Episodi

  • DVAM Pt 2 - Behind the Church Doors

    DVAM Pt 2 - Behind the Church Doors
    Oct 19 2026
    DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN THE BLACK CHURCH: LET'S TALK ABOUT IT!

    What happens when the abuser is a deacon, minister, major tithe payer or even the PASTOR himself?Does his title protect him? Does his financial influence buy silence? And where does a woman turn when the person she needs protection from is standing behind the pulpit?

    In Part 2 of my Domestic Violence Awareness Series on K’s Essence, we're confronting uncomfortable truths about patriarchy, spiritual authority, misplaced loyalty, and domestic violence in the church.

    I LOVE the church, but loving the church means holding its leadership accountable!

    The Essence of It All: The church cannot preach deliverance on Sunday and demand silence from the wounded on Monday. Listen to K’s Essence with Karen Wright Fairley on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, iHeartRadio, and other major podcast platforms. Listen. Reflect. Share. Let's break the silence!

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    “Until next time, keep God first, walk boldly in your purpose, Sisterhood is Honored and remember—you were created by God, on purpose, for a purpose. That’s the essence of it all.”
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    34 min
  • Part One - Different Face, Same Man

    Part One - Different Face, Same Man
    Oct 13 2026
    DIFFERENT FACE, SAME MAN!
    Have you ever looked back over your relationships and realized that although the men had different names and different faces, you kept experiencing the SAME problems?

    Different man. Same disrespect.Different relationship. Same manipulation.Different face. SAME MAN!
    Are we ignoring red flags because we're attracted to the person waving them?

    In Part One of my three-part Domestic Violence Awareness Series on K’s Essence, we're having an honest conversation about recognizing warning signs, identifying unhealthy patterns, and understanding the difference between LOVE and CONTROL.Remember, abuse is NEVER the victim's fault. But recognizing the signs can help us make informed decisions and protect ourselves.

    Proverbs 4:23 (KJV) "Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life."

    The Essence of It All: A different face doesn't guarantee a different future. Learn to recognize love by its character, not just its promises. Share this episode. It may be the conversation someone needs to hear.

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    “Until next time, keep God first, walk boldly in your purpose, Sisterhood is Honored and remember—you were created by God, on purpose, for a purpose. That’s the essence of it all.”
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    17 min
  • Religion Vs Relationship Pt 3

    Religion Vs Relationship Pt 3
    Oct 7 2026
    Being needed doesn't necessarily mean you're assigned. Being busy doesn't necessarily mean you're obedient. Part 3 of Religion vs. Relationship asks: Whose vision are you serving, people's, or God's?

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    “Until next time, keep God first, walk boldly in your purpose, Sisterhood is Honored and remember—you were created by God, on purpose, for a purpose. That’s the essence of it all.”
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    28 min
  • Religion Vs Relationship Pt. 2

    Religion Vs Relationship Pt. 2
    Sep 28 2026
    In Part 2 of my Religion vs. Relationship series, we're talking about Shepherds, Hirelings & Spiritual Responsibility.

    Jesus made a distinction in John 10 between the shepherd and the hireling. So what happens when leadership begins to look more like ownership than stewardship?

    We're talking about some difficult things: spiritual manipulation, guilt, control, free labor disguised as commitment to God, the use of “God told me” to pressure people and what happens when a member simply says no.
    But this is not an attack on pastors. There are faithful shepherds who pray, sacrifice, serve, teach, protect, and genuinely love God's people. They deserve our prayers, support, and honor. The question is: Does our model of spiritual leadership look like Jesus?

    Pastors are under-shepherds. Jesus Christ is the Chief Shepherd. Honor your pastor. Pray for your pastor. Support godly leadership. Receive biblical correction. But never confuse your shepherd with your Savior.

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    “Until next time, keep God first, walk boldly in your purpose, Sisterhood is Honored and remember—you were created by God, on purpose, for a purpose. That’s the essence of it all.”
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    36 min
  • Religion vs Relationship Pt 1

    Religion vs Relationship Pt 1
    Sep 21 2026
    Can we become so busy doing things for God that we stop spending time with God? In Part 1 of this three-part K's Essence series, Karen Wright Fairley examines Jesus' words in John 10 and one powerful truth: the sheep belong to God.

    Pastors and spiritual leaders have an important biblical responsibility as under-shepherds, but Jesus Christ remains the Chief Shepherd. Our relationship with a pastor, church, denomination, ministry, title, or position can never replace our personal relationship with Christ.Are you serving from obedience or guilt? Are you using your God-given gifts according to God's assignment or simply wherever someone has found a need for them?

    Do you know Scripture for yourself? And most importantly:Do you know the Shepherd's voice?“My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me.” John 10:27 KJV

    Join me for Religion vs. Relationship, Part 1: Do You Know His Voice? Next in the series: Part 2 Shepherd or Hireling? When Spiritual Leadership Stops Looking Like Jesus

    K's Essence with Karen Wright Fairley
    Faith • Leadership • Safety • Women • Life
    Sisterhood Is Honored.

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    “Until next time, keep God first, walk boldly in your purpose, Sisterhood is Honored and remember—you were created by God, on purpose, for a purpose. That’s the essence of it all.”
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    26 min
  • What is Happening to the American Family

    What is Happening to the American Family
    Sep 14 2026
    What is happening to the American family?When children turn against parents, parents fail to cherish children, and violence within families becomes another headline we scroll past, we have to ask ourselves some difficult questions: Have we become numb? Have we lost honor, compassion, accountability, and love for one another?

    In this episode of K’S ESSENCE with Karen Wright Fairley, Karen challenges us to examine our own hearts and homes. What happened to honoring our fathers and mothers? What happened to valuing the wisdom of our elders? Are we truly loving God and loving our neighbors as Christ commanded?And when disappointment with church leaders causes us to question the church, we must remember the Bereans of Acts 17:11. We can receive the Word and then search the Scriptures for ourselves.

    We may not be able to change every family in America, but we can begin with our own.“As for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.” Joshua 24:15 KJVSometimes revival doesn't need to begin in the sanctuary. Sometimes revival needs to start at the kitchen table.

    K’S ESSENCE with Karen Wright Fairley
    Faith • Leadership • Safety • Women • Life#KsEssence #AmericanFamily #ChristianPodcast #FaithAndFamily #BiblicalFamily #YearOfTheBerean #FamilyHealing #ChristianLiving #ReturnToGod #KarenWrightFairley

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    “Until next time, keep God first, walk boldly in your purpose, Sisterhood is Honored and remember—you were created by God, on purpose, for a purpose. That’s the essence of it all.”
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    25 min
  • Delay is not Denial

    Delay is not Denial
    Sep 7 2026
    What if the thing you wanted most was the very thing God was protecting you from? Sometimes God says wait—and sometimes He says, “Not that.” Let’s talk about trusting God when His answer doesn’t match our desires.

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    “Until next time, keep God first, walk boldly in your purpose, Sisterhood is Honored and remember—you were created by God, on purpose, for a purpose. That’s the essence of it all.”
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    17 min
  • The Spirit of Pride When We Forget Who Raised US

    The Spirit of Pride When We Forget Who Raised US
    Aug 31 2026
    Pride can quietly enter the pulpit, the pew, and the marketplace. In this episode, Karen examines the fall of King Saul, compromised leadership, and the danger of forgetting that every position and opportunity comes from God. Discover why humility, repentance, and keeping our eyes on the Cross are essential.

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    “Until next time, keep God first, walk boldly in your purpose, Sisterhood is Honored and remember—you were created by God, on purpose, for a purpose. That’s the essence of it all.”
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    45 min