In this lively episode of Words of Wisdom from Kick-Ass Women, hosts Liz Brohan and Mary Olivieri dive into the complex, hilarious, and often exhausting world of modern love — and why more people are choosing to outsource it. Their guest, Lisa Goodman, a powerhouse matchmaker and VP at Selective Search, pulls back the curtain on why matchmaking isn’t old-fashioned at all — it’s strategic, safe, efficient, and deeply human.

Lisa explains why dating apps leave people emotionally drained, overwhelmed by choice, and worried about their safety — and how professional matchmaking flips the script with vetted introductions, personal coaching, and post-date feedback. She walks listeners through why more men than women invest in matchmaking, why quality singles are so hard to meet “in the wild,” and why being open-minded is the #1 rule in modern dating.

Packed with real success stories (including one woman who said “absolutely not” to a match — and then married him), this episode reminds us that perfection is an illusion, the right fit matters more than the right photo, and sometimes the best investment you can make… is in your love life.

🔗 Resources

1. Selective Search Matchmaking – https://www.selectivesearch.com
2. Film: Am I OK? (Dakota Johnson) / “The Materialists” reference
3. Bumble Dating App – https://bumble.com

💬Highlight Quotes

1. “Stop looking for the perfect person — start looking for the perfect fit. There’s a lid for every pot.”
2. “Dating apps give you endless options; matchmakers give you the right ones.”
3. “Be open, say yes, and get out of your own way — love rarely shows up exactly how you expect.”

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