A rich conversation with Dr. Pepper Schwartz, an acclaimed sociologist, sexologist, and bestselling author. Dr. Schwartz discusses the importance of communication and intimacy in relationships, debunks myths about sex and aging, and provides practical advice for individuals at different stages of life. The episode concludes with a segment called 'They Said It,' where Dr. Schwartz offers her perspectives on notable quotes related to love, sex, and relationships.

Topics

02:40 Reflecting on 2025 and Looking Ahead to 2026

04:47 The Power of Pause and Measuring Success

07:18 Reflecting on Past Episodes and Guests

11:21 Discussing Relationships and Marriage

16:06 Dating Post-Divorce and Intimacy

26:12 Financial Planning and Divorce

34:11 End of Year Reflections and Future Plans

38:49 The Physical Benefits of Climax

39:22 Sexuality After Age 50

42:00 Gray Divorce and Sexuality

43:53 Misinterpretations in Human Sexuality

47:56 AI Companions and Relationships

50:25 Reality TV and Marriage

54:12 Politics and Love

57:13 Advice for Different Ages

59:03 Communication in Relationships

01:02:09 Rituals to Keep Chemistry Alive

01:07:56 Famous Quotes on Love and Sex

Evan is joined by communication experts Dr. Dennis Becker and Robin Golinski, co-authors of 'Outwitting the Manipulator.' The episode delves into recognizing and responding to manipulation in real-time, particularly within the context of high-conflict divorces and everyday relationships. Topics include common manipulation tactics such as gaslighting and love bombing, managing post-divorce parenting, and the significance of premarital counseling. The podcast also features a discussion on handling manipulation from leadership in the workplace and offers practical advice for those dealing with manipulators. The episode concludes with the fun segment 'They Said It,' where Evan and guests analyze famous quotes related to manipulation.

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Topics

02:39 Holiday Struggles During Divorce

05:48 Co-Parenting During the Holidays

11:18 Life After Divorce: Remarriage and Moving On

13:06 Overrated or Underrated: Fun and Legal Topics

24:06 Interview with Dr. Dennis Becker and Robin Golinski

36:51 Understanding Manipulative Personalities

37:34 Can Manipulators Change?

38:15 Manipulation Tactics in the Workplace

39:29 Mastering Skills to Handle Manipulation

43:11 Manipulation in High Conflict Divorces

44:17 Communicating with a Manipulative Ex

47:06 Spotting Manipulation in Legal Cases

59:09 Quotes on Manipulation

01:04:32 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Evan dives into the complexities of divorce and addiction with featured guest Erin Khar, author of 'Strung Out'. The episode covers Erin's personal journey through a 15-year heroin addiction, her approach to recovery, and her advice on navigating relationships plagued by substance abuse. The conversation also touches on broader societal issues, such as the stigma around addiction and the flawed family court system. Listeners will find practical advice on handling the holiday season amidst divorce, the nuances of parental alienation claims, and thoughts on cultural phenomena like Taylor Swift. The episode concludes with an engaging segment featuring quotes from notable figures and a lively discussion on the underrated cranberry sauce.

Topics

00:15 Divorce and the Holiday Season

05:26 AI Relationships and Legal Challenges

12:04 Overrated or Underrated: Pop Culture Edition

23:14 Interview with Erin Khar: Addiction and Recovery

36:15 Addressing Skeptical Senators on Harm Reduction

36:47 The Economic Argument for Medicated Assisted Treatment

39:05 Personal Reflections on Writing a Memoir

40:40 The Dichotomy of Heroin Use

43:39 The Unwinnable War on Drugs

45:41 Advocating for Harm Reduction and Community Support

50:51 Balancing Advice and Personal Experience

52:51 Lessons from Beverly Hills 90210

54:40 Changing the Language Around Addiction

56:31 Parenting and Personal Accountability

01:14:05 The Importance of Sharing Your Story

01:19:36 Final Thoughts and Reflections