On this episode of QSE, Sara talks with Mia Schachter (they/them) from Consent Wizardy and the You're Doing it Wrong Podcast about all things consent! Discussion includes people pleasing, lying to ourselves, moving beyond the victim/perpetrator binary, what to do with accountability through a non-police state lens, and consent as an atmosphere of your relationship instead of a one-time conversation.

You can find more of Mia's work at www.consentwizardry.com and on Instagram @consent.wizardry. You can hear more from them by signing up for their consent educator classes and listening to their podcasts: "Share the Load" and "You're Doing it Wrong: A Podcast About Consent from a Twink and a Wh*re". You can also read their writing at www.consentwizardry.substack.com

This episode Sara talks with Aura (she/her), Star (she/it), and Deluge (any pronoun) from Effigy Films about how they got started camming and making trans-only porn, get a dom who'll tell you to take your daily meds, what it means to be a non-binary lesbian, and what scenes would they want to film with an infinite budget.

Find more about Effigy at www.effigyfilms.com and follow Deluge, Aura, and Star on Fansly, BlueSky, and Instagram. You can watch them on Chaturbate every weekday, connect on Stripchat, and buy their individual videos across the net.

Queer Sex Ed is a sex education project by and for trans people, queer people, and polyamorous people. We believe pleasure is necessary to building a kind and caring world free from racism, ableism, sexual violence, queerphobia, and trans antagonism. QSE exists to empower everyone to claim the sexual life they desire built on a foundation of communication, trust, and awareness of the power dynamics that influence interpersonal and community relationships.

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This is a live workshop with Sara from the Southwest Love Fest conference in Phoenix, AZ. Discussions include finding overlapping desires, consent as a practice instead of a one-time agreement, safe words, and pain calibration (with a live demo). Follow along with the slides at www.queersexed.org and please share this with anyone who needs this information! Welcome back to QSE, everyone. I've missed you.