People think TBI recovery just means you get tired fast. In this episode, I explain why it is actually terrifying.

I break down the "Cognitive Drain"—the moment I realized I couldn't trust my own brain to save a simple work note. I also define what "Spasticity" actually feels like (hint: it’s not a cramp, it’s a fire) and the "Zaps" that feel like 10,000 volts in my spine.

If you have ever sat in a doctor's office or a Zoom meeting pretending you aren't vibrating inside, this episode is for you.

Topics:

• The difference between "tired" and "cognitive failure."

• Spasticity: Swallowing a washing machine.

• The "Zaps": Bio-electricity vs. Anxiety.

• Why I stopped "pushing through."

"The Fixer is trying to be dead."

For years, my identity was wrapped up in being the person who saved the day. If there was a problem, I fixed it. If there was a job, I took it. If there was silence, I filled it. But this week, my body slammed the brakes.

After a "Time Loss" neurological event and a seizure scare, I had to make a choice that terrified the "Old Cassie": I said no to a paycheck.

In this episode, we are holding a funeral for The Fixer and learning how to become "The Lighthouse."

We talk about:

• The "Lazy" Lie: Why we shame ourselves when we are actually injured.

• The $2500 Mistake: Turning down a grant job to save my brain.

• The "Kung Fu Panda" Theory: How to be an immovable force in a storm.

• The "Yikes" Moment: The hardest part of parenting adult children (letting go of the controls).

• Dignity & Rage: A personal story about my son, a public assault, and why choosing not to fight back was the ultimate power move.

Resources:

• • Shop the Vintage Collection: Find a timeless piece for yourself at my Etsy store: https://cassiegems.etsy.com

  
  

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We made it to double digits! 🎉 Welcome to Episode 10 of Stronger Together.

This episode is coming to you a little later than usual, and that is exactly the point. In this episode, we are pulling back the curtain on what it really looks like to balance professional goals with the unpredictable reality of special needs parenting and chronic illness.

We often think that if we can’t do something "perfectly" or "on schedule," we shouldn't do it at all. Today, we are challenging that. We are talking about giving yourself grace, navigating family hurdles (especially during the holidays), and finding the victory in just showing up—even if you're a day late.

In this episode, we discuss:

• The myth of the "Perfect Schedule" and why it sets us up to fail.
• How to keep moving forward when life (and family emergencies) throws you off track.
• Why "Done" is always better than "Perfect."
• Celebrating the small wins in the midst of the mess.
• Whether you are a fellow "Spoonie," a special needs parent, or just someone trying to keep their head above water this week, this episode is for you. Grab your coffee (or your heating pad) and let’s chat.

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