In this episode of That’s So Hindu, Mat McDermott speaks with Dr Vijay Satnarine and Dr Kavita Pallod Sekhsaria about the often downplayed and misunderstood concept of kama in Hinduism, emphasizing the importance of desire and pleasure in achieving a balanced life. The discussion critiques the puritanical mindset that has historically downplayed these aspects, particularly in the context of modern relationships and provides insights into the psychological implications of desire, the historical context of sexuality in Hinduism, and practical steps for embracing a holistic view of intimacy and pleasure.

Takeaways

• Kama is a crucial aspect of a balanced life.
• Desire should not be rejected in the pursuit of moksha.
• The Victorian mindset has negatively influenced views on sexuality.
• Intimacy and pleasure are essential for fulfilling relationships.
• Hindu teachings advocate for a holistic understanding of desire.
• Communication about sex is vital in modern relationships.
• Historical texts show a more accepting view of sexuality.
• Pleasure should be pursued ethically and consensually.
• Understanding one's desires can lead to personal growth.
• The conversation around sexuality needs to be normalized.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Kama Before Moksha

02:46 Reclaiming Desire: The Balance of Life Goals

05:58 Understanding Kama: Beyond the Sutras

08:40 The Puritanical Mindset: Historical Context

11:47 The Spectrum of Sexuality in Hinduism

14:58 The Role of Pleasure in Relationships

17:46 Navigating Modern Relationships and Intimacy

20:50 Experimentation and Mastery in Relationships

23:34 The Impact of Victorian Ideals on Hindu Thought

26:38 Addressing Swami Scandals and Human Fallibility

29:38 Practical Steps for Embracing Desire

32:45 Conclusion: Embracing a Holistic View of Desire

Keywords

Hinduism, Kama, Moksha, relationships, desire, intimacy, Victorian mindset, sexuality, spirituality, balance

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