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This episode is full of optimism for a change. I wanted to live in the joy of the 2026 midterms and how I am feeling about life and the possibilities lately. It's the most sunshine and rainbows I think I have created in a long time. I also talk about my evolving desires in my romantic and personal life and we spend the end of the conversation discussing my frustrations with how we don't understand privilege when we discuss our own privilege in regards to Cardi B's back and forth with Mona from the JB Podcast about colorism. This is a more light hearted episode. Enjoy it.

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This week was supposed to be more concise but alas I did get on a tangent after talking about my emotional experience with my first Mozart opera and began to wander into some pretty unfiltered thoughts about who I am and who I am becoming post divorce as a romantic seeker. I think I am changing but I don't shun it. Join me for this more chill episode

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This episode is about the WNBA being infiltrated and hijacked by white right wing babble that is illogical and designed to distract from the other things going on in the world and how bigotry is illogical and when you really take time to sit with it you can't justify it. We also discuss our obsession with the penis changing who and what we are via sex and how that has informed body counts and biphobia and why I think you need to be reading liberation texts and mentally preparing for the intellectually dishonest battles ahead.

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This episode focuses on me expressing how joyful I am even in this immensely busy season in my life. I have been immersed in self love, motivating myself to push myself further in my career and working on becoming an even happier and more whole woman and mother. In that time I have also experienced so much optimism seeing the work of Zohran Mamdani in New York. Is it possible we could be on the brink of understanding as a society that the care of the collective is for the greater good of us all instead of rugged individualism and competition. Chris Brown faces some consequences across the pond and I talk about how I think Situationships ar just fine if you are honest about what you want and still have great boundaries. Sometimes that is the best we can show up for someone else when we are leading separate lives. The downside is when you want to have something you can't. Agree? Disagree? Just show up and tell me what you think. Thanks for listening

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I recorded this as a catharsis. I felt so much pain on Father's Day this year like I could not have fathomed. It was my first totally sober Father's Day. And I am no heavy drinker or much of one at all. I get a drink when I go to restaurants and I usually will drink when I venerate my ancestors so three times a year with them and an occasional dinner drink. This past year my GLP1 has made alcohol just absolutely undesirable so for the first time I drank nothing while venerating my father and the pain was crippling. I was depressed most of the day in a way I had not been in a long time. Sometimes I feel like the love has no where to go but it remains so present. All I could do was talk and vent. This episode is me releasing that as best as I could. I hope anyone else grieving the loss of a parent finds something of value here

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Horror is having such a moment right now and I cannot recommend this film enough. This review has spoilers so please skip this episode if you have not seen the film. This is something I want you to experience first had with little known if you can. If you have seen it definitely listen and tell me your thoughts and reactions to this amazing piece of horror.

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This week I sort of ramble about my feelings about what has been happening to black women at the hands of men and how women have every right to ask for whatever when they are choosing to deal with men because the potential of harm is so great. Join me and tell me what you think.

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This week we discuss the mess around the Democratic Party and Eric Swalwell and how we need ethics rules that make being sexually undisciplined disqualifying for public office and how men are allowed to be cheaters but still considered trustworthy because people think lying to a woman is acceptable but you should have different ethics when it comes to men. We also wrap up this discussion talking about how Black people have co opted tactics from their oppressor via the religion foisted upon them by said oppressor to look the other way while they justify giving money to abusive people like Chris Brown and abuse apologists like Usher for their own entertainment. Thank you for your ears

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