Stop making other people’s comfort your responsibility. If you’ve been swallowing comments, smoothing tension, or staying quiet to keep the peace, it’s not “maturity”—it’s self-silencing. And over time, it chips away at your confidence, your self-trust, and even your nervous system’s ability to feel safe being seen.

In this episode, Jessica Cumming breaks down what really happens when you finally speak up—not dramatically, not aggressively, but clearly. She shares the real-life moment a familiar comment crossed the line and she stopped protecting a dynamic that was never protecting her. The result wasn’t chaos—it was relief, alignment, and a version of herself she could finally respect.

Here’s the CLEAR method to speak up without starting a fight:
C — Clarify what’s actually bothering you (say the real thing, not the softened version)
L — Listen to your gut (your body notices misalignment first)
E — Evaluate the cost of silence (will you respect yourself tomorrow?)
A — Align with your values (speaking up is integrity, not aggression)
R — Respond directly (one sentence is enough)

This episode is for the woman who’s tired of shrinking in meetings, swallowing comments in relationships, or carrying emotional weight she never agreed to hold. Your voice doesn’t come back all at once—it returns one sentence at a time.

Power Move of the Week: Say one thing you’ve been swallowing. One clear sentence. Then stop negotiating with yourself about whether you were “too much.”

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