynamics • How nightlife and hustle culture affect relationships • Why Black women are often judged instead of understoodThis isn’t a surface-level debate — it’s real perspective, real experiences, and real truth.If you’ve ever been called “too independent,” felt pressure to shrink yourself, or questioned how dating dynamics are shifting — this episode is for you.🎙 She Knows the Game — Episode 1👤 Guest: SmartLet me know your thoughts in the comments — I want to hear your perspective.#SheKnowsTheGame#HyperIndependent#BlackWomen#ModernDating#DatingTalk#MasculinityAndFemininity#BlackRelationships#PodcastConversation#DatingPodcast#WomenAndPower#RealTalkPodcast#RelationshipDynamics#BlackLoveConversations#msbrownstone

Nicki Minaj and Cardi B are back at it again, and this time it’s getting nasty. 👀 Nicki fired shots at Cardi in a series of tweets, claiming that “Queens plan their pregnancies” — throwing shade about intentionality, protection, and standards in relationships. She compared her own choices to Cardi’s, even dragging in topics like marriage, divorce, and kids out of wedlock.But here’s the bigger question… do women who know their worth actually plan their pregnancies? Are modern women moving like queens or moving reckless?In this video, we break down:🔥 Nicki Minaj’s tweets and why they shook the internet🔥 Cardi B’s response & how it turned ugly fast🔥 The real conversation: self-worth, standards, and what it means to be intentional in dating and relationshipsThis isn’t just gossip — it’s a deeper look at how celebrity drama reflects the choices women make every day.

In this episode, we get into the messy truth behind Akbar’s marriage. She exposed her husband for abuse, cheating, and using her for money—and even claimed that he and his side chick jumped her 😳. But let’s be real… this is the same woman who was once begging to be with a married man.

Is this karma, or just another toxic cycle playing out? I also dig deeper into how self-esteem and weight can impact dating choices, and why so many women end up settling for abuse when they don’t fully value themselves.

👉🏽 If you’ve ever questioned why you stayed in a situation that broke you, or why women sometimes accept less than they deserve, this episode will hit home.