No coach ever plans to neglect their family.
It doesn’t happen in one decision —it happens in small compromises
that slowly become normal. I told myself it was temporary.Just this season.
Just this push.But seasons stack.
And what we don’t protect eventually pays the price.
You are a beloved son or daughter before you are a coach.
And your family does not exist to support your calling —
they are part of it.

If I could go back and talk to my younger self as a coach, these are the 10 things I’d tell him first.
I put them all into a free guide called “10 Things I Wish I Knew as a Young Coach.”
No fluff. No playbooks. Just real lessons from years of coaching, leading, winning, losing, and learning.
if you’re early in your coaching journey, or you want to coach with more purpose and clarity, grab it for free below.

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www.redeemingthegame.com/10things

Somewhere along the way, availability became the standard for care.
If you weren’t answering every call, every text, every late-night concern —it felt like you weren’t doing enough.
But constant availability has a cost. I believed being available made me a better coach.
And for a while, it did. But slowly, availability turned into expectation, and expectation turned into exhaustion.
I didn’t lose my passion —I lost my margin.

Pressure doesn’t change who we are —it reveals what we’re leaning on.
The game has a way of exposingwhat’s been holding us together all along.
I’ve coached in moments where pressure made me sharper…and moments where it made me smaller.
Short-tempered.Reactive.Tight.
That’s when I realized pressure wasn’t the problem.
It was showing me where my identity was anchored.
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What in your leadership feels urgent
but isn’t actually important?

And what is your urgency communicating
to your players, your staff, and your family?
Beloved coaches lead from rest —
not from scramble.
Urgency says, “If I don’t act now, I lose.”
Beloved leadership says,
“I can wait — because I’m not trying to prove anything.”
Calm is not complacency.
It’s confidence rooted in identity.

Practice reveals what you truly value. This episode breaks down how to design practices that shape decision-makers, competitors, and men—without burning out your team or yourself.

Wins and losses are loud, but they don’t get to name you. This episode speaks directly to coaches whose identity has been tied to results, seasons, and expectations—and offers a better, freer way to lead.

Wins and losses are loud, but they don’t get to name you. This episode speaks directly to coaches whose identity has been tied to results, seasons, and expectations—and offers a better, freer way to lead.

In this first episode, we will set the foundation for the journey we will go on. Coaching was never meant to cost you your soul, family, or your identity. We will explore how the game drifted from its original design-and how God is inviting us coaches back to lead from our Beloved Identity not pressure.