In a culture that still glorifies hustle and resilience, what happens when the very grit that built your success starts quietly depleting you?

In this episode, Jenn sits down with Amanda Goetz—two-time founder, four-time CMO, mom of three, and author of Toxic Grit—for a conversation that feels like a deep exhale for ambitious women everywhere. Amanda has built brands, raised millions, navigated divorce, and reinvented herself more than once. And somewhere along the way, she realized that the same grit that fueled her rise was also quietly burning her out.

Her book, Toxic Grit: How to Have It All and Actually Love What You Have, is already resonating with thousands of women questioning hustle culture and craving something more sustainable. Today, we go there with her.

Together, we talk candidly about:

• The difference between healthy ambition and "toxic grit"—and how to know when you've crossed the line

• Why "alignment" can feel impossible when you're juggling multiple identities at once

• Amanda's Character Theory and how naming the different parts of yourself can reduce guilt and increase presence

• The concept of "spin cycles" and why intentional resets—both daily and seasonally—are essential for ambitious women

• How to set an "enoughness line" so you can push in one season without losing yourself in the process

• The seasonality of ambition—blooming, going back into the dirt, and trusting the cycle

We also dive into practical rituals for transitioning between roles (from CEO to caregiver to partner to solo human), and how even small boundaries—like a commute bath or a 20-minute phone-free walk—can radically shift how you show up.

This conversation is for the woman who's been praised for her grit. The steady one at home. The overachiever at work. The one who "just gets it done," even when she's running on fumes. It's for anyone who has quietly wondered why doing it all still doesn't feel like enough—and who is brave enough to imagine something different.

Amanda reminds us that ambition isn't the enemy. But unchecked ambition without reflection, rest, and recalibration? That's where it gets dangerous. Balance, she argues, isn't about every day feeling even. It's about zooming out and honoring the macro rhythms of your life.

If you've been living in hustle mode for longer than you'd like to admit, this episode might just be the permission slip you didn't know you needed.

Links & Resources
👉 Toxic Grit: How to Have It All and Actually Love What You Have by Amanda Goetz
👉 Amanda's newsletter, Life's a Game
👉 Toxic Grit Workbook

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What does burnout really look like for high-functioning women and mothers?

In this powerful episode of Mighty as a Mother, we sit down with clinical psychologist and maternal mental health expert Dr. Lilit to unpack the emotional and physical toll of modern motherhood. Together, we explore why so many women feel exhausted, disconnected, and stretched too thin—and why those feelings often go unnamed and untreated.

If you've ever asked yourself, Why am I so tired even after I sleep? Why do I feel like I'm falling apart even when things look fine?, this conversation is for you.

Dr. Lilit brings both professional expertise and lived experience to our dialogue, offering real-world insight into how stress manifests in the body, why so many mothers struggle with identity loss, and what we can do—practically and compassionately—to feel more like ourselves again.

In this episode, we explore:

• Signs of maternal burnout and chronic stress that often go unnoticed

• How emotional overload shows up in the body (think: shoulder pain, tight chest, irritability)

• The difference between functioning and feeling well

• How to create micro-moments of nervous system regulation, even in a packed day

• The importance of self-repair and modeling emotional honesty for our kids

• Why many moms carry guilt for simply needing a break—and how to release it

Key topics we cover:
maternal mental health support, burnout in motherhood, nervous system tools, mental load of parenting, working mom wellness, somatic signs of stress, how to set emotional boundaries, postpartum mental health, emotional regulation for moms

Links & Resources

👉 The CDC on connected playtime and child development: Link
👉 Follow Dr. Lilit on Instagram: @dr.lilit
👉 Learn more about her practice: www.drlilit.com
👉 Jenn's favorite mindfulness tool: Calm App
👉 Our most-downloaded episodes on burnout:

🎧 E39: Boundary Setting, Beating Burnout, and Reclaiming Yourself – Part 1
👉 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/e39-boundary-setting-beating-burnout-and-reclaiming/id1687678053?i=1000679065346 (podcasts.apple.com)

🎧 E40: Boundary Setting, Beating Burnout, and Reclaiming Yourself – Part 2
👉 https://podcasts.apple.com/vn/podcast/e40-boundary-setting-beating-burnout-and-reclaiming/id1687678053?i=1000680685965 (podcasts.apple.com)

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In a world that rewards busyness and glorifies the grind, it's no wonder so many of us feel chronically behind—on time, on rest, on joy.

In this episode, we sit down with Cassie Holmes, chaired professor at UCLA's Anderson School of Management and bestselling author of Happier Hour, for a deeply grounding conversation about why time always feels scarce—and what actually helps.

Cassie doesn't just study happiness and time poverty. She's lived it. As a working mom navigating the seasons from toddlers to teens, she brings both data and deep empathy to the question so many women are asking: Why does it feel like there's never enough time—and how do we stop feeling so depleted by it?

Together, we talk candidly about:

• What time poverty really is—and why women and mothers feel it most acutely

• Why busyness has become a badge of honor (and how it quietly erodes our happiness)

• The surprising research behind giving time to get time

• How small mindset shifts—like "less doing, more being"—can radically change how our days feel

• Why connection, not productivity, is often the missing ingredient

• The myth of needing more time—and the reality of finding joy inside the time you already have

• How to "time craft" your days and weekends so they feel more spacious and meaningful

• Why happiness isn't selfish—and how it actually makes us better partners, parents, and leaders

This conversation is full of permission slips: to stop racing the clock, to stop saving joy for "someday," and to notice the ordinary moments that won't always be there—bedtime cuddles, slow mornings, shared chairs at the beach.

Links & Resources
👉 Happier Hour by Cassie Holmes

👉 Research on time poverty, happiness, and well-being

👉 Cassie's website

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