The conversation focuses on the importance of understanding trust in adult-child relationships, particularly in the context of grooming and safeguarding. It emphasizes the need for parents to recognize the signs of grooming behaviors and to establish transparent communication and accountability in relationships involving their children.

Takeaways

• Trust requires understanding behavior
• Grooming begins with ordinary interactions

Chapters

• 00:00 Understanding Trust in Relationships
• 02:57 The Dynamics of Grooming
• 06:09 Recognizing Grooming Behaviors
• 09:01 The 4F Formula Explained
• 15:09 Access, Space, and Abuse
• 18:54 Case Studies and Lessons Learned
• 24:54 Organizational Responsibilities
• 29:58 Practical Steps for Parents
• 35:45 Creating Open Communication

The conversation features Rosalia Rivera, a child sexual abuse prevention specialist and consent educator, discussing her journey into this field, and the importance of consent education.

Rosalia shares her personal experiences that led her to create Consent Parenting and the Brave Movement, emphasizing the need for resources and support for parents navigating these issues.

The conversation focuses on the importance of education and advocacy in child protection, particularly regarding consent and the legal system's role in safeguarding children. It highlights the need for systemic change and the impact of societal attitudes towards issues like grooming and pornography.

Takeaways

• Importance of consent education
• Impact of personal experiences Education is crucial for child protection
• Advocacy can drive systemic change

Chapters

• 00:00 The Journey to Consent Education
• 24:28 Healing Through Sharing Experiences
• 30:31 Building a Network of Resources
• 36:00 Legislative Action and Prevention Strategies
• 36:56 The Role of Education in Advocacy
• 41:11 Understanding Legal Barriers to Justice
• 45:17 Finding Community and Support
• 50:22 Future Projects and Initiatives
• 54:01 Addressing Pornography and Consent
• 01:00:28 Empowering Children Through Consent Education

Check out Rosalia's work here- ConsentParenting

Anna Sonoda, LCSW, reflects on the first year of Known and Trusted, a podcast about grooming, trust, and child sexual abuse prevention. Drawing on her experience as a therapist and a mother of five, she reviews the ideas and conversations that shaped the show and shares priorities and practical invitations for year two.

• In this anniversary episode, Anna explains why prevention means looking beyond appearances and paying attention to how relationships, access, and privacy change over time.
• She revisits two core frameworks: the four F’s of grooming - flattery, favoritism, forbidden fruits, and fear - and the GAS model: grooming, access, and space.
• The show reached more than 3,775 streams in its first year. Anna highlights listener interest in episodes including “Not Just a Terrible Story,” “Trust Your Gut,” “Bando Commando,” and “A School Resource Officer.”
• Anna thanks guests who brought survivor perspectives, professional knowledge, and discussion of systems and accountability, including Stacy, Sarah, Megan Farrison, Michelle Peterson, Don McCarty, Carlos Rodriguez, Isolda, and Jeannie.
• She reflects on taking grooming-prevention conversations to Something to Say, True Crimecast, Family Matters, and CrimeCon UK, and on the value of connecting people and disciplines.
• For year two, Anna aims to feature more survivor and professional voices, explore grooming in settings such as schools, sports, faith communities, and online relationships, and make the show’s frameworks easier to apply to real situations.
• Her six invitations for listeners include reading or sharing Duck Duck Groom: Understanding How a Child Becomes a Target and Wait, That’s Weird; writing honest book or podcast reviews; sharing an episode or Substack article; bringing Wait, That’s Weird to a school; and discussing a book with a community group.
• Anna closes with a question for listeners: What is one conversation about trust or child safety you could start this week?

00:00 - Why Anna created Known and Trusted
02:39 - Why grooming can be hard to recognize
03:35 - The four F’s and the GAS model
05:33 - First-year milestone: more than 3,775 streams
08:10 - Survivor stories and the guests who shaped the show
11:17 - Taking prevention conversations to new audiences
12:55 - CrimeCon UK and the power of opening up
15:11 - Anna’s goals for the podcast’s second year
18:47 - Six ways listeners can carry the conversation forward
23:04 - What the first year reinforced, and a question for year two
26:18 - “Show up, look up, and speak up”

• The four F’s: Flattery, favoritism, forbidden fruits, and fear.
• The GAS model: Grooming, access, and space.

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