America says it's cool with you being Black… until it isn't.

Too dark for the white side. Too light for the Black side. And somehow, you're just supposed to figure out where you belong. This is episode 31 of Let's Get Real — and it's one of the most personal, honest, and necessary conversations I've had on this show. We're talking Black History Month, light skin identity, and what it actually looks like to raise Black children in a world that still hasn't figured out how to see them clearly.

I'll say what most people won't say out loud — Black History Month shouldn't be a separate month. It should be woven into every curriculum, every classroom, every dinner table conversation in this country. We lost too much history before Dr. Carter G. Woodson built the foundation for it. But it's 2026. We need to stop treating it like a checkbox and start treating it like what it is: our shared American story.

Growing up light skinned, raised by a white mother, in a predominantly white neighborhood, attending predominantly white schools in Omaha — I didn't have access to Black history at home or at school. And now I'm raising kids who are even lighter than me. So how do I teach them who they are when I'm still piecing it together myself? I'll tell you exactly what I do — and I'll be straight with you about where I fall short.

Food. Travel. Conversation. Culture. That's how I bring it to my boys. We don't just eat — we learn where the food comes from, who made it, what it means. We don't just travel — we go to understand. It's not perfect. But it's real. And being real is the only way any of us get better at this.

If you're light skinned, you already know everything I'm saying is true — and you're probably laughing because you've lived it. If this is new to you? Good. Go talk to a light skinned friend. Do your research. Learn outside your lane. The inventors behind so much of what you use every day are Black… and most people have no idea. That's the problem. And this episode? This is the start of fixing it.

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You've got the passion. You've got the vision. You've got the people behind you. And you still can't get a yes. Why? Because you're speaking YOUR language — not theirs.

This episode of NoBS Wealth hits different. We're back in the studio with consultant and community builder Gabriel Langley, and we're going deep on one of the most overlooked problems destroying small businesses and community-driven projects today — the dangerous gap between hustle and strategy. Gabriel brings a real scenario to the table: a community event center project 10 years in the making. Passionate people. Powerful vision. Strong relationships. And a graveyard of nos from every major funding institution and city official they approached. The problem wasn't the project. The problem was the translation. They were not speaking the language that decision-makers needed to hear in order to say yes.

This is the episode that will make you pause and ask yourself the question that most business owners are terrified to answer: Are YOU the reason your business isn't moving? Not because you're not working hard enough — you probably are. But because hustle without positioning is just exhaustion dressed up in motivation. It gets you in the room. It doesn't get you the check. Gabriel breaks down exactly what it took to wake this team up, what the numbers revealed that a decade of passion couldn't, and why the moment those 20 pages hit the table, everything changed. The real aha wasn't the proposal. It was realizing they had outgrown their own playbook.

We run through the Noise vs. Truth rapid-fire segment and bust two myths that are holding entrepreneurs hostage right now. Myth one: if the vision is strong enough, someone will fund it. Myth two: keep pushing and it'll eventually work. The truth? Funders in 2026 don't care about your passion. They care about your contingency plan in a volatile market. And if you can't show them that — with data, demographics, job analysis, and projections — your pitch is noise. Doesn't matter how many doors you knock on.

Then we walk through Gabriel's powerful 3-step framework that every business owner, founder, or dreamer needs tattooed somewhere visible: Surface the real problem. Make the invisible visible. Create the path forward. These aren't buzzwords. This is the actual process that turned a stalled 10-year dream into a funded, energized, actionable plan. And the urgency of the first 30 days after that clarity hits? That's the momentum that either saves your business or lets it die on the vine.

We close this one out honoring Black History Month in a way that goes beyond the surface. Gabriel shares what the month means to him personally — rooted in his father's legacy, the African tradition of storytelling,

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Black History Month isn’t supposed to be a highlight reel of the same five names. It’s supposed to be receipts. And today I’m putting you on one most people have never heard of: Annie Turnbo Malone.

Before “personal brand.” Before “women in business” panels. Before folks started acting like community was a hashtag, Annie built Poro College and used business like a real tool: training, jobs, pride, and a whole ecosystem for Black women to earn and grow.

This episode is about the difference between a hustle and infrastructure. Annie didn’t just sell a product. She built a system and a hub. Political events. Community events. Support. Safety. A place that meant something.

And if you’re a business owner right now trying to hold everything together, this is your reminder: stability is power. Clarity and community aren’t “soft.” They’re survival skills.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/fIyt0YxA-HA

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