Discover the Questions You NEED to Ask Before Getting Serious in a Relationship!

In this episode of Life in Depth with Steph & Jamie...

We delve into some crucial questions we believe are worth asking before getting deeply involved in any relationship.

Jamie and Steph share their personal journey and the importance of understanding peoples values through their up-bring & past relationships / experiences.

This episode aims to help listeners navigate the dating landscape more effectively by encouraging introspection and transparency.

Tune in to learn how to better vet potential partners and avoid unnecessary heartache!

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 - Sneak Peek of the Episode

01:06 - About This Episode & Recap of the Previous Episode

03:39 - The Story of the Lonely Snake

05:44 - Why Hissing is Important when Dating

08:03 - Attract Love through Self Love

09:06 - Nexus Nutrition (Sponsorship)

11:26 - Why these Questions are Important

14:28 - When Jamie Vetted Steph with these Questions

15:00 - Question #1: What are your beliefs on God?

17:01 - Question #2A: What's your relationship like with your parents?

21:22 - Question #2B: What's your parents relationship like?

25:49 - Question #3: How did your last relationship end?

29:43 - Question #4: How many relationships & sexual partners have you had?

33:53 - Question #5: What's the biggest challenge you've ever faced?

41:47 - Question #6: How do you feel about joint accounts?

45:53 - The Importance of Alignment

47:35 - Word of Caution when Dating

48:33 - Recognise Your Wounds while Appreciating Your Value

49:32 - The Story of the Priceless Jewell

52:26 - Summary & Ideas for Future Episodes

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REFERENCES:

1. “Psychopathy and victim selection: the use of gait as a cue to vulnerability” by A.Book, K.Costello & J.A.Camilleri

2. The Map of Consciousness by Dr. David R. Hawkins

3. Re-examining the link between premarital sex and divorce. Journal of Family Issues, by Smith, J., & Wolfinger, N. H. (2023)

4. “A Diamond is Forever" and Other Fairy Tales: The Relationship Between Wedding Expenses and Marriage Duration. By Francis, A. M., & Mialon, H. M. (2015); Economic Inquiry 1919–1930

UNDERSTANDING MEN: What Women Might Not Know and What Men Need to Realise.

In this podcast episode of Life in DEPTH with Steph & Jamie...

We delve into various aspects of men’s lives that women might not fully understand and that men might have yet to grasp about themselves.

We explore significant statistics showing men’s struggles, such as issues of self-worth, physicality, mental health, and societal expectations.

The conversation covers the fundamental differences between the masculine and feminine energies, and offers advice for healthy relationship dynamics.

Both Stephanie Sanzo & Jamie Bisset share personal stories and experiences, providing valuable perspectives on nurturing and guiding your partner.

This episode sheds light on the intricacies of the male experience and the importance of mutual support and understanding in relationships.

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 - What's to come in this episode...

01:36 - Men Love Stats, Logic & Facts

02:42 - The Aussie Accent

04:03 - Life in Australia

05:34 - Introduction

06:30 - About this Episode

07:29 - Steph Gets Nervous (Masculine & Feminine Dynamics)

08:42 - Men Have a Greater Desire for Sex

11:04 - Men Tend to Work More than Women

11:25 - Men are More Likely to Experience Erectile Dysfunction if their Wives Earn More

11:54 - Men are More Likely to become Transgender

12:33 - Men are More Likely Commit Suicide

12:46 - Boys are More Likely to Commit Crime Growing Up in a Single Parent Household

13:09 - Steph Exposes Her Parenting & The Struggles Mothers Often Face with their Sons

15:07 - Gender Roles & Sexual Dynamics (Masculinity vs Femininity)

18:10 - Why Steph (& Women) Often Struggles to Accept Compliments

19:38 - How Confidence in Women is Perceived by Men

20:16 - The Story of How Jamie Fell In Love with Steph

26:32 - Why Women Often Don't Bother Trying to Understand Men

29:17 - Fairy Tales & the Roles of Men & Women

30:50 - Men Pedestalize Women due to their Inherent Value

31:26 - How the "Adam & Eve" Story Relates to Men & Women's Worth

33:12 - Woman's Biology Forces Them to Face Physical Hardship

34:01 - Men's Biology Allows them to Avoid Physical Hardship

35:08 - Men Need to Voluntarily Pursue Physical Hardship

36:04 - How to Communicate that Your Partner is "Out of Shape"

40:39 - Why Men Find their Purpose & Identity in their Work / Career

43:00 - Why Men Like Video Games

43:38 - Why Women Aren't Typically Attracted to Gamers

45:54 - How Women Can Support Men to Find Their Purpose

47:30 - How Women Can Better Communicate with Men

49:23 - Learning How to Communicate with the Opposite Sex is Essential for a Healthy Relationship

50:28 - The Misconception About Unconditional Love & the Need for Compromise

52:43 - A Summary of the Differences Between Men & Women

53:30 - The Spiritual Battle of Manhood

54:53 - Boys Aren't Taught How to be Men in Western Culture

56:10 - Ladies - Gracefully Challenge Your Man!

58:31 - Men - Be Cautious of the Manosphere

59:05 - Conclusion and Future Topics

REFERENCES:

1. Clark & Hatfield (1978 & 1982) “How receptive are men versus women to sexual invitations?”

2. U.S. Census Bureau American Community Survey (ACS) 2017

3. Pierce, Dahl & Nielsen (2013) “Psychological and Sexual Costs of Income Comparison in Marriage”

4. American Psychological Association (2009) “Report of the APA Task Force on Gender Identity & Gender Variance”

5. Suicide Statistics Provided by The US National Institute of Mental Health

6. Coughlin & Vuchinich (1996) “Family experience in preadolescence & the development of male delinquency”

In this episode, Steph & Jamie work on demystifying femininity to help both women & men gain a greater insight into how the feminine shows up in relationships & everyday life!

The conversation covers how to maintain mental balance, manage the dynamic of giving and receiving love, and how to navigate the impact of social media on self-perception.

They also discuss share some practical tips on how women can embrace and embody their feminine core, and how men can better understand & navigate the feminine to avoid conflict in their relationship.

Please follow the channel so you don't miss future episodes!

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00:00 - What's to Come in this Episode...

00:01:33 - Introduction

00:04:13 - Steph's Controversial Claim

00:07:51 - Are Women Crazy?

00:09:03 - Understanding the Feminine Energy

00:10:16 - Steph Discloses Her Fears

00:14:05 - The Pressures of Social Media for Women

00:16:34 - The Pressure of Aging for Women

00:17:52 - The Feminine Struggle with Criticism

00:20:57 - What is the Femininity & Masculinity?

00:21:46 - When the Feminine Reverts to the Masculine

00:23:23 - How the Feminine Relates to Biology

00:24:53 - Why Men Will Never Keep Up but Need to Try

00:26:22 - The Way to Communicate with Men Matters

00:27:37 - Should Men Try & Fix a Woman's Problems?

00:29:13 - The Danger of Men Absorbing a Woman's Vent

00:31:54 - Why Men Need Women...

00:33:52 - How the Feminine Attracts Men

00:36:03 - The Power of Femininity

00:36:47 - Resolving Conflict in Relationships

00:38:27 - Jamie's Secret to End a Fight

00:42:02 - Your Relationship is in Trouble If This Doesn’t Work…

00:44:43 - The Problem with Tinder & Hook Up Culture

00:46:07 - The Struggle Women Have Embodying their Femininity

00:50:03 - Steph Describes Femininity

00:51:10 - The Dance of the Masculine & the Feminine

00:54:05 - The Positives & Negatives of the Feminine

00:57:09 - The Softness of the Feminine

01:01:35 - The Polarity of the Feminine & the Masculine

01:03:04 - Biology Helps us Understand the Feminine & the Masculine

01:05:26 - The Feminine Needs Kindness

01:06:36 - The Problem with the "Go Hard" Philosophy

01:09:35 - Steph's Current Training Goals

01:12:58 - The Female Body Rejects Physical Brutality

01:13:33 - The Struggle with Femininity for Single Mothers

01:15:15 - Final Thoughts

In this episode, Steph and Jamie introduce the concept of the masculine & feminine energies in a relationships!

The conversation covers how men and women communicate differently & how their roles often differ in a long term relationship.

They also share practical advice on how to balance the masculine & feminine energies and improve your emotional intelligence - drawing from their personal experiences and insights.

Please follow the channel so you don’t miss future episodes!

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 - Introduction and Feedback

00:36 - Quick Summary of the Previous Episode

01:22 - The Need for Authenticity & How it Lacks in Social Media

02:38 - Communication Differences Between Men and Women

05:18 - Conflict Resolution in Relationships

06:47 - Importance of Speaking your Feelings

07:50 - Women Want Men to Grow

10:35 - Masculine and Feminine Dynamics

12:09 - Femininity isn't About What You Wear

14:07 - What are the Masculine and Feminine Energies

14:45 - Importance of Balancing the Masculine and Feminine Energies

15:14 - Common Misconceptions about Masculinity & Femininity

15:43 - Importance of Leadership for Men

17:04 - Unfair Societal Expectations on Women & Motherhood

18:33 - Women Don't Need a Successful Career to Impress Men

19:26 - Secret for Women to Understand Men

19:52 - How Women Desire Safety & Men Desire to Protect

23:02 - The Positives & Negatives of Femininity in Men

26:05 - Why Men Struggle to Express their Emotions

28:22 - How to Master Emotional Control

30:41 - The Importance of Competency for Men

33:03 - Emotional Resilience from Kids

33:29 - Step-by-Step Guide for Men to build Emotional Resilience

35:16 - Powerful Realisation about Women's Criticism

40:08 - Tips for Women to Better Relate to Men

45:29 - The 5 Love Languages

48:30 - How to be "The Man"

49:55 - Challenges for Women

52:10 - Final Thoughts

Introducing the Life in Depth Podcast by Steph & Jamie where we'll be unpacking everything she's feeling & what he's thinking!

This is our very first episode, where we'll dive deep into our journey together, from the early days of meeting at the gym, navigating relationships, and working together through various ventures.

We open up about the challenges and triumphs of balancing work, family life, and personal growth.

Join us as we discuss everything from fitness, business, and parenting to building a deeper connection and understanding in our relationship.

Get to know us beyond social media and connect with us on a more personal level.

Don't miss our candid discussions and insights!

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Introduction to the Steph and Jamie Podcast

00:02 Meet Your Hosts: Steph and Jamie

00:44 The Language of Thoughts and Feelings

01:16 From Fitness to Podcasting

02:16 A Safe Space for Vulnerability

02:50 How We Met: The Gym Story

03:19 First Impressions and Early Days

06:50 Building a Deeper Connection

08:52 The Turning Point: From Friends to More

11:52 Navigating Relationships and Attraction

13:07 The Coffee Confrontation

16:02 Realising Deeper Feelings

22:36 The Housemate Dilemma

23:13 Confrontation and Realization

24:33 Jealousy and Attraction Dynamics

28:23 The Alpha and Beta Dynamics

31:50 Working Together and Role Reversal

43:07 Personal Growth and Alter Egos

48:36 Dealing with Criticism and Public Image

53:09 Conclusion and Future Plans