In today's episode of Let's Be Holy for Real, Stephanie and Erica unpack the difference between leading and controlling, honoring versus idolizing, and being guided versus blindly following. They also share personal insights on what it looks like to know the Word for yourself, walk in discernment, and respond when something doesn't feel aligned. Whether you're in leadership or under leadership, this conversation in both a heart check and a call higher.

What We Talk About:

• Why accountability must exist at every level
• True leadership models Christ, not control over people
• Knowing the Word for yourself is essential
• The danger of blind loyalty and spiritual idolatry
• Why everything and everyone must ultimately point back to Christ

Today, we're talking about something that a lot of believers feel, but don't always say out loud: getting tired. Not tired of God...not tired of the walk... but tired in the walk. Because somewhere along the way, many of us were taught, or maybe just picked up, that being saved means always strong, always having it together, always saying "I'm good." But today we're pulling the cover off that. We're talking about what it really looks like to be tired and still faithful!

What We Talk About:

• Difference between quitting and needing strength
• The pressure to always appear okay ("all is well" culture)
• Crawling toward Chritst is still moving foward
• We are helpers one to another
• Wanting to appear "together" instead of being healed
• Transparency with God invites His power

In this episode of Let's Be Holy for Real, Pastor Stephanie and Dr. Erica Jewell dive into the realities of navigating life when it feels overwhelming—when “life be lifing.” They explore how to maintain faith, persevere, and stay rooted in Christ during challenging seasons. From the importance of spiritual rhythm and “basic training” in faith to letting go of pride and truly surrendering to God, Stephanie and Erica share practical insights and encouragement for living holy in real-time.

What We Talk About:

• Life will happen and it can be tough
• When under pressure, we often rely on ourselves... why?
• Many struggles are self-inflicted by not surrendering to God or bringing issues to Him in prayer.
• Faith matures through practice; when life gets chaotic, prior spiritual training allows us to stand firm.
• Dependence on God is a continual choice, not a one-time event.
• Shift your mindset; run to God first, not last.