In today’s episode, I sit down with Michael Ettinger of Ettinger Law Firm, an experienced estate planning attorney, to unpack some of the most misunderstood aspects of long-term planning, Medicaid Asset Protection Trusts (MAPTs), and inheritance protection. Michael shares his client-first philosophy and explains why estate planning is not about “one-size-fits-all” documents, but about thoughtful, ethical strategies that protect families, preserve dignity, and create lasting legacies.

Throughout our conversation, Michael breaks down common misconceptions around irrevocable trusts, explains how proper planning can safeguard assets while maintaining flexibility, and emphasizes the importance of transparency and education in the estate planning process. This episode offers practical insights for families who want to plan proactively—rather than reactively—while avoiding costly mistakes.

Timeline Summary

01:10 Introduction and Michael Ettinger’s estate planning philosophy

03:25 Common misconceptions about estate planning and trusts

06:40 What Medicaid Asset Protection Trusts (MAPTs) really are

10:15 Irrevocable vs. revocable trusts explained clearly

14:30 Why “control” is often misunderstood in irrevocable planning

18:45 Timing considerations and the Medicaid lookback period

22:10 Ethical planning vs. fear-based sales tactics

26:30 How inheritance protection trusts work

30:55 Protecting beneficiaries from creditors, divorce, and lawsuits

34:20 The importance of education and client-centered planning

38:40 Long-term advisor relationships and ongoing trust management

42:15 Planning for legacy, not just asset transfer

45:30 Final advice from Michael for families considering estate planning

5 Key Takeaways

- Estate Planning Is About Strategy, Not Documents: Michael emphasizes that effective planning is driven by goals, values, and long-term needs—not just paperwork.

- Irrevocable Does Not Mean Inflexible: When structured properly, irrevocable trusts can still provide adaptability while offering strong asset protection.

- Medicaid Planning Requires Early Action: MAPTs are powerful tools, but families must plan ahead due to strict lookback periods and eligibility rules.

- Inheritance Protection Safeguards the Next Generation: Trusts can protect beneficiaries from creditors, divorce, lawsuits, and poor financial decisions.

- Ethical Guidance Makes the Difference: Michael stresses the importance of working with advisors who educate clients and build long-term relationships rather than using fear-based tactics.

Links & Resources

Ettinger Law Firm

Website: https://www.trustlaw.com/

Leave The Key – Senior Transition Experts

Website: leavethekey.com/seniors

Phone: (631) 388-7771

Final Thoughts

Estate planning is ultimately about protecting people—not just assets. Michael Ettinger’s insights reinforce how proactive, ethical planning can reduce stress, prevent conflict, and create clarity for families across generations. If this episode helped you better understand estate planning or challenged assumptions you may have held, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with someone who could benefit. These are conversations every family should have before a crisis forces them to.