#FailureIsNormal #ScaredShitlessPodcast #GrowthMindsetEver feel like failing means you’re a failure? Spoiler: it doesn’t! In this episode of the Scared Shitless Podcast, I dive into why failure is not only normal but necessary on your journey to success.I talk about the negative emotions that come with failing — guilt, shame, fear — and why they’re actually signs you’re learning and growing. If you’ve ever been scared of messing up, this episode is for you.🎧 What you’ll learn:Why failure is part of every success storyHow to reframe negative emotions around failingSteps to move forward even when things go wrong💬 Drop your questions in the comments📩 DM Sarah for motivation👍 Like the video to support the channel🔔 Subscribe for weekly motivation and real-estate development content#OvercomingFailure #PersonalGrowth #SuccessMindset #FailureToSuccess #MentalHealth #SelfImprovement

Ever wondered what developers actually spend before construction even begins?

In today’s episode of Scared Shitless, Sarah breaks down the complete soft-cost budget for her 6-unit development project in Ottawa, from surveys to permits, engineering, environmental studies, and everything in between.If you're planning your first development, raising capital, or trying to understand what numbers investors want to see, this episode will save you from surprises and thousands in mistakes.

In this episode of Scared Shitless, we welcome back Carine Toham Ngoy — this time joined by her business partner, Adenike (Nike) Oreyomi — to continue the conversation about their 24-unit infill development project in Ottawa.

Together, they open up about the challenges they’ve facedalong the way — from a year-long tenant eviction process, to unexpected city requirements for additional studies, to the hurdles of financing a major project.

These Momvestors talk about the courage it takesto take on big risks and the unstoppable mindset required to keep going, no matter what.

Carine and Nike are the founders of The NCTL Group, aBlack-owned real estate development company on a mission to create accessible, high-quality housing that helps immigrant families find stability, belonging,and pride in their new home.

Connect with them:
🏢 The NCTL Group
Instagram: @thenctlgroup
Email: admin@thenctlgroup.com

👩‍💼 Carine Toham Ngoy
Instagram: @cktpartnersinvest
Facebook: Carine Toham

👩‍💼 Adenike (Nike) Oreyomi
Instagram: @lanik_real_estate_investing
Facebook: Adenike-Shittu Lanre Ore

On this episode of Scared SHITLESS, I sit down with my husband, Lenard, to talk about the big transitions he’s made in life — from a professional football career, to working in government, to building wealth through real estate investing. 🏈💼🏡Lenard shares:• What it really feels like to pivot careers when your “first dream” ends.• His best tips for getting started in real estate investing (even if you have little or no money)• The key things to look for in a life partner before marriage.This episode is all about facing fear, taking risks, and building a future you love. If you’ve ever felt terrified of change but knew you needed to take the leap — this one’s for you.👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share if you got value from this conversation.Lenard can be found on:Instagram: @20.more Facebook: Lenard Sémajuste

Decision burnout is real — and it’s draining your energy before you even get to the important stuff. In this episode, I talk about how I cut down on the little daily choices so I can save my brainpower for the bigger, business-defining decisions. From streamlining routines to creating mental shortcuts, these are the hacks that help me stay focused on what actually matters.

Starting a business isn’t just about strategy, money, or ideas—it’s about surviving the silence when no one else “gets it.” In this episode of Scared Shitless, I dive into the raw reality of entrepreneurship: the late nights, the self-doubt, and the overwhelming loneliness that no one talks about.If you’ve ever felt like you’re building something on your own island, this episode is for you. I'm talking about why entrepreneurship can feel so isolating, and how to cope with the mental weight.👉 Subscribe to Scared Shitless for unfiltered conversations about the messy, human side of chasing big dreams.