🔍 Episode Summary:

Sex isn’t just about sex—it’s about connection, freedom, and authenticity.

In this episode, Chris and Patrick sit down with Dr. Stephen de Wit, a leading sexologist and therapist who has spent over two decades helping people reclaim joy and intimacy in their relationships. They explore why sex remains one of the most suppressed and misunderstood aspects of human life, and how healing in this area creates ripple effects across friendships, workplaces, and communities.

With humor, candor, and expertise, Dr. de Wit breaks down the myths and taboos that keep people stuck, offering a vision of sexual empowerment that’s free from shame, guilt, and fear. This is a conversation about honesty, healing, and the kind of connection we all crave.

💡 What You’ll Learn:

• Why breakthroughs in sex often spark transformations in all areas of life
• The cultural baggage that keeps people disconnected from their sexuality
• How to dismantle shame and create more open conversations
• The role of communication in building authentic intimacy
• Practical ways to reframe sex as empowerment rather than fear

🎧 Listen now and discover how talking openly about sex can transform not just your relationships, but your entire life.

👥 Let’s Connect

Website: https://www.makingyourselfclear.com/

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/31PIiklfkBV3fwbCt9i20h

Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/making-yourself-clear/id1798973268

RSS Feed: https://media.rss.com/makingyourselfclear/feed.xml

iHeartRadio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-making-yourself-clear-269115710/

Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b62ac464-9205-46bf-a4e8-f66a16fd61e1/making-yourself-clear

Castbox: https://castbox.fm/channel/id6491442

LinkedIn:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-iskander/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/patrick-wj-neary-578ba8241/

👥 Connect with Dr. Stephen de Wit

https://drdewit.com/

https://www.instagram.com/drdewit/

stephen@drdewit.com

https://sexlifeunleashed.com/

🔍 Episode Summary:

What do magic tricks, TEDx coaching, and effective leadership have in common? They all rely on storytelling that connects.

In this episode, Chris and Patrick are joined by Chris Graham, founder of TellPeople.ca and former head of speaker coaching for TEDx Toronto. Together, they explore the deep power of storytelling—not just to entertain, but to foster empathy, create trust, and build stronger relationships at work and beyond.

Chris Graham shares lessons from coaching thousands of professionals across law firms, government, and industry, revealing what most people get wrong about storytelling—and how to fix it. The conversation is full of practical insights, personal anecdotes, and one big reminder: your story isn’t about you. It’s about connection with your audience.

💡 What You’ll Learn:

• Why storytelling is the foundation of trust and connection
• How to make your stories land—without rambling
• Why even smart professionals often tell bad stories (and how to fix that)
• How to go beyond "narration" to evoke emotion
• What magic and TEDx have in common with workplace communication
• The one mindset shift that makes your stories more powerful instantly

🎧 Listen now and learn how to tell stories that stick, connect, and lead.

👥 Let’s Connect

Websites:

https://www.makingyourselfclear.com/

https://www.tellpeople.ca/

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/31PIiklfkBV3fwbCt9i20h

Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/making-yourself-clear/id1798973268

RSS Feed: https://media.rss.com/makingyourselfclear/feed.xml

iHeartRadio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-making-yourself-clear-269115710/

Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b62ac464-9205-46bf-a4e8-f66a16fd61e1/making-yourself-clear

Castbox: https://castbox.fm/channel/id6491442

LinkedIn:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-iskander/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/patrick-wj-neary-578ba8241/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-graham-tellpeople/

🔍 Episode Summary:

Ever notice how your inner critic can be a real jerk?

In this punchy, thought-provoking episode, Chris and Patrick tackle the invisible commentary running through your mind—your self-talk. They call out the ridiculous, often toxic messages we give ourselves, and offer a radically simple idea: what if you stopped believing your own bullshit?

With humor, empathy, and a refreshing dose of realism, they explore how negative self-talk becomes habitual, how it keeps us stuck, and what to do when that inner voice starts trash-talking. You’ll learn how to separate fact from fiction, shame from accountability, and discomfort from destruction.

This isn’t about pretending everything is great—it’s about seeing things clearly, especially when it comes to how you treat yourself.

💡 What You’ll Learn:

• Why your internal monologue might be full of lies
• How to identify unhelpful self-talk and challenge it
• Why shame isn’t a useful motivator (and what is)
• How to create internal boundaries for your own voice
• A practical tool for interrupting the shame spiral
• The difference between true reflection and self-punishment

🎧 Listen now and start a new conversation—with yourself.

👥 Let’s Connect

Website: https://www.makingyourselfclear.com/

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/31PIiklfkBV3fwbCt9i20h

Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/making-yourself-clear/id1798973268

RSS Feed: https://media.rss.com/makingyourselfclear/feed.xml

iHeartRadio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-making-yourself-clear-269115710/

Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b62ac464-9205-46bf-a4e8-f66a16fd61e1/making-yourself-clear

Castbox: https://castbox.fm/channel/id6491442