In this episode of Sabi Cruise, Bisola and Barbara dive into the psychology of risk. Barbara explains why she believes in "Design Thinking," the art of failing fast and learning on the go, and why she refuses to let perfectionism keep her from starting new ventures.But it’s not just about business. The conversation takes a vulnerable turn as they discuss why high-achieving women often have a high tolerance for financial risk but a low tolerance for romantic risk. We explore how to build "resistance to pain," why your choice of partner is your most important business decision, and how to deal with the social pressure of African "prestige" careers while navigating a pivot.Whether you're struggling with "the hustle," feeling guilty about taking breaks, or trying to protect your energy from external opinions, this episode is a masterclass in resilience and self-trust.

Timestamps:24:08 – The Freedom of Risk: Why I couldn't stay an accountant24:34 – Design Thinking: Why you must fail fast to learn fast25:21 – Perfectionism is a "disguise" for not being a doer26:44 – The Irony: High risk in business, playing it safe in love28:32 – Why your partner will either "make or break" your career30:43 – Learning to Trust: "Trust but verify" vs. "Trust blindly"32:19 – Building an immunity to failure (Thanks to Dad)34:36 – "Feel the emotion, but don't unpack your suitcase"38:05 – Dealing with Society: Hiding my career pivot for a year41:44 – Protecting your energy from "What if?" people43:20 – Listener Dilemma: Feeling guilty about taking breaks from the hustle45:14 – Sabi or No Sabi: Fake vacation photos & ghosting clients47:03 – One final tip: "It all works out"Which risk do you find harder to take: a financial/career risk or a romantic risk? Let's have a real talk in the comments! 👇

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