Most men who are miserable in their work do not leave.
They stay. They push through. They tell themselves it could be worse. They carry on because that is what men do.
Robin Waite ran his marketing agency for twelve years. It was successful. It paid for his first house. It looked good from the outside.
On the inside he was completely and utterly miserable.
In this mini episode from Safe Harbour, Robin shares what happened the day everything changed. A Sunday cycle ride. A descent at 52.5 miles an hour. The adrenaline wearing off at the bottom of the hill. And then floods of tears that he could not explain to his cycling mates.
He ended up alone near a railway line just to process.
And in that moment of complete stillness, stripped of everything, he made a decision.
He was done.
The next day he sat his team of four around the boardroom table and told them he was closing the agency. Immediately.
What happened next is one of the most quietly beautiful moments in the whole episode.
And then Jamie shares something that every man who has ever taken a leap into the unknown will recognise.
The universe has a habit of catching you when you fall backwards.
But you have to fall first.
In this mini episode we explore:

What it feels like to run a successful business while being completely miserable inside
The breaking point that comes when a man has been pushing too long in the wrong direction
Why the most important decisions in life often come from the most unexpected moments of stillness
What Robin found sitting alone near a railway line with his daughter three weeks from being born
The team who said we were just waiting for the when not the if — and what that revealed about the man Robin actually is
Why regret about presence with your first child is one of the most common things men carry
Stepping into the not knowing, why the hardest part is always the leap not the landing
Andy's Man Club and why walking through a door you are scared of is the same as every other leap
What happens when life figures it out for you after you finally make the decision

If you are a man who knows he is in the wrong place but cannot seem to find the courage to step away, this is the episode to watch today.

Robin Waite is a business coach, speaker, author and founder of Fearless Business. He helps coaches, consultants and freelancers package their offers, price with confidence and build more profitable businesses. He is also the host of The Fearless Business Podcast and author of books including Take Your Shot, Online Business Startup and Fearless Pricing.

This is not a preachy episode. This is a curious conversation.If you've ever wondered whether alcohol is costing you more than you're admitting, this is the conversation to have. And if you're certain it isn't? This one's especially for you.

Rich is almost five and a half years sober. Ben is just over three. Between them they've been through it, really through it, and come out the other side as two of the most honest, warm and clear-eyed voices on the subject of men and alcohol that Jamie has had on Safe Harbour.

Rich's story involves lockdown, losing everything, a back bedroom in North London, a message on an iPad he never finished, and a Zoom meeting that changed the direction of his life. Ben's starts with a hair transplant consultation, and ends with him being more present, more connected, and more himself than he's ever been. Neither story is what you expect. Both are completely real.If alcohol is quietly costing you something, a relationship, your sleep, your mornings, your presence with your kids, your self-respect, this conversation is for you. And if you're not sure whether it's costing you anything at all, this conversation is especially for you.

Jamie Robins is joined by James Sutton, actor, and founder of Protocol, for one of the most honest conversations on Safe Harbour yet. A raw, grounded discussion about identity, work, addiction recovery, masculinity, self-trust, and what it actually takes to rebuild yourself when the thing that defined you is gone.

James Sutton spent over 20 years in some of the UK's most recognised TV dramas Hollyoaks, Emmerdale, Casualty, Holby City, Doctors, and Trial and Retribution. Behind that career was a man quietly working out who he really was. Getting off drugs and alcohol. Building real structure. Learning to trust himself again. He now runs Protocol, a reset system for men built on lived experience, not theory.

Jamie opens up too. Sitting at the end of the bed crying every winter, trapped in a career he hated. Falling through his front door on his hands and knees after a week-long retreat saying "I don't know who I am anymore." And what it actually took to finally make the leap.

In this episode of Safe Harbour, Jamie and James explore identity, purpose, male mental health, addiction, masculinity, self-trust, dopamine, loneliness, working class roots, and why the old blueprint for being a man is quietly failing so many of us.

In this episode, Jamie and James talk about:

• James Sutton and the story behind Protocol
• Twenty years in UK TV drama and who he was behind the scenes
• Getting off drugs and alcohol and building real structure
• Why so many men outsource their entire sense of value to a job
• What happens when that job disappears
• The old blueprint for masculinity and why it's failing men
• Male suicide, what's really driving it and what men actually need
• The wrong order most men try to do it in
• Self-trust as a foundation, and how breaking small promises compounds
• Protocol: what it is, how it works, and why it's post-self-help
• Why motivation is transient and what to build instead
• The dopamine problem and what social media is quietly doing to men
• No male rite of passage: what young men are missing and what it's costing them

James Sutton
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Jamie Robins

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Foundation Sessions: https://www.jamiecoach.com/services