You're changing. You're putting in the work. But your spouse doesn't see it, doesn't trust it, or doesn't believe it's real.

In this episode, we break down the four most common reasons your efforts aren't connecting—and what to do about it. You might be changing the wrong things, not changing enough, communicating your progress the wrong way, or falling apart under pressure. Any one of these can sabotage everything you're working toward.

If you're the only one fighting for your marriage right now, this is how you start making your changes believable.

You can't make your spouse work on the marriage. And the harder you try to control the outcome, the more you push them away.

But you're not powerless. You have something more effective than control: influence.

In this episode, we break down why trying to control your spouse backfires, what it actually takes to heal a marriage when only one person is trying, and four strategies to inspire real change—without ultimatums, pressure, or manipulation.

Everyone's calling their ex a narcissist these days. But what does that actually mean—and what should you do if you think your spouse might be one?

In this episode, we break down the truth about narcissism in marriage, expose the misconceptions, and share what actually works. After 18 years helping couples heal their marriages, we'll show you why the popular advice about narcissistic spouses might be dead wrong.