Episodi

  • Mad at God, but Afraid to Admit It?
    Jan 20 2026
    In this week's episode, Jamie brings up the topic of being hurt, disappointed, disallusioned, or being downright angry with God, but somehow, unable or "prohibited" from speaking it (as if God doesn't already know your heart). They discuss how many Christians have been taught at a fundamental level that it would be "sinful" to be angry with God, and how heretical it sounds to have to "forgive God," when God is perfect!

    They get real about their own struggles around this, and when that finally changed for them. Jamie talks about the freedom that came as she got honest with God for the first time, and they also compare intimacy in marriage to intimacy with God in this context.

    Brian shares how intentionally focusing on the Christ in us, helps him see more and more that God isn't "out there," rather, IN US. Glad you're with us today.

    As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.


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    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

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    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    39 min
  • 2026 Living Our Best Life!!
    Jan 13 2026
    2026 is here, and we want it to be our best year yet - no hyperbole. Can we truly make that happen? Do we have any control over our lives, especially when we feel so many things are out of control in our world?

    In today's first episode of the year, Brian and Jamie discuss setting intentions for your day, your week, your month, which all turn into your year! They share from personal experience, how doing daily mindfulness, and meditation practices, builiding in intention through affirmations have made a profoundly positive effect in their lives. They talk about practical ways to mitigate feelings of stress or anxiety (including social anxiety), and how we have more control over our thought life than we know. They share their "words of the year," which will help them focus on the things that truly matter, and the value in sharing those words with each other and with family.

    They discuss how the holiday times can bring out a lot of crap for many, and the number of people who have already reached out for help in the new year, and their desire to help anyone who is struggling.

    As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.


    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    59 min
  • 2025 from The Rear View Mirror
    Dec 16 2025
    In this final episode of the year, Brian and Jamie take a look back over 2025, the beginning of Long Haul Marriage, dealing with the grief of their less than sanctimonious departure from previous ministry positions, starting a new business TOGETHER, and testing the strength of their 35 year marriage in the most stressful pressure cooker in recent history! They talk of the ups and downs, and realize with grateful hearts, that there have been way more ups than downs! They talk about the rewards of their ministry, as well as lessons they've learned, and how their own marriage has grown through the process. They share eternal gratitude for everyone who supports their ministry, and every couple that trusts them with their relationship. They look forward to 2026 with excited and humbled hearts!

    Merry Christmas and Happy New Year from us! See you next year!!

    REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - buy on Amazon today!

    A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

    Brian also mentioned his previous book, Confessions of a Horrible Parent, the Art of Making Your Mistakes Matter, also on Amazon.

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.


    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    48 min
  • (Parenting) Lessons from the Hot Tub
    Dec 9 2025
    In today's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss the always daunting, and tricky task of parenting - especially in today's culture where social media, and "popularized" parenting pressures from all sides, can make us question if we're doing anything right!! They discuss the stress of the holiday times, many times made worse by us working ourselves into a frenzy as parents, trying to be the "perfect" gift-givers for our kids.

    They talk about their serendipitous conversation with 2 other couples in a 103 degree "World Spring" hot tub, which led to an incredible bonding experience, as they all shared just how hard it is to parent our kids these days. We all love our children, and for sure mean well, but many times, our deepest intuitions will be tested, and although there may be a societal tidal wave in an opposite direction, many times those "popular" opinions will prove to be incorrect.

    Brian shares some insightful pages from The Hunter Gatherer's Guide to the 21st Century, by Heather Heying, and Bret Weinstein.

    As always we so appreciate you listening. Enjoy!

    REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - buy on Amazon today!

    A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

    Brian also mentioned his previous book, Confessions of a Horrible Parent, the Art of Making Your Mistakes Matter, also on Amazon.

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.


    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    38 min
  • Men are Better Movers Than Women - There, I Said It! (Brian)
    Dec 2 2025
    Today is Giving Tuesday (12/2/25)!! Looking for a good cause and a year end tax deduction? We would be honored if you would consider supporting Long Haul Marriage. A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    In today's episode, Jamie and Brian talk again about how much their donors and supporters mean to them, and how they literally COULD NOT DO Long Haul Marriage without them! Brian loves "never having to say 'no'." They get into their fun Thanksgiving holiday, Brian being under the weather, and his recent fall while trying to load in the Christmas tree with his favorite moving buddy, Jamie. They discuss their favorite parts of their ministry, and then get into how hard the holidays are for many. They also talk about some exciting things to come in the new year - but first, we gotta make it through Christmas!!! It's coming fast, so buckle up, and get those Christmas lists knocked out early (but do it with thoughtfulness, and intention!).

    REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - buy on Amazon today!

    A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.


    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    50 min
  • Happy Thanksgiving!! Or is it?
    Nov 25 2025
    Next Week is Giving Tuesday!

    Looking for a good cause and a year end tax deduction? We would be honored if you would consider supporting Long Haul Marriage. A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    In today's episode, Jamie and Brian talk about their family's Thanksgiving Day traditions, and everything from fried turkey to tryptophan couch comas. Navigating crazy, chaotic holiday times can be daunting...from "crazy Uncle Bob" to "just another thing to do," oh, and those Christmas gift lists that are looming, and the pressure of Black Friday, and Cyber Monday - we talk about it all and more of this week's roadcast. Drop us a comment with your favorite family tradition, and your least favorite.

    REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - buy on Amazon today!

    A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.


    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    51 min
  • Does Real, Passionate Love Truly Exist, and Does It Ever Last?
    Nov 18 2025
    Looking for a good cause and a year end tax deduction? We would be honored if you would consider supporting Long Haul Marriage. A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    In today's episode, Brian and Jamie listen to a young, 20-something woman, ask questions that many young women are asking..."Is there really such a thing as passionate, romantic, even "obsessive" love that can last a lifetime?" "If it does exist, can it truly last, forever?" The deep questions reflect the fears that are prevalent among many, born from models of marriages and relationships where the honeymoon phase faded quickly, and one or the other bailed, getting tired of their partner, or where people chose to stay, but ended up resenting each other, and constant bickering or bitterness became the norm in a loveless marriage.

    Brian and Jamie dispell the myth that such "fairy-tale" love (with no ups and downs) truly exists, but also discuss the value in choosing to love, making the decision to stay, even during the natural hard times that inevitably come in every relationship. They talk about the incredible rewards of true love that is expressed in gratitude and forgiveness, loving even during tough times, which yields great gains through the pain.

    It's not either/or - either it's amazing forever, or it ends up "sucking." They share how they are now in the most passionate, romantic, chemistry-filled season of their entire 36 years, and how it's always hard-fought, but totally worth it!

    REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - buy on Amazon today!

    A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.



    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    35 min
  • Does My Marriage Need An Overhaul??
    Nov 11 2025
    In today's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss their "Overhaul" package - the Marriage Intensive, and what all that entails. They discuss how much they personally loved the time spent with the couple over an entire Saturday, and the value they see in being able to knock out so much, all at once, without the hassle of rescheduling, trying to coordinate time off work, childcare, and all that. More than anything, they talk about loving to see couples commit to trying something new, and how inspiring it is to see couples become "unstuck," progressing, opening their hearts again towards one another, and regaining hope that their marriage can thrive FOR THE LONG HAUL!

    REMEMBER BRIAN'S NEW BOOK - PICK UP YOUR COPY TODAY...

    A Testament To My Wife, available now on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4okTbI8

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.

    A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit ⁠longhaulmarriage.org⁠, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.

    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    41 min