“Well, that’s just dumb.”

The words hung in the air. The conversation stalled. And that was exactly the point.

Dr. David Ludwig has spent more than 60 years in the counseling room, listening to thousands of people caught in conflict. At 88, he can practically script the fight before it starts. In this episode, he reveals why the arguments we keep having with the people we love most are so predictable, and why they’re so hard to escape.

It starts with something invisible. Every unresolved argument leaves something behind, lingering in the room long after the words are gone. Dr. Ludwig calls them “mood particles,” and once enough of them build up, it only takes one spark.

Then he reaches for a massage stick and presses it into a painful knot in his shoulder. What he says next will change how you think about old wounds, and why forgiveness may take far longer than you’d expect.

And don’t miss the story of a daughter who dreaded every visit to her mother, until the day she walked in and said, “Stop, Mother.” What happened next surprised everyone, including her.

One principle ties it all together, and it might be the hardest thing you ever practice: the relationship matters more than being right.



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Everything Kathleen owned was gone. Her home was sold, her son was living with his father, and she was sleeping in a truck.

Then a stranger gave her a ride to an AA meeting and talked about Jesus the whole way. She fell asleep in her chair and slept through the entire thing. That night ended in an arrest, and she calls it "the beginning of the ending."

It was hard to believe she's the same girl who was once the happiest kid in a church-going family, until her parents' divorce at eleven sent her looking for belonging in all the wrong places. By fourteen she was drinking. Years later she had a fantastic job making great money, a new home, and a new car. On paper, she had it all. But she wasn't walking with the Lord; she was too busy, and it wasn't long before it all came crashing down.

Through it all, two things never let go of her: a mom who kept showing up with prayers, and a worn-out Bible that turned up by the trash cans after everything else was taken, her grandmother's phone number still written inside.

Today, Kathleen sponsors women, serves her community, and sings her testimony on the Discovery stage. Her advice to anyone who feels too far gone: "If nothing changes, nothing changes."

What starts as a conversation about how humans treat each other turns into one of the most unfiltered episodes of Life Between Sundays yet. Dean sits down with Smith Sharpe and asks him something most people would never admit out loud - and Smith answers it anyway: a lifelong fear that, born in a different time and place, he might have become "a really good Nazi."

From there, the conversation goes places most podcasts won't touch. The words we say that cut deeper than broken bones. The grudges we secretly replay on a loop until they poison everything. And a candid, no-agenda conversation about abortion - including a ministry called Elizabeth's House that's trying to offer real answers instead of just opinions.

The whole conversation was sparked by a recent, tragic loss in our community - a reminder of just how high the stakes are when it comes to how we treat one another. This isn't a comfortable episode. But it might be the one that changes how you see the people around you, and yourself.

Heads up: this episode touches on sensitive topics, including violence and abortion. Listener discretion advised.

From professional kickboxing and a life headed in the wrong direction to becoming an ordained pastor, Chad Freitag’s story is proof that no one is beyond God’s reach. In this episode of Life Between Sundays, you’ll hear honest stories about transformation, humility, marriage, ministry, and learning to follow God in the middle of real life. Chad shares how faith didn’t just change his Sundays, it reshaped the way he works, prays, serves, and sees the people around him.

Turn in for thoughtful conversation, humor, and real-life encouragement to help navigate the six days between Sundays - and discover how faith can transform the ordinary moments of life. Like, comment, and subscribe!

In this episode, Dean is joined by Jeff Whittle, the President of Ecclesia Construction Company. Ecclesia is the design and build general contractor company building the new Worship Center for Discovery Church. But that is not what this conversation is about. This discussion dives deep into how Jeff turned his faith into a critical part of his company’s culture.

Turn in for thoughtful conversation, humor, and real-life encouragement to help navigate the six days between Sundays - and discover how faith can transform the ordinary moments of life. Like, comment, and subscribe!

In this episode, Dean sits down with his friend Sonny Roseman, a true pillar of Discovery Church. If you know Sonny, you love him. If you want to get to know him, you can find him in the front left section at the 11:15 service every Sunday.

In this conversation, Sonny shares wisdom from a life rooted in strong faith, offering encouragement for business, insight into building a lasting relationships, and perspective on staying grounded when life gets tough.

Turn in for thoughtful conversation, humor, and real-life encouragement to help navigate the six days between Sundays - and discover how faith can transform the ordinary moments of life. Like, comment, and subscribe!

In this episode Dean sits down with Michael Jordan, a licensed counselor and stage 4 cancer survivor, for a powerful conversation on resilience, faith and what it really means to keep going when life gets hard. His story is honest, hope-filled and deeply encouraging.

If you or someone you love is walking through a difficult season, this episode is for you.

Turn in for thoughtful conversation, humor, and real-life encouragement to help navigate the six days between Sundays - and discover how faith can transform the ordinary moments of life. Like, comment, and subscribe!