We did the thing you’re never quite sure you’re ready for—we read the comments. The thoughtful ones, the confusing ones, the ones that made us pause, nod or quietly rethink things. If you’ve ever hesitated before opening a comment thread, or wondered what happens on the other side of the mic, come sit with us.

Notes/additional info:

• At 3:07, the individual Melody is referring to is Roxane Gay, not Rosamund Gay.

Related links:

• Episode 010: "Who's helping who? When support feels like an accusation"
• Episode 001: "Are you a failure? When proven methods don't work for you"
• Episode 002: "Are you judging me? Or is it my trauma?"
• Episode 004: "Is my body wrong? Unlearning the lies about our bodies"
• Episode 009: "Is it me? Rewiring relationships without gaslighting myself"
• Article "Four guiding questions for discerning what's yours to carry—and what you need to lovingly set down"

✨ Ready to be a little kinder to yourself? Download our free 5-day self-compassion challenge—with daily prompts, gentle exercises and tools to help you stop the spiral of self-criticism and start speaking to yourself like a friend.

In this episode, we’re looking back at the moments from past conversations that stuck with us. The ones that shifted something inside us weeks or even months later. As we celebrate a whole year of Life in the Grey (what?!), we’re revisiting the episode that changed the way we see relationships and unpacking why some dynamics feel so complicated once we’re a little older, wiser and more healed.

Related links:

• Episode 009: “Is it me? Rewiring relationships without gaslighting myself”
• Episode 001: “Are you a failure? When proven methods don't work for you”

✨ Ready to be a little kinder to yourself? Download our free 5-day self-compassion challenge—with daily prompts, gentle exercises and tools to help you stop the spiral of self-criticism and start speaking to yourself like a friend.

Ever feel guilty for getting annoyed at the people you love most? You’re not alone. In this episode of Life in the Grey, we explore that tricky space where love and irritation collide. From fleeting frustrations with your partner, child or friend to the guilt that sneaks in afterward, we talk through why these feelings happen, what they really mean and why having them doesn’t make you a “bad person.”

Related links:

• Article: “What to do when my child is out-of-control” (about emotional regulation)

✨ Ready to be a little kinder to yourself? Download our free 5-day self-compassion challenge—with daily prompts, gentle exercises and tools to help you stop the spiral of self-criticism and start speaking to yourself like a friend.