***Content warning*** This episode includes discussion of child sexual abuse, spiritual abuse, coercive control, and addiction. Please take care while listening.

If you or someone you know has been affected by sexual abuse, you can contact Rape Crisis England & Wales (24/7) via their support page: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/get-help/want-to-talk/

In this episode of Secular Sankofa, we sit down with Dionne Simpson, a Black British author, speaker, and survivor. Dionne traces a life shaped by racial isolation, church-centred control, and a pattern of strategic grooming that led to a devastating disclosure at fifteen, followed by disbelief and ostracism from both family and faith leadership.

Follow Dionne and explore her work

• Website: https://dionnesimpson.co.uk/
• Store: https://dionne-simpson-books.sumupstore.com/products
• The Sabotaged Girl: https://dionne-simpson-books.sumupstore.com/product/the-sabotaged-girl
• Spiritual Abuse Awareness Online Course: https://dionne-simpson-books.sumupstore.com/product/spiritual-abuse-awareness-online-course
• Forged By Fire (Vol. 1): Crucible of Flame: https://dionne-simpson-books.sumupstore.com/product/forged-by-fire-volume-one-crucible-of-flame
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DoraMilajeAcademy
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesabotagedgirl
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dionnesimpson-author/
• TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dionnesimpson7
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZVCMOiE2sZLOwg2Mqkw0wQ
  
  

Thanks for listening to the Secular Sankofa Podcast, produced by the Association of Black Humanists (ABH). If you enjoy the show, please follow, rate, and review — it helps more people discover Black humanist voices.

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"Live out those principles of universal sisterhood and brotherhood and come together with your fellow human beings in a secular manner to make the world a better place for every single one of us seven billion. We are all of us, brothers and sisters... connected through our humanity and not through some superhuman force." - Akua Rugg

In this powerful conversation, lifelong activist, educator and humanist Akua Rugg reflects on her remarkable journey from Nigeria to Britain — from growing up in a deeply religious household to becoming part of the Race Today Collective, one of the most influential movements in Black British history.

At 79, Akua shares how her early experiences with colonial Christianity, racism, and resistance shaped her lifelong pursuit of justice, equality, and humanist values. She speaks about her work alongside figures such as CLR James and the Black Parents Movement, her memories of the New Cross Fire and the Black People’s Day of Action, and how humanism continues to guide her activism today.

Further Reading & Resources

• History of the Race Today Collective – The Guardian
• Race Today (Wikipedia)
• League of Coloured Peoples (Wikipedia)
  • Stella Thomas (Akua's Aunt)
  • Peter Thomas (Akua's Uncle)
• Black Unity and Freedom Party (Wikipedia)
• The New Cross Fire – Museum of London
• Black People’s Day of Action 1981 – UCL Exhibition

Thanks for listening to the Secular Sankofa Podcast, produced by the Association of Black Humanists (ABH). If you enjoy the show, please follow, rate, and review — it helps more people discover Black humanist voices.

Stay connected with us:

• 🌍 Meetup: association-of-black-humanists
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🎙️ Podcast produced by Humanise Live a podcast production agency based in London, serving charities, companies, and individuals across the globe.

.Learn more at www.humanise.live or hello@humanise.live

🎶 Music: Icy by Jeff Kaale

“I’m a pastor’s kid, so this is probably their worst nightmare.” — Laura Iteman

A brave, generous conversation with Laura Iteman, a London based free-thinker and community builder on leaving Pentecostal certainty, naming the stigma non-religious Black women face, and building real-life community from a single TikTok call-out. From the cost of deconstruction to creating Non-Religious Black London Girlies, Laura maps a path that’s honest, careful, and hopeful: keep the culture, drop the dogma, and rebuild the village offline.

🎙️ In this episode

• Laura's roots in the Church and relationship with family & friends
• RCCG scale, culture, and how church becomes “the village”
• Turning points, apologetics, and textual doubt
• Agnostic honesty: holding space for uncertainty without shame
• “Why Black? Why women?” — safety, realism and representation
• From TikTok → Discord → Regent’s Park picnic (why in-person matters)
• The power of community & collaboration
• Dealing with the backlash and setting boundaries

🔗 Connect with Laura

• TikTok: @lauraunfiltered2
• X (Twitter): @lauraI_
• Discord: access available via DM

Thanks for listening to the Secular Sankofa Podcast, produced by the Association of Black Humanists (ABH). If you enjoy the show, please follow, rate, and review — it helps more people discover Black humanist voices.

Stay connected with us:

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• ▶️ YouTube: Association of Black Humanists
• 🎵 TikTok: @assoc_of_black_humanists

Learn more about our work and community at abhumanists.org

🎙️ Podcast produced by Humanise Live a podcast production agency based in London, serving charities, companies, and individuals across the globe.

.Learn more at www.humanise.live or hello@humanise.live

🎶 Music: Icy by Jeff Kaale