I dive into the works of Dostoyevsky, Nietzsche, and Kant to share five psychological pillars that will help you build inner sovereignty and resilience. We explore why rejecting modern victimhood in favor of radical responsibility is the only path to true psychological maturity. I also explain why a harmless man is not a good man, discussing the necessity of integrating your aggression and choosing meaningful suffering over empty comfort. Finally, I challenge you to speak the truth even when it risks your social approval, as this is essential for maintaining trust in yourself.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 The 5 Psychological Pillars from Great Philosophers

00:50 Dostoyevsky on Responsibility vs. Victimhood

10:15 Kant and the Power of Self-Mastery

18:00 Nietzsche on Integrating the Shadow

26:02 Why Comfort is Not Meaning

32:57 Choosing Truth Over Approval

40:28 Recap: The 5 Pillars of Manhood

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I break down Tyler Durden as a psychological and masculine archetype, not as a role model, but as a warning signal. I explore why Fight Club still resonates with men today, what Tyler gets right about masculinity, and where his version of power goes off the rails. This is a conversation about repression, shadow integration, discipline, and why unintegrated strength turns destructive. The goal is not to become Tyler Durden, but to understand what he represents and integrate it responsibly.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 - Why Tyler Durden Still Possesses the Male Psyche

01:45 - Tyler Durden as a Symptom of Emasculation

03:34 - The Hollow Man and Consumer Masculinity

05:25 - Tyler Durden as the Shadow Masculine

07:14 - The Absence of Masculine Initiation

08:05 - Pseudo-Initiation and Self-Destruction

09:00 - Pain, Brotherhood, and Fight Club

10:53 - Violence vs Contact With Reality

12:44 - Comfort, Weakness, and Modern Men

13:30 - What Tyler Durden Gets Right

15:46 - Power Without Consciousness

17:54 - Tyranny, Cult Dynamics, and Shadow Possession

20:20 - Project Mayhem and Destructive Identity

22:20 - Rage Masculinity in the Modern World

23:31 - Integration Over Destruction

24:43 - Disciplined Power and True Masculine Initiation

25:57 - Tyler Durden as the Alarm, Not the Answer

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I break down 10 things men must stop doing in 2026 if they want their strongest year yet. I talk about why being busy is not the same as making progress, how avoidance quietly erodes integrity, and why a regulated nervous system is becoming a competitive advantage. If you want more clarity, direction, and self-leadership this year, this episode will challenge you to cut what is weakening you and focus on what actually matters.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 - Why 2026 Requires Elimination, Not More Motivation

01:31 - Stop Confusing Motion With Progress

03:07 - Stop Avoiding Hard Conversations

04:47 - Stop Letting Dopamine Run Your Life

06:50 - Stop Treating Your Body as Separate From Your Mind

08:52 - Stop Blaming Your Past for Your Present

10:29 - Stop Trying to Be Like Everyone Else

11:42 - Stop Living With an Unregulated Nervous System

13:58 - Stop Outsourcing Meaning and Validation

15:32 - Stop Doing Everything Alone

17:47 - Stop Waiting for “Someday”

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I break down why anxiety is so prevalent today and why much of it is being intentionally manufactured. I explore the existential and psychological forces driving anxiety - from social media comparison to nervous system overload. I also share three practical tools you can start using immediately to reduce anxiety and regain a sense of internal stability. If you struggle with chronic worry or overwhelm, this episode will give you a new framework for understanding and working with anxiety.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 Why anxiety is increasing by design

00:46 Anxiety as a future-based distortion

03:19 Global instability and manufactured fear

04:31 Comparison addiction and social media

06:12 The breakdown of objective truth

08:51 Disagreement as relational death

11:13 Nervous system sensitivity and stress

17:15 Three tools to reduce anxiety

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I sit down with AJ McQueen for a deeply honest conversation about trauma, masculinity, faith, and self-acceptance. AJ shares how violence, heartbreak, and survival shaped his early life, and how learning radical acceptance became the turning point in his growth as a man. We talk about sex, discipline, purpose, boundaries, and why so many men live stuck in survival mode. This is a raw, reflective discussion about becoming grounded, choosing yourself, and learning how to live with integrity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 - Introduction and Meeting AJ

01:00 - Heartbreak as a Catalyst for Growth

05:10 - Sex, Addiction, and Masculinity

10:00 - Growing Up Around Violence

16:20 - Defining Manhood and Fatherhood

21:15 - Autonomy, Boundaries, and Self-Respect

28:45 - Saying No and Taking Back Control

35:15 - Trauma, Gifts, and Acceptance

40:30 - Confidence Through Radical Acceptance

48:25 - Survival Mode vs Self-Understanding

53:30 - Enoughness and Self-Worth

01:01:10 - Travel, Perspective, and Expansion

01:06:20 - Faith, Spirituality, and Service

01:12:30 - Closing Reflections and Gratitude

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I break down what I call the modern man’s mother wound - how growing up with a deep distrust or disdain for men can shape a man’s identity, relationships, and sense of self. I explore how this wound forms, how it shows up in adult life, and why so many men struggle with boundaries, authority, and male relationships as a result. Most importantly, I walk you through practical, grounded steps you can take to reclaim your masculinity and build a stronger, more integrated sense of who you are as a man.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 - The Modern Man’s Mother Wound

01:06 - Growing Up Distrusting Men

03:40 - Father Absence and Its Impact

06:01 - Missing Masculine Modeling

07:34 - The Negative Mother Complex

10:35 - How the Mother Wound Shows Up

16:29 - Healing Through Male Connection

24:24 - Integrating the Mother Wound

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I sit down with Josh to unpack what’s really happening with men today, why so many feel disconnected, and how culture, economics, and identity play into the decline we’re seeing. We get into whether men are being blamed, why institutions repel them, and how service can restore purpose, direction, and confidence.

I also ask Josh what he fears most for the next generation and what responsibility, excellence, and manhood should look like in today's world. This one will challenge you, and I hope it pushes you to think, act, and share it forward.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 Welcome and opening question

03:10 Crisis of connection

08:25 Are men being seen as the problem

12:40 Economics, purpose, and identity

18:05 Why institutions repel young men

23:30 Why California launched this program

28:55 The role of service

33:10 Mentoring, coaching, and responsibility

39:20 Modern politics and polarization

45:05 How men build friendships

50:10 Skills, jobs, and opportunity

56:30 What Josh fears for his sons

01:00:45 Redefining responsibility and excellence

01:05:20 Closing thoughts and how to get involved

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What happens when a Christmas moment goes completely off the rails? I share a genuinely hilarious Christmas story, reflect on the year that’s been, and take a moment to say thank you to you and yours for being part of this journey. It’s a lighter, more personal conversation about family, perspective, and gratitude. I hope it gives you a laugh and a reminder of what actually matters during the holidays.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 Christmas Check-In

01:12 Setting the Holiday Mood

02:45 The Christmas Story Begins

05:18 When Things Go Sideways

08:04 The Aftermath

10:22 What It Taught Me

12:06 Gratitude for the Audience

13:40 Final Holiday Wishes

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Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment

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Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.

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