La notion de "famille" suite au placement-Conceptualising family after being care copertina

La notion de "famille" suite au placement-Conceptualising family after being care

La notion de "famille" suite au placement-Conceptualising family after being care

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Pour faire suite au dernier épisode du podcast du CCTEA qui portait sur la parentalité chez les anciens jeunes placés, cette fois-ci c’est au tour de Annie et de Janis de nous parler de leur conceptualisation de la famille, et comment leur rapport à la famille a été façonné par le fait d’avoir grandi sans la présence régulière de leurs parents biologiques. Puisque Annie et Janis ont eu des trajectoires de placement très différentes, leur perspectives dresse un portrait de différentes visions possible de la famille, et comment la famille se construit pendant et suite au placement. Cet épisode est en français. Following from the last episode of our CCCYT podcast, which focused on parenting experiences among former youth in care, this time Annie and Janis share how they conceptualize family and how their relationship with family was shaped by growing up without the regular presence of their biological parents. Since Annie and Janis had very different placement trajectories, their perspectives provides different possible visions of family and how family is built during and after placement into Care. This episode is in French. A translation of the full episode transcript is available below: Transcript: Introduction: Anaïs Cadieux Van Vliet Welcome to Beyond the System: former youth in care, empowered by experience. Hosted by the Canadian Consortium on Child and Youth Trauma, Beyond the System is conceptualized and produced by a committee of lived experts who are former youth in care and advocates. Following on from the last episode, which focused on parenting experiences among former youth in care, this time it's Annie and Janis's turn to share how they conceptualize family and how their relationship with family is shaped by growing up without the regular presence of their biological parents. Since Annie and Janis had very different placement trajectories, their perspectives provide different possible visions of family and how family is built during and after placement into care. This episode is in French. You will find a translation of the full episode transcript in the show notes. We hope you enjoy listening to this episode as much as we enjoyed making it. Annie Hello, today we are with Janis and Annie, two former youth in care. Today, the topic we will be discussing is family. Janis decided to stay in touch with her biological family, while Annie decided to cut ties. That's what today's podcast will focus on. Janis Yes exactly. Annie, how did you decide to stop talking to your biological family? Can you explain why? And how? Annie To make a long story short, I was placed in foster care at the age of 2, and I went back and forth between my biological family and foster families several times. When you're young, you love your mom and dad, you love them, you carry them in your heart. They're still our parents, the people who matter most to us. But as you grow up, you lose some of that naivety and you understand certain things. For me, the realization came quite early, around the age of 10, I think. I understood that my parents, whom I now refer to as my progenitor, had not played their role of parents. That's how I started to distance myself from progenitors. But it's not like, you know, I say that, I call them my progenitors, but I didn't do that from the age of 10. I called them Mom and Dad in my everyday life, and it was only at the age of 25, during my last therapy sessions, that I decided to call them progenitors to differentiate between Luc and Pauline, who are now my family, the ones I consider my mother and father, but I don't call them Mom and Dad. It's something, it's a word I'm not really able to say, like I'll never tell you I'll never call my mother Pauline mom or Luc dad. When I have (called them mom or dad), I kind of reacted like, "Oh my God, I'm sorry..." They're like: “you know, it's okay.” I'm not an adopted child. That's something you should know too, that I wasn't adopted. It's something I wish Youth protection Services had permitted, for me to be adopted. To this day, my biological father is deceased and my biological mother is still alive, and then, It's still kind of heartbreaking, like, OK, is she OK, is she not OK? But at the same time, I haven't spoken to her in a long time, but on the one hand, I'm fine. But the little Annie inside me would like to hear from her, so that's kind of how I feel about my biological family and my family today. Janis Do you ever feel like talking to her even though you've cut off contact? Do you have any questions or things you'd like to ask her? Annie I would say that there are times when I catch myself thinking about her, but at the same time, I don't really want to know how she's doing. But the part of me that doesn't want to know how she's doing is really the grown-up Annie of today, on the cusp of 30, who doesn't need that toxic person in her life. But the little Annie ...
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