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In the inaugural episode of the Men's Healing Network Podcast, Vincent Perez sits down with educator and Journeyman Institute co-founder Alex Craighead and his father, retired hospice chaplain and Episcopal priest Tom Craighead.
Released on Father's Day, this conversation explores what men's healing looks like across generations. Together, they reflect on childhood wounds, community, rites of passage, vulnerability, purpose, service, and the lifelong journey of becoming more fully human.
Tom shares how stillness, deep listening, and authentic community helped him move from living primarily in his head to reconnecting with his heart. Alex discusses his work guiding young men through rites of passage, the importance of helping boys discover their gifts, and why healing requires the courage to look honestly at ourselves.
Along the way, they explore:
- Why healing is not a destination but an ongoing practice
- The role of fathers, mentors, and elders in men's lives
- How community can become medicine for isolation
- The importance of rites of passage and intentional transitions into adulthood
- Learning to embrace vulnerability and emotional honesty
- Service as a path toward meaning and fulfillment
- The gifts each of us carries and how those gifts serve our communities
- Why play, connection, and belonging matter at every age
This episode is a powerful reminder that healing happens in relationship—and that none of us are meant to do it alone.
Memorable Moments
- Tom reflects on discovering authentic community later in life and learning to bring his head, heart, and actions into alignment.
- Alex shares the story of his wilderness vision quest and the realization that he didn't need to find a gift for his people—he was the gift.
- A moving reflection on Alex's mother's response to a cancer diagnosis and the healing power of playfulness in the face of hardship.
- A candid discussion about masculinity, emotional suppression, and the need for spaces where men can tell the truth about their lives.
Key Quote
"You are the gift. What are your gifts for your people?"
About the Guests
Alex Craighead is an educator, mentor, and co-founder of Journeyman Institute, where he helps guide young men through rites of passage, mentorship, and transformative learning experiences. For more than two decades, he has dedicated his work to helping young people discover their gifts, find purpose, and build meaningful community.
Tom Craighead is a retired hospice chaplain and Episcopal priest whose life's work has centered on listening, service, spiritual care, and helping people navigate life's most meaningful transitions.
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The Men's Healing Network Podcast explores what healing means through conversations between men whose lives have shaped one another. Each episode invites listeners into authentic dialogue about purpose, grief, fatherhood, belonging, community, and what it means to become more fully human.
If this conversation resonates with you, share it with a father, son, brother, mentor, or friend. Someone may be waiting for exactly this invitation. Learn more at MHN.Life.