Lyuba Venable on: Why Sex Can Feel Like It’s Not for You

There was a moment, early in Lyuba’s first experiences of being in a relationship, when she was having sex and realized it simply wasn’t good for her. As she watched her partner enjoying the experience, a thought came over her:“Sex isn’t for women.”

That thought sent her on a deeper exploration of female sexuality, desire, pleasure, and why so many women struggle to experience sex as something that is truly for them.

In this episode of Everyday Intimacy, we explore:

• ​ “Don’t spread your legs until she is on fire.” What Lyuba means by this provocative rule and why women’s desire matters.
• ​ Why women may feel like they have a low libido. What low desire can actually mean, what may be underneath it, and why women may not want sex.
• ​ Why so many women feel like sex isn’t for them. The difficulties, conditioning, and disconnection that can make sexuality and pleasure challenging to access.

About Lyuba Venable

With 13 years of experience in somatic and intimacy work, Lyuba weaves together teachings from Tantra, Taoism, the Human Awareness Institute, and Somatica to help women expand their sexual expression, navigate personal growth, and build deeper intimacy with themselves and their partners.

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If you’re a woman and willing to hop on a short research call with Lyuba, you can schedule it here:

⁠https://empoweredsexuality.as.me/research⁠

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