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  • Yes! Your Vibrator Is Numbing You Out!

    Yes! Your Vibrator Is Numbing You Out!
    Jan 29 2026
    In this 2025 Tantra Talks Throwback, Devi and Tugce dive into the truth about vibrators, desensitization, and the not-so-subtle gaslighting happening in the pleasure product industry.

    This episode is not to shame you (or anyone) about vibrator use.

    The purpose is to educate you about the long-term impacts on your body and validate your lived experiences.

    In this episode, Devi and Tugce explore how Tibetan 5 Element Tantra and Holistic Sexology methods can help reawaken your nervous system, restore your sensation, and support your healing, without shame, and without outsourcing your pleasure to plastic.

    In this episode, we discuss:
    • The stone-cold reality that vibrators can desensitize the clitoral nerve endings over time
    • Why “needing stronger settings” is a red flag, not a flex
    • The link between vibrator use and emotional dissociation
    • How vibrators can mimic the impact of p🌐rn on the nervous system
    • Why the sex toy industry is gaslighting women (and who's profiting)
    • What your downward voiding winds are—and why electronics can disturb them
    • How vibrators were invented (hint: lazy doctors + hysterical housewives 😬)
    • What to do if you feel dependent on vibrators and how to reclaim your sensitivity!
    Long story short, we’re not saying NOT to use your vibrator.

    We’re saying: use it with intention, not to override your body, but to deepen your connection to it.

    As with everything sexual and somatic, your body isn’t broken—we just need to understand the language that it speaks!

    *Post Note- There has been some Western research regarding the numbing impact of clitoral vibrators over time. More information and links to research sources can be found here - https://holisticsexologyinstitute.com/blog/




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    43 min
  • Tantra Vs Porn: Can They Co-Exist? 🤔

    Tantra Vs Porn: Can They Co-Exist? 🤔
    Jan 22 2026
    What is the relationship between Tantra and modern pornography? Can there even be a relationship between these two seemingly disparate approaches to sexuality?

    In this 2025 Tantra Talks Throwback episode, Dr. Erickson and Devi Ward Erickson take on the very nuanced topic of Tantra vs Porn and discuss:

    • The difference between p✨rn and erotica—and why that distinction matters
    • How habitual p✨rn use can dull your imagination (which is essential for Tantra)
    • Why fantasy and visualization are powerful tools in solo practice
    • What happens when your sexual nervous system is trained to climax fast
    • When and how p✨rn can actually be used skillfully (yes, really)
    • Why Tantra is about refinement, not restriction

    They also share personal stories, cultural context, and practical tips for anyone navigating solo sexual cultivation, especially those working with semen retention, orgasmic awareness, or deepening their connection to pleasure.

    Tune in for more!


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    38 min
  • Your C*ck Is a Tool for Healing! 💪🏽

    Your C*ck Is a Tool for Healing! 💪🏽
    Jan 15 2026
    Did you know your p3nis is medicine???

    In this powerful episode from the 2025 Tantra Talks archives, we’re flipping the entire script on what it means to be a man, to own a penis, and to awaken your vajra as a sacred, conscious tool of healing, transformation, and power 💪🏽

    In This Episode You Will:
    • Discover why your penis isn’t just for pleasure—it's a literal diamond scepter of wisdom (aka Vajra)
    • Uncover how circumcision trauma numbs your sensitivity and blocks healing.
    • Explore the cultural cost of disconnection from our genitals(and how to undo it)
    • Reclaim your sexual sovereignty as a man.
    • Learn how conscious lingam massage can awaken sensitivity and dissolve trauma.
    • Understand the difference between penetration and presence(and why the latter is way hotter)
    • Rewire your nervous system to feel more—not just"get off" faster
    • Integrate solo practice, emotional healing, and spiritual depth in becoming a mature lover
    This episode is about Pleasure, Healing, & Power—For Real

    Awaken your Vajra for healing with our Ejaculation Mastery for Men Tantra Healing Program. https://holisticsexologyinstitute.com/ejaculation-mastery/

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    1 ora
  • Is It Polyamory Or Polyf*ckery?🤔

    Is It Polyamory Or Polyf*ckery?🤔
    Jan 8 2026
    2025 Tantra Talks Throwback! If you followed spiritual communities online in 2025, you likely noticed this topic: Polyamory, Aubrey Marcus, and “Radical Nonmonogamy”, etc., etc.

    But are all these radical liberating concepts simply code words for “Poly f*ckery” i.e. f*ck around without consequence?

    In this throwback episode of Tantra Talks from May 2025, we address one of the most common myths in Western Tantra:

    Do you have to be polyamorous to practice Tantra?
    Short answer: No.

    But we go way deeper than that.

    You'll discover how the unexpected choice of intentional monogamy could lead to more profound spiritual growth than you ever imagined, and learn about simple, powerful practices to transform any relationship context.


    1. Here’s what we unpack:
    • Why Tantra is not inherently polyamorous or monogamous

    • The real danger of “poly-f*ckery” masquerading as spiritual awakening

    • How non-monogamy can become another form of trauma reenactment

    • How choosing “intentional monogamy” can serve as a powerful exploration in spiritual practice.

    • How to make relationship choices from presence—not pressure or performance

    • Our personal experiences navigating polyamory, swinging, and monogamy within a Tantric context.



    The monogamy vs non-monogamy debate isn’t just a spicy trend—it’s a deeper call to examine your intention, nervous system, and patterns when it comes to how you love and connect.


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    43 min
  • Tantra+Ayahuasca:Why Lineage Matters!

    Tantra+Ayahuasca:Why Lineage Matters!
    Dec 18 2025
    ​In this LAST Sex Is Medicine episode of 2025, we revisit a Tantra Talks episode from Spring 2025...

    And, this time, strive to set the record straight by offering authentic, lineage-based guidance on the most proper, respectful, and effective ways to engage with this medicine from the plant world.

    Tune in to learn about how to properly and respectfully engage with Grandmother Ayahuasca.
    Whether you’re curious, cautious, or committed, this episode equips you with lineage-tested principles.

    Discover:
    • What we got wrong in the previous episode and WHY
    • The very real dangers of using Aya without proper lineage and guidance
    • How to be in the right relationship with Aya
    • The dynamic dance of Tibetan Tantra and Aya
    • Why lineage matters in both Ayahuasca and Tantra
    • The different lineages of Ayahuasca ceremonies
    • What to look for in an Aya facilitator
    • What to be aware of when looking to explore Aya use
    • Why Ayahuasca is not for everyone and how to know if it is right for you



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    1 ora e 21 min
  • Sex+Aging, Throatgasms, Porn Addiction and Navigating ED as a Couple

    Sex+Aging, Throatgasms, Porn Addiction and Navigating ED as a Couple
    Dec 11 2025
    How should we react when a partner is unable to maintain an erection?

    This episode of Sex Is Medicine answers listeners' questions about:
    • Navigating psychosomatic ED as a couple
    • The impact of aging on sex and the best remedies for addressing vaginal dryness, thinning tissues, and low libido
    • Are Throatgasms a thing?
    • How to find your pelvic floor muscles
    • The use of fantasy to recover from porn addiction
    Sit back, relax, and enjoy this week’s episode of Sex Is Medicine Reboot!

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    53 min
  • Abortion+Reproductive Justice:An Essential Guide for Resistance

    Abortion+Reproductive Justice:An Essential Guide for Resistance
    Dec 4 2025
    It's not often we get the opportunity to speak to living legends!

    Join us for a conversation about Reproductive Justice with Loretta J Ross and Marlene Gerber -two prominent leaders in the social justice movement.

    ABORTION AND REPRODUCTIVE JUSTICE: An Essential Guide for Resistance, by Marlene Gerber Fried and Loretta J. Ross, emphasizes that the right to have and raise children is as essential for reproductive choice as the right not to.

    This critical approach—originating in Black feminism—provides grounding for radical abortion advocacy. Calling on us to join in, the book highlights abortion stories from individuals and organizations who are putting this analysis into action on the front lines, in the United States and beyond.

    By linking abortion rights to broader social justice initiatives, including Black Lives Matter, immigrant and refugee rights, disability justice, and LGBTQ+ rights, the authors expand the conversation at a critical moment.

    In this episode of Sex Is Medicine, we discuss:
    • Why "reproductive justice" goes beyond abortion rights to include the right to parent
    • - How this framework changes the conversation.
    • - The connections between abortion access and broader social justice movements, including:
    • - Black Lives Matter
    • - Immigrant rights
    • - Disability Justice
    • - LGBTQ+ rights
    • - Stories of activists and organizations on the front lines, and what they teach about building an inclusive, intersectional movement for the future.

    About Our Guests
    Marlene Gerber Fried is Professor Emerita of Philosophy at Hampshire College and cofounder of the National Network of Abortion Funds.

    Loretta J. Ross is a MacArthur Fellow, Associate Professor of Women and Gender at Smith 1111 FRANKLIN ST OAKLAND, CA 94607 • UCPRESS.EDU
    College, and cofounder of SisterSong Women of Color Reproductive Health Collective. They are coauthors, with Jael Silliman and Elena Gutiérrez, of Undivided Rights: Women of Color Organize for Reproductive Justice. Abortion and Reproductive Justice: An Essential Guide for Resistance (University
    of California Press, 9/9/25).

    By weaving together personal stories, historical analysis, and movement strategy, they expand the conversation and show how abortion rights are deeply connected to racial, economic, LGBTQ+, and immigrant Justice.



    Learn more about this episode at https://holisticsexologyinstitute.com/?p=2187



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    1 ora e 4 min
  • Beyond The Clitoris: A Dissertation On Female Pleasure Zones

    Beyond The Clitoris: A Dissertation On Female Pleasure Zones
    Nov 27 2025
    Beyond The Clitoris: A Dissertation On Female Pleasure Zones

    There is a concerning phenomenon in the field of sexology involving the emergence of a nearly militant insistence that the clitoris is the ONLY source of female orgasm.

    This viewpoint not only dismisses the lived experiences of millions of women but is also simply anatomically incorrect.

    While the clitoris and its surrounding structures are indeed extraordinary, they are not the only sources of orgasm. Orgasms can vary significantly and can originate from various parts of the body, the brain, and even the energy body.

    After over a decade of teaching people how to expand their orgasmic capacity, we've discovered that orgasms come in many variations, influenced by a broad range of factors—physical, psychological, emotional, intellectual, and energetic.


    In this episode of Sex Is Medicine, Devi and Alaina explore the many types of orgasmic pleasure that do not originate from the CUV complex, such as:
    • - Cervical and uterine orgasms
    • - P-spot orgasms
    • - Anal orgasms
    • - Breast and nipple orgasms
    • - Orgasms from stimulation of the skin, ears, or feet
    • - "Throatgasms"
    • - Exercise-induced orgasms or coregasms
    Tune in for a Ph. D. level dissertation on Female Pleasure Zones

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    1 ora e 2 min