You’re not going to like everyone you work with.

And some of them aren’t going to like you, either.

That doesn’t mean you can’t do good work together.

In this episode, Joe talks about what happens when you stop trying to win difficult people over and start treating their behavior for what it often is: a constraint you have to navigate.

You'll hear about protecting your energy, documenting everything, finding shared ground, choosing your battles — and recognizing when the real problem isn’t the person at all, but the system around them.

Because the truth is...you don’t need harmony to make progress. You need clarity, boundaries, and the ability to keep doing good work anyway.

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Each episode explores the human side of UX and product design careers — confidence, power, politics, impostor syndrome, boundaries and the challenges that never show up in books or conference talks.

No hype, no platitudes, no bullshit.

Just honest perspective, earned the hard way.

If you're not careful, being diplomatic can slowly, steadily turn into avoidance.

In this episode, Joe talks about the trap of constant translation — softening problems, filtering dysfunction, and protecting others from discomfort — and why that keeps people (and teams) stuck.

You’ll learn what healthy confrontation looks like, how clarity builds trust, and when it’s time to say the quiet part out loud.

This is about honesty — delivered with equal doses of care and courage.

If this episode resonated, consider subscribing to Making UX Work.

Each episode explores the human side of UX and product design careers — confidence, power, politics, impostor syndrome, boundaries and the challenges that never show up in books or conference talks.

No hype, no platitudes, no bullshit.

Just honest perspective, earned the hard way.

Somewhere along the way, many of us start believing that our work is proof — proof that we're talented, valuable, or worthy of being in the room.

In this episode, Joe explores why it's so easy to tie our identity to what we produce...and how that mindset leads us to defend artifacts instead of solving problems.

You'll learn why outcomes matter more than deliverables, why simplicity is often harder than complexity and what it takes to separate your self-worth from your work.

This one is about letting go of the need to protect what you create — and finding confidence in the impact you leave behind.

If this episode resonated, consider subscribing to Making UX Work.

Each episode explores the human side of UX and product design careers — confidence, power, politics, impostor syndrome, boundaries and the challenges that never show up in books or conference talks.

No hype, no platitudes, no bullshit.

Just honest perspective, earned the hard way.