"The question is not simply, 'What am I doing?' The deeper question is, 'Who am I being?'" — Tovi C. Scruggs
In this episode of Moving Forward: Conversations on Culture, Identity, Healing, and Hope, Linda Anderson sits down with Tovi C. Scruggs—transformational coach, mindfulness practitioner, educator, and advocate for belonging—for a powerful conversation about identity, self-discovery, courage, and the lifelong journey of becoming.
For nearly three decades, Tovi has helped individuals and organizations navigate change by shifting the focus from what we do to who we are being. Her groundbreaking work on Leadership Do-ing to Leadership BE-ing challenges conventional ideas about success and invites us to look beyond titles, accomplishments, and expectations to discover the deeper values, beliefs, and experiences that shape our lives.
Drawing from her experiences as an educator, former high school principal, certified Integral Coach, and Certified Dare to Lead Facilitator trained by Brené Brown, Tovi shares insights that are both deeply personal and universally relevant.
Together, Linda and Tovi explore:
• What it means to live beyond the labels, roles, and titles that often define us
• How belonging shapes our identity and our sense of possibility
• The lessons learned from nearly 30 years of daily meditation and silent retreats
• Why many of us struggle to sit quietly with ourselves
• The connection between self-transformation and systemic transformation
• What compassion, healing, and courage have in common
• How connection can help bridge division and foster understanding
• The qualities that create cultures where people feel seen, valued, and safe
• Navigating life's transitions, uncertainty, and the "messy middle"
• What gives Tovi hope about the next generation of leaders and changemakers
• The transformative power of asking, "Who am I being?"
Throughout the conversation, Tovi reflects on the importance of authenticity, self-mastery, joy, and connection. She speaks candidly about learning to reconnect with herself, embracing vulnerability, and discovering that true leadership begins not with authority or accomplishment, but with awareness, courage, and presence.
This episode is an invitation to slow down, listen deeply, and reconnect with the parts of ourselves that often get lost beneath responsibilities, expectations, and achievement. Tovi reminds us that meaningful transformation begins when we create space to understand who we are, what matters most, and how we want to show up in the world.
Whether you are navigating a career transition, retirement, loss, caregiving, personal growth, or simply searching for a deeper sense of purpose, this conversation offers wisdom, hope, and a powerful reminder that who you are becoming may be more important than anything you accomplish.
To learn more about Tovi's work, coaching, speaking, and transformational leadership programs, visit:
Tovi C. Scruggs Leadership and Coaching Resources
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Podcast produced by Ury Gonzalez