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  • The Way Feminism Failed Women (And Men)

    The Way Feminism Failed Women (And Men)
    Mar 25 2026

    “Feminism has always been a force for good and equality.” Is that really the full story? In this conversation with philosopher and author Carrie Gress, we explore how feminist ideas have shaped modern relationships, and why many men and women are now questioning the narrative they were raised to believe. 👉 Book an online session: https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/

    Carrie Gress, Catholic philosopher, author of The End of Woman and co-creator of Theology of Home, joins me for a direct and thoughtful discussion about the deeper impact of feminist ideology on marriage, family life, and how men and women now relate to each other.

    We talk about the growing divide between the sexes, the loss of trust, and the quiet confusion many people feel but struggle to name. From rising mental health concerns to the breakdown of shared meaning in relationships, this conversation looks at what’s changed, and what it’s costing us.

    We also explore ideas that are rarely spoken about openly, including the concept of “toxic femininity,” the devaluing of motherhood, and why conversations about men’s needs are often met with resistance.

    This is not about blaming one side. It’s about understanding what has gone wrong, and what needs to be rebuilt.

    In this episode:

    ✔️ Why many people are starting to question feminism’s impact on relationships

    ✔️ The growing mistrust between men and women

    ✔️ Mental health struggles in both sexes, and what’s driving them

    ✔️ Why “toxic femininity” is rarely discussed

    ✔️ The devaluing of motherhood and its wider consequences

    ✔️ Why talking about men’s needs creates backlash

    ✔️ The impact on children and future family life

    ✔️ How modern culture shapes how we see each other

    ✔️ Why restoring trust between men and women matters

    ✔️ What a more grounded, family-centred life could look like

    👉 Find Carrie Gress:

    • Website: https://www.carriegress.com/

    • Theology of Home: https://theologyofhome.com/

    • Bio: https://www.carriegress.com/about

    💬 Let me know in the comments: Do you think feminism has helped or harmed modern relationships? What are you seeing in your own life?

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    📌 Hashtags

    #Feminism #MarriageAdvice #MensIssues #CouplesTherapy #RelationshipAdvice #CarrieGress #MarriageCounselling #IntimacyInMarriage #LauraHow #TheologyOfHome #
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    25 min
  • Feminism’s War On Men & Boys | George ‘TheTinMen’

    Feminism’s War On Men & Boys | George ‘TheTinMen’
    Feb 7 2026

    "The Future is Female." But where does that leave our sons? In this conversation with George from The Tin Men, we examine the silent crisis facing men and boys, the institutional bias in our schools and courts, and why society seems to have lost its compassion for male suffering.👉 Book an online session: https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/

    George, the creator behind The Tin Men, joins me for a critical look at how modern narratives are failing a generation of young men. From classrooms where boys are subjected to "misogyny training" and viewed as potential threats, to family courts that presume fathers are second-class parents, we explore how these systemic biases are destroying lives.

    We discuss the devastating data on male suicide, the widening education gap, and why standing up for boys has become a revolutionary act.

    In this episode:

    ✔️ The "War on Boys" in education: Why boys are falling behind

    ✔️ "Misogyny Training": How schools are teaching boys self-loathing

    ✔️ The "Violent Male" Myth and its impact on Family Court

    ✔️ Why society struggles to feel empathy for men

    ✔️ The link between relationship breakdown and male suicide

    ✔️ Institutional bias: Is the system rigged against fathers?

    ✔️ How to protect your sons from toxic narratives

    ✔️ Why "The Future is Female" is a dangerous slogan

    ✔️ The importance of male advocates like The Tin Men

    ✔️ How we can build a future that values both sexes

    👉 Find The Tin Men:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetinmen/

    Blog: https://thetinmen.blog/

    💬 Let me know in the comments: Do you think schools and society are biased against boys? What changes have you noticed?

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    📌 Hashtags #TheTinMen #MensMentalHealth #WarOnBoys #FamilyCourt #Feminism #LauraHow #EducationGap #MensRights #FathersRights #Masculinity #SystemicBias #BoysCrisis
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    57 min
  • Making Intimacy Sacred | Zac Fine & Marijke Roberts

    Making Intimacy Sacred | Zac Fine & Marijke Roberts
    Feb 3 2026

    I'm joined by two therapists from my practice, Zac Fine and Marijke Roberts, for the second episode of our monthly series exploring how to restore sacred connection in long-term relationships.👉 Book online sessions with Zac or Marijke: https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/

    When intimacy becomes mechanical or disappears entirely, couples lose more than just sex, they lose sacred space together. We discuss how to move beyond "getting the deed done" and rediscover intimacy as a profound, connected experience that honours both partners.

    👉 Book a session with Zac: https://laurahow.com/therapists-zac-fine/

    👉 Book a session with Marijke: https://laurahow.com/therapists-marijke-roberts/

    In this episode, we discuss:

    ✔️ Why sacred intimacy matters more than mechanical sex

    ✔️ Creating liminal space—ritual moments outside everyday life

    ✔️ Moving from "I want sex" to "I want connection with you"

    ✔️ Simple practices: eye contact, attuned breathing, mindful touch

    ✔️ The "Kings and Queens" exercise for asking and receiving

    ✔️ How porn culture has replaced sacred sexuality with performance

    ✔️ Responsive desire and why women often need different pathways to arousal

    ✔️ Attachment wounds that block intimacy and how to heal them

    ✔️ Turning conflict into curiosity when one partner withdraws

    ✔️ Why recovery is slow, human-paced work, not a quick fix

    We'll be recording this podcast monthly, and we'd love to hear from you.

    👉 Leave your questions in the comments for the next episode.

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    Sacred intimacy, sexless marriages, creating connection, responsive desire, attachment healing, and rediscovering meaningful sex in long-term relationships.

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    ⌚️ Timestamps:

    0:00 - Introduction: Welcome to Love and Cherish Podcast

    0:23 - Why Men Want Enthusiastic Partners: The Deep Need to Feel Wanted

    1:57 - Creating Sacred Spaces for Intimacy: Moving Beyond Mechanical Sex

    6:22 - Practical Connection Exercises: Eye Contact, Breathing, and Touch

    10:48 - Learning to Listen to Your Body Instead of External Advice

    13:56 - Kings and Queens Exercise: Taking Turns Asking for What You Want

    16:32 - Getting Curious About Resistance: Why Intimacy Feels Hard

    19:29 - Personal Story: Understanding Shame and Childhood Wounds in Relationships

    24:26 - Attachment Theory and Healing: Moving Toward Secure Relationships

    26:05 - Closing Thoughts: Embracing the Slow Process of Growth

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    📌 Hashtags:

    #SacredIntimacy #SexlessMarriage #IntimacyInMarriage #MakingLove #ResponsiveDesire #LiminalSpace #AttachmentHealing #MarriageTherapy #LoveAndCherishPodcast #ConnectionOverSex #MindfulIntimacy
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    27 min
  • The Truth About Feminism’s Impact on Marriage and Men | Janice Fiamengo

    The Truth About Feminism’s Impact on Marriage and Men | Janice Fiamengo
    Jan 17 2026

    "Feminism has always been a force for good and equality." Is that really true? In this conversation with retired Professor Janice Fiamengo, we examine feminism's actual origins, its pervasive influence on modern relationships, and why so many men and women are waking up to a very different reality than what we've been told. 👉 Book an online session: https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/

    Professor Janice Fiamengo, creator of The Fiamengo Files video series and author of Sons of Feminism, joins me for an unflinching look at how feminist ideology has shaped our attitudes toward men, marriage, and family life. From classrooms teaching children that men are the problem, to therapy rooms filled with women who've been taught to fear and distrust their husbands, we explore how these ideas have taken root and what the cost has been to both sexes.

    This conversation challenges the narrative that feminism's only critics are those who hate women or want to deny them opportunities. Instead, we examine the historical record, question why certain perspectives have been suppressed, and ask what happens to societies that tell men they don't matter.

    In this episode:

    ✔️ Why feminism was never really about equality (the historical evidence)

    ✔️ How anti-male messaging appears everywhere (schools, therapy, media)

    ✔️ The victim mentality and why it's so appealing (and so destructive)

    ✔️ What happens when women lose faith in men

    ✔️ The natural order of family life and why it matters

    ✔️ How to recognize feminist ideology in your own thinking

    ✔️ Why restoring faith between the sexes is essential

    ✔️ The good news: men don't actually want to harm women

    ✔️ What a life centered on family and gratitude actually looks like

    ✔️ Why psychological problems shouldn't be blamed on an entire sex

    👉 Find Janice Fiamengo:

    • The Fiamengo Files (YouTube): https://www.youtube.com/@StudioBrule

    • Substack: https://fiamengofile.substack.com/

    • Book: Sons of Feminism: https://amzn.to/3Zf2DBZ

    💬 Let me know in the comments: Has feminist ideology affected your view of men or marriage? What's your experience been?

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    #Feminism #MarriageAdvice #MensIssues #CouplesTherapy #RelationshipAdvice #JaniceFiamengo #MarriageCounselling #IntimacyInMarriage #LauraHow #FiamengoFiles #TraditionalMarriage #FamilyLife
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  • Sex Starved Marriages & Healing After Infidelity | Michele Weiner-Davis

    Sex Starved Marriages & Healing After Infidelity | Michele Weiner-Davis
    Dec 30 2025

    Michele Weiner-Davis joins me for a conversation about sexless marriages, desire differences, resentment, and how couples can rebuild intimacy after betrayal. 👉 Book an online session: https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/

    Michele is a therapist and bestselling author known for her work with sexless marriages, infidelity recovery, and long-term relationship repair. We talk about why sex is never just sex for many people, how shutdown and withdrawal slowly erode closeness, and why so many couples wait too long to ask for help.

    This conversation offers practical, compassionate guidance for men and women who feel stuck, lonely, or unsure how to reconnect again.

    In this episode we explore:

    ✔ What “sex-starved marriage” really means

    ✔ Why long-term sexlessness damages connection and trust

    ✔ The silent expectations low-desire partners often hold

    ✔ When anger and withdrawal take over the relationship

    ✔ Why feelings cannot be the only guide in intimacy

    ✔ Responsive vs spontaneous desire, especially for women

    ✔ Why communication style matters more than frequency

    ✔ Ways to approach the conversation with more success

    ✔ How to support healing after infidelity

    ✔ Why hope is possible even after years of shutdown

    We would love to hear from you.

    👉 Leave your questions in the comments for future episodes.

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    🔗 Michele Weiner-Davis Books

    Sex Starved Marriage → https://amzn.to/49xZiUA

    Healing from Infidelity → https://amzn.to/491pAi1

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    🔗 Connect with Michele Weiner-Davis

    Website → https://www.divorcebusting.com/

    TEDx Talk → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ep2MAx95m20

    YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/@DivorceBusting1

    Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/micheleweinerdavis

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    ⌚ Timestamps

    00:00 Introduction

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    📌 Hashtags

    #SexlessMarriage #InfidelityRecovery #MarriageCounselling #ResponsiveDesire #SexStarvedMarriage #RelationshipTherapy #IntimacyInMarriage #MarriagePodcast #AffairRecovery #MicheleWeinerDavis
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    57 min
  • Sexless Marriages & Gender Division | Zac Fine & Marijke Roberts

    Sexless Marriages & Gender Division | Zac Fine & Marijke Roberts
    Dec 23 2025

    I’m joined by two therapists from my practice, Zac Fine and Marijke Roberts. This informal conversation marks the start of a new monthly series where we speak openly about marriage, intimacy, sexlessness, consent, and the growing tension many couples feel between men and women. 👉 Book online sessions with Zac or Marijke: https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/

    We talk honestly about what happens when sex disappears from a long-term relationship, why this causes deep distress for many people, and how fear, withdrawal, resentment, and cultural messaging pulls couples apart.

    👉 Book a session with Zac: https://laurahow.com/therapists-zac-fine/

    👉 Book a session with Marijke: https://laurahow.com/therapists-marijke-roberts/

    In this episode, we discuss:

    ✔️ Why long-term sexlessness is a serious relational issue

    ✔️ Consent, fear, and confusion around initiating sex in marriage

    ✔️ How power struggles and withdrawal develop over time

    ✔️ Why sex often means reassurance, grounding, and connection for men

    ✔️ Responsive desire, willingness, and curiosity in long-term intimacy

    ✔️ How couples can get stuck, and what helps them soften again

    ✔️ Why healing is possible, even when patterns run deep

    We’ll be recording this podcast monthly, and we’d love to hear from you.

    👉 Leave your questions in the comments for the next episode.

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    ⌚️ Timestamps:

    00:00 Introduction

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    📌 Hashtags:

    #SexlessMarriage #MarriageTherapy #SexInMarriage #ConsentInRelationships #IntimacyInMarriage #GenderDivision #LongTermRelationships #marriagepodcast #AttachmentAndIntimacy #LoveAndCherishPodcast
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    38 min
  • Chris Hemmings | How Modern Therapy Is Failing Men

    Chris Hemmings | How Modern Therapy Is Failing Men
    Dec 14 2025
    Why do so many men struggle to engage with therapy, and why do so many who try it drop out feeling misunderstood or dismissed? In this podcast episode, I’m joined by Chris Hemmings, a therapist who works exclusively with men and the founder of Men’s Therapy Hub, a growing UK directory connecting men with male therapists. Together, we explore why men are a minority on both sides of the therapy room, why male distress is so often misread, and how the therapy profession itself may be failing the very men it claims to help. Chris draws on his background as a former BBC journalist, his clinical work with men, and his experience building Men’s Therapy Hub to talk honestly about masculinity, shame, emotional suppression, and the cultural messages that leave many men feeling like a problem rather than a person. In this episode, we discuss: ✔️ Why men are a minority in the therapy profession and among therapy clients ✔️ Why many men drop out of therapy early and feel misunderstood ✔️ How men are socialised differently, and why therapy often ignores this ✔️ Masculinity, shame, and emotional isolation ✔️ Why many men only seek help when they’re already on their knees ✔️ The limits of “just talking about feelings” for male wellbeing ✔️ Why action, accountability, and relationship matter in men’s therapy ✔️ How men can find therapists who actually respect and help them 💬 Join the conversation in the comments: What do you think stops men from seeking help sooner, and what would make therapy feel more accessible to men? ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ About My Guest: Chris Hemmings Chris Hemmings is a therapist and coach who specialises in working with men. He is the founder of Men’s Therapy Hub, a directory created to help men find male therapists who understand male psychology and lived experience. Before training as a therapist, Chris worked as a BBC journalist, producing documentaries on men, masculinity, and mental health. He is also the founder of M-Path, an organisation that works in schools across the UK, helping young people explore identity, masculinity, and emotional wellbeing. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 Listen to No Man’s an Island Podcast: Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-mans-an-island/id1849171262 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/5QgINHeUZKorBCE4LBoBXF?si=6122fd9650e04e7f ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🔗 Follow Men’s Therapy Hub: Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/menstherapyhub/ LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/company/menstherapyhub/ YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/@MensTherapyHub ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🔔 Subscribe for weekly videos and podcasts: Men’s mental health, intimacy, sexless marriages, emotional withdrawal, rebuilding trust, and relational repair. 👉 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCE_Fs1wPifrghIGdSzsbrKg?sub_confirmation=1 ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🧠 Need support? Work with me or one of my team: 👉 https://laurahow.com/online-therapists/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 💎 More Ways to Connect & Grow: 💠 Therapists — Work with me: https://laurahow.com/work-for-me/ 💠 Join my newsletter: https://laurahow.com/newsletter-signup/ 💠 Support my work: https://laurahow.com/support/ 📲 Follow Me: Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/laurahow/ Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/laurahowcounsellor Twitter (X) → https://twitter.com/laurahow ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ⌚️ Timestamps: ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 📌 Hashtags: #MensMentalHealth #TherapyForMen #MaleLoneliness #Masculinity #MensTherapy #EmotionalHealth #MaleIdentity #MentalWellbeing #NoMansAnIsland #HealthyMasculinity #Psychotherapy #MensSupport
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    55 min
  • Laura How & Dr Psych Mom | Sex & Marriage Q&A Livestream

    Laura How & Dr Psych Mom | Sex & Marriage Q&A Livestream
    Dec 6 2025

    Join me live on Friday, December 5th at 11am EST (4pm GMT) for a candid Q&A with @drpsychmom (Dr Samantha Rodman Whiten). We’ll be answering your live questions about: Love, sex, marriage, mental health, intimacy, and anything else you want to ask us.

    ABOUT DR PSYCH MOM

    Dr Samantha Whiten is a clinical psychologist in private practice, author, podcaster, wife, and mother.

    Visit her group practice: https://bestlifebehavioralhealth.com

    Email: info@bestlifebehavioralhealth.com

    🎧 Podcast: The Dr Psych Mom Show

    Connect with her:

    Facebook: facebook.com/drpsychmom

    YouTube: youtube.com/@drpsychmom

    Instagram: instagram.com/dr.psychmom

    TikTok: tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom

    Threads: https://www.threads.net/@dr.psychmom

    Substack: https://drpsychmom1.substack.com

    Medium: medium.com/@drpsychmom

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    Writing: https://drpsychmom.com

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